Clarification

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by softy on Wednesday, September 29, 2004 and has 6 replies.

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@softy
21 Years1,000+ Posts

After browsing this board in attempts to understand the Scorpio native I have ran into a issue. Some msgs suggest that if you are interested in a Scorpio not to tell them why others advise that Scorpio's appreciate honesty and to let them know how you feel. My question is do they honestly want to know how you feel and also do they like attention from the person they are seeing or interested in? Is there a such thing as going overboard with them?

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Personally softy, I think that these type of questions would drive a person mad....only because, we cannot really understand another person, what they like or dislike...the simplest thing to me would be to be who you are and think of yourself (what makes you happy) and then.....the right person and people will come into your life. 🙂 That is sooooo much simplier..don't you think?

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@softy
21 Years1,000+ Posts

YES FREEBIRD, you are so right. As you probably have noticed I am in the anyalyze too much group,,,I haven't made it to the anylyze no more group...Hoever, I do know that it a much better group to belong too!!! LOL

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@Candle Girl
21 Years

Freebird,

You hit the nail on the head. After learning to start with yourself, you find so much in life. If you understand your own needs then you attract people with like concepts, morals, even the unique part of us that is unlike anyone else attracts certain types of people. Getting to know yourself is the key, I know that.

When my Scorpio and I disagree, I never back down, because I know who I am and stand up for my beliefs. In turn I get the respect I deserve. No two people are alike and we don't always see eye to eye, but it our differences that make a relationship work or not.

Take care,

CG

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@Freebird
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Observing is good..it is how we learn 😉 Life offers us so many opportunities to be who we are and CG you are so correct in saying that when disagreements occur we must not forsake who we are. Differences also teach us "acceptance" which is one lesson that can be so hard to learn but learn we will if we so desire.

Good to hear from you Softy and CG...sounds like life is good to you both 🙂