The Scorpio Connection

Greetings all,

I'm a fellow fish, and I had a question for you. What is the DEAL with the Scorpios? Why am I so attracted to these men? LOL About three years ago I was in a relationship with one and it ended horribly because he's basically a liar and a cheat. Well, now he's come back into my life. Just like those two fish which are our symbol, one side of me says RUN AWAY, and the other side says "Three years is a long time. Maybe he's changed. And besides the sex was AWESOME!"

I think that Scorpio and Pisces understand each other's emotions in a strange intuitive way and that is why they may be drawn together, and the sparks do fly but that makes it difficult to build a solid relationship! Anyway, comments? Suggestions?

This time round you are going into this with your eyes wide open.
If it was me and I was so dam attracted to him and the sex was WOW-ish like you say:-), I'd give him a second chance. I know others will say - oh once bitten, twice shy!!!!.......he'll never change!!!! a leopard never changes his spots!!!!.....but if the first "bite" was so good - why not??!! - what have you got to lose— - How do I know he may have changed....well coz I too was once a cheat and a liar to my lover....he gave me a second chance and that changed me forever.

I only had a scorpio lover once..........we're talking Antonio Banderas here with a long pony-tail (I've a thing for ponytails!!) - he was into the kama sutra - it didn't last but boy what juciy memories:-)

Good luck.
Ax

scrop's like to sting the fish, its just a thing with them, they hang out at the pub, get board, go sting a fish. look at allen and 13 both stung.

Oh I know all about the Scorpio sting. I have Scorpio rising though, so I tend to sting back. 😉 Yeah, it sucks getting hurt but I always get my revenge. =)

scorps motto don't get mad get even. i think that's where the sting comes in. the unfortunate victim may not even realize they have done anything wrong or that they have been found out. if someone does cheat that does not mean they are always a cheater or will cheat again. forgive never forget. this takes a whole lot of work, but is it possible to just care for someone for just who they are warts and all. i'm not saying you have to take any crapola, but if you love them, just love them, feel that love in your being. this is more about you then them anyways. if the guy lies and cheats again then just love yourself and too bad for him, it is his lose.

sirengirl, i too have a scorp rising. my personal self improvement program includes no revenge. revenge is so sweet though, it is hard to give up. i know if circumstances are extreme i will retaliate. the no revenge theory will be thrown out the window and my evil twin will emerge

lynda

Hi All~

After reading your posts I am wondering about something..my North Node is in Scorpio. I do not normally seek revenge or retaliate with anyone. However, there is this one male who plays games with my emotions and has brought this trait out in me. I am not one for games, they are so silly to me. I prefer honesty...I am not mean but, I will not let someone take advantage of me. I believe now he has realized that he cannot get away with things....I have found him out. Game over and no looking back. So, is this my north mode rearing it's stingy head? Honestly, this is a first for me...I had no idea how smart I was at protecting myself. 😉

Lynda,

What does your "evil twin" do when it emerges? Can you give us any examples?

Hmmm..I only retaliate in extreme circumstances. And honestly, I usually just shrug it off and go on if it's not worth the effort. HA! I am still Pisces after all, no matter my rising sign. You have all given very good advice. I think I'll just do the fish thing and go with the flow for now. It's what we're best at right? I'll see how things unfold and make the decision later. I have missed him and his witty conversation, so at least maybe I can get that out of the deal, eh? 😉

Maybe I should go ask the Scorps what they think too? They might be able to offer some insight as well.

freebird,

i am generally an easy going fun loving person. i do get alot of opposition at times. i also get alot of attention at times. i am also able to tune into peoples insecurities or weak areas. if someone takes credit for my work for example, i will play on whatever their sore spots are in a very inocent way that makes them very mad and eventually they begin to not like me and leave me alone which is what i want anyways. i don't know if it would be more honourable to say hey, that was my work not yours and embarrass them on the spot. recently i was called immature for my taste in music. this was a young girl who i had always treated well. she had made quit afew remarks infront of others which were uncalled for, demeaning, cheap shots so to speak. i knew she was very jelious and did not like her boyfriend talking to other females, which i found rediculous, but to each his own. after this last remark i said to her boyfriend " oh by the way some girl called here for you i am not sure who she was but she said she will call back." i made my point she was polite to me after that but i sure didn't score any brownie points with her. which was what i wanted. these are games. i most definitly do not look for them they find me. if only the world were perfect.

freebird, i am also able to tune into peoples strengths and areas in which they may not see they have talent, and encourage them. i much perfer this.

lynda

i too have scorpio rising so i too want to sting back as u may say. but what's bad is that i have to becareufl and do not.

I don't know what it is!! I'm serious about that one, I fell in love with a pisces guy 8 months ago, we were liking eachother 6 months before, and go back together in august and broke up. 😢 I still love him and feel that connection with him...but this one is a pisces, im a scorpio. I don't know what it is about the connection and there is so much sexual attraction!!! I love it. There's so much more to say. I love pisces men...i reely do. pisces + scorpio=yeah!

Run! Run like hell! I've been trying to figure out this connection for years and each time I "hear" scorps and pisceans make the best combination I believe it, but after fateful and painful relationships with 3 of these men, I say forget it!!! Maybe it's different if the woman's a scorp and the man's a pisces, but for a woman who's a true piscean, these men suck!!!

I agree as well, run. I was involved with a scorpio once. Lo and behold, I ran into him this past year and see him every week now in passing. I refused to sleep with him but it was so hard to do. I just know it would have been so amazing. Even the kisses were out of this world. He went from asking how would I feel living at his home to not taking my phone calls the same week. Don't know what happened.... He just changed. I guess he did not think we would ever see each other again so I have to speak first; otherwise, he will look down or act as if he does not want to speak. NOw that I think of it, what do anyone think happened—? I think I will post this on the Scorpio board.

I've had to purge a few scorpios from my clean mind before. They are just so god dam.ned mean. But, with pluto trine my sun, I know that game and it always makes me want to step on their heads in preemptive strategic covert secretive manners. I want them to hate me because they hate themselves and see it in me. That's the only way to sting a stinger.

Well, When I would see my Scorpio friend out he wouldn't speak to me....but he would everyone else in the place....just made me think he was somewhat intimidated in a way. I didn't kiss his a*s when I seen him. he wouldn't speak but I always would catch him looking at me out the corner of his eye.and of course....he would call me later. THey can be SOO mean!! Almost evil. But that just makes me think that as mean as they are,,,,,they have to have a equally good side to them that they just seldom share.

😢 .... .. omg man.

I love Scorpions. They drive me nuts but they also are so tantalizing. I've been with my Scorpio for about 3 years. When it's good it's wonderful, when it's bad it's terrible. The sex is incredible.