saying I forgive you

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by vulcan on Saturday, November 20, 2004 and has 14 replies.

Understanding Forgiveness in Astrology

Forgiveness often indicates emotional healing in astrology. When someone forgives, it can signify positive planetary influences like Jupiter or Venus promoting reconciliation and harmony. Recognizing these signs helps deepen your understanding of relationship dynamics and personal growth.

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@vulcan
21 YearsVirgo

I like to update on my post about my Scorp friend needing space. We are back on speaking terms again. Even though she hasn't said she forgave me. I think she has, I gave her a birthday card and she gave me a thank you note. I was walking down the street in the rain and she gave me a ride home. So I think she has. Wanted to thank Parallax, Candlegirl and Fiery Scorpio for your advice and keeping my sanity and waiting for her to come around.

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@Freebird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Hey Vulcan...good to hear that you are back sharing words with your Scorpie - I know that gives you a nice warm feeling. About your friend, sometimes people are not as comfortable with expressing their feelings...ie. telling someone they are forgiven. More importantly I believe the truth will come out in her actions...they speak louder ya know. I think you are right on....she has forgiven you - yipee! Enjoy creating special moments with your special friend 🙂 and, thank you for sharing your updates with us.

Freebird

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@vulcan
21 YearsVirgo

Thank you Freebird for responding. It does bring a nice feeling. I feel you are right too that she has forgiven me of course it will take time to rebuild.

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@softy
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Hi Vulcan. Thats good that she forgave you. Is she forgiving you from what you said back in August? If so, Scorpios sure are some doozies!! It just proves that they are softer than they appear to be. They just need to be handled with care and people cannot be fooled by their "toughness because they do truly feel.

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@softy
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Hi Vulcan. Thats good that she forgave you. Is she forgiving you from what you said back in August? If so, Scorpios sure are some doozies!! It just proves that they are softer than they appear to be. They just need to be handled with care and people cannot be fooled by their "toughness because they do truly feel.

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@softy
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Hi Vulcan. Thats good that she forgave you. Is she forgiving you from what you said back in August? If so, Scorpios sure are some doozies!! It just proves that they are softer than they appear to be. They just need to be handled with care and people cannot be fooled by their "toughness because they do truly feel.

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@vulcan
21 YearsVirgo

Hi Softy,
Yes, this is my Scorp friend back in August. I just have to be extra careful that I do not do that again. I thought for sure she wouldn't speak to me again.
Thanks Candlegirl, I do consider it an honor that she is speaking to me again, I sure wasn't expecting a ride home from her either. She is a special person and I was really tore up about losing her as a friend.

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@softy
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Yes. I said some really nasty things to my Scorpio friend once and he wouldn't talk to me for awhile. No matter how many Times I apologized. Eventually he forgave me, and even though I will not let him talk to me anyway, I do not say anything to him that is insulting or hurtful.

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@Riders_Angel
21 YearsScorpio

Hey Vulcan, we Scorps can be stubborn, but remember too, once you have our love and our devotion, it's really hard to lose it. Sometimes we just need some time to let go of the pain before we can face you again... Doesn't mean we don't still care.. Just means we're hurt & we hate to let anyone see that. Remember our secret side 😉

I'm so happy to hear you're talking to your friend again. As concerned as you were about losing her friendship, I'd say she's lucky to have you as a friend too. 🙂

Best of luck....
Angel

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@vulcan
21 YearsVirgo

Hi Angel,
Yes you are right I was very upset that I screwed up, and I was pretty hurt over that. I am so glad that we are speaking again. Thank you! I didn't realize that I had her devotion.

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@Riders_Angel
21 YearsScorpio

ROFLLLLLLLLLLLL Jake, you're a card!!!! I have only ever tried to kill one person - and he asked for it 😛 Sadly, I missed when I threw the couch at him 😉