What you hate about other signs

So, this Gemini that I am with don't know when to quit. He annoyed the itch outta me earlier when he lifted his foot and said to kiss it. After firmly telling him to stop, he comes back 5 seconds later to do it again, 3 times. I was already angry and he thought I was liking it. He loves to joke around, desperately tries to impress everyone. What I hate about him is that he just won't shut up. He talks too much and talks fast, and has the corniest jokes on earth, most of the time I want to smack him. And then he says I'm mean etc.... I feel like he doesn't take a lot of things seriously and he has the shortest attention span. I bizatched at him earlier telling him to listen to my entire sentence before he assumes things. I asked to lower the volume of the tv 4 times and dumb arse lowers the sound on the computer. One of my best friends is a female gem and she's pretty cool. I met a gem gal at a party, she was so pretentious and flirty to everyone.

What's your take on geminis and other signs? I have a few complaints with other signs, I'll list them all later...

BlueAngel .... these are things you should have worked through before marriage. To marry a man, or any person, only after 3 months is something only the very, very, very self-aware should try ... and then this has to be present in both partners. If self-awareness on both aren't present ... then marriage just after 3 months of dating can only run down a broken track to wreckage.


My suggestion to you (rather than entertain this hatred thread by participation of acknowledging any kind of hatred) .. is to take a temporary seperation from the newly-groom of yours for intro/retro-spections.

Your current frustration you are experiencing at this time has nothing to do with him being a Gemini .. it has to do with you leaping without looking.

lol


The bottom line ... you hastily jumped into a marriage commitment before really getting to know this guy.

Staying together when the two of you might not even be meant to be together without doing a self-check will only lead to further disgruntlements.


Or, you could just stay together to suffer through as has been suggested, and hope like hell that you won't become bitter and start blaming him for being in an unhappy relationship (as if your happiness is soley dependent upon another person).

Which is highly doubtful, since on another thread you've mentioned how you are starting to regret this marriage decision.


This is all about not being aware of yourself, and not a damn thing to do with your inability to understand men, in general, because the below quotes have nothing to do with being male, at all ....


"He loves to joke around, desperately tries to impress everyone."
"What I hate about him is that he just won't shut up."
"He talks too much and talks fast, and has the corniest jokes on earth, most of the time I want to smack him."
"I feel like he doesn't take a lot of things seriously and he has the shortest attention span"
"I asked to lower the volume of the tv 4 times and dumb arse lowers the sound on the computer."


All of that ^^^^ isn't male indicative .... it is however, you two being bonded together in legal matrimony without realization of compatibility.

HA HA haha!

P_angel, thank you for your input.

HOWEVER, weren't you married at least 3 or 4 times and I read somewhere that your first marriage was with a Gemini and you said that "it was HELL"

Lol

Hey Gemgirl, thanks for the insight and advice.

HA HA haha!

P_angel, thank you for your input.

HOWEVER, weren't you married at least 3 or 4 times and I read somewhere that your first marriage was with a Gemini and you said that "it was HELL"

Lol

Hey Gemgirl, thanks for the insight and advice.

blueangel83 12/23/2008 1:36:06 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx

I always have a positive outlook on things. That's what drives me to succeed.

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blueangel83 1/4/2009 5:46:36 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx

I always push my man to find someone on the side cuz I feel bad, he doesn't know I'm seeing someone on the side LMFAO! Anyway, it's not my fault he bores me to death.

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Title: What you hate about other signs



blueangel83 1/4/2009 7:32:45 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx

.... What's your take on geminis and other signs? I have a few complaints with other signs, I'll list them all later...






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blueangel83 12/23/2008 1:36:06 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx

I always have a positive outlook on things.

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"Anyway, it's not my fault he bores me to death."

LMAO 🙂

He is exactly what she is .. a person stuck in holy matrimony who doesn't even know if it's compatible yet.

Any person, regardless of sign, gender, age ... would have attitude.

CombatingMyOtherTwoFacedSister, you're as dumb, fake, and redundant as your avatar.

Hahaha

P_angel, I don't think I should take relationship advice from someone who's had 10 failed marriages in a row. Don't act like you're better than everyone around here as you desperately try to portray yourself as.

Anyhow, I tried something with this Gemini yesterday and it all seem to work. We're getting along again. Cool!!!

By the way, I was with a Leo for 3 years (as much as I hate cliches) it was "like a roller coaster". The Gemini has his moon in Scorpio and that's what attracted me to him. I think the problem is me because I like things to be serious and practical (due to my moon in Taurus) most of the time and he's a big joker.

The Gemini and I had a deal to try to balance things out by knowing when to take things seriously and when to joke around. A little communication comes a long way afterall *smiles*

CombatingMyOtherTwoFacedSister, you're really impressing me with your stupidity. When did I mention that my longest relationship was "1 1/2" again? You obviously failed simple arithmetic in high school. My longest relationship was 3 years. Don't forget to finish reading my sentence, I understand you have a short attention span and tend to superficially skip sentences and paragraphs at a time.

Hizaki, I don't believe I was being harsh to PA, she was indirectly hard at work at belittling me as if she's a relationship expert. I had to put her in her place so she can look in the mirror before casting stones at others.

By the way, the Gemini and I had a fun time running errands together and we shared many laughs, it was weird but I like it.

That last entry from CombatingGem was actually in place to belittle.



Hizaki ... Blueangel feels this way because she knows I'm capable of putting her in her place, and if in this place is low/down, then I have no qualms in doing so without taking into account the persons feelings because the way I rationalize it .... they weren't taking into consideration the feelings of the person they are in here bitching about or abusing, so I won't take into consideration their feelings when addressing their issue.

However, this time, my words were in place to simply point out the truth as to why she is suffering in her marriage.

"you look at things from a very realistic perspective"


That's ^^^ all there is, what is real. My mind isn't capable of looking at something any other way.

"not concentrating on the positive just what's there"


That's a very interesting thing for you to say, though, I realize that the majority of mankind would take this same position as you, as it's obvious just looking here at dxp, that most people will only acknowledge/concentrate of one aspect of energy, as if it's the only thing there.


Question: Do you think that positive is the only energy in existence? Or, let me re-phrase that: You do think that if the positive energy is the only thing embraced then it negates the existence of the negative energy being present?



Here's an example of something that comes to mind when I think about what you implied when you said that you concentrate on positive, while I see what is actually there .... a Ram friend of mine will only acknowledge the positive, and in so doing, she will go about life making huge mistakes in her life to just gloss them over because to realize mistake means she has to focus on a negative. And now, 20 years later, she still makes the same mistakes, and still bleats on about how she never saw it coming.


Without realization of failure .. there can be no success.

Would you agree with that ^^^ statement? Or disagree?

"I would never "personally" attack ANYONE"


"And that WAS a sarcastic insult."




Self awareness is key. There's a reason why a person might personally attack another, even if others don't understand their motives. However, it's imperative that we understand within ourselves, what we are doing if this assault is to have any beneficial value to the person to whom we are attempting to punch for a wake-up call.


You do indeed, insult, Combating, and have no clue that you doso.

And yes, I'm aware everytime I slap someone stupid .. for I do it intentionally to get an anticipated reaction, so the truth can be brought to the table.


I'm not complaining that you insulted her, for perhaps this is what is needed to wake her the fuck up ... I'm merely pointing out that you aren't aware that you do this, for you said you would never personally attack anyone, and then two paragraphs later, you said that it was an intended insult.


Self-awareness .......

Lol

You're definitely going to need that Master's degree working at H & M.

I almost majored in Finance, good thing I switched to Nursing where jobs are on demand with a starting salary of 65k per anum/zero experience. Tsk tsk...

By the way, the Gemini and I are not intimate by personal choice and we're actually happy about it.

"Nursing where jobs are on demand with a starting salary of 65k per anum/zero experience"



::: shakes head :::


Listen, Blueangel, I know being a Pisces myself that it's fun to lie sometimes, and it's even more prevelant in us to doso when we feel like we've been put under the gun .... however, you're going to have to learn that in order for you to lie, and it actually be plausible, then it has to be realistic.

It's common for medical facilities to be short on nursing staff .. which is something all of us who have been around for a while fully know. And do you know WHY they are always short on nurses?

Take a guess ......

Have a fantastic weekend yourself, Hizaki 🙂

Wow, the long-windedness and redundancy in here is ridiculous LOL!

Some people need to just shut up and stop with the redundant/worthless explanations. I'm sure CombatingMyOtherTwoFacedSister gets told to shut her trap a lot.

PA, that yearly income salary information about "65k per anum starting salary/zero experience for Nurses" is 100% credible. Before you make a mockery out of something, it would help you a great deal to do some research before you embarass yourself, thanks!

And it's not "shortage in staff", it's shortage of Nurses all over the continental United States due to the baby-boomers getting old.

::: shakes head :::

I don't think anyone who is a Nursing student with a GPA of 3.8 is considered "stupid". Only a jealous wannabe would think so, obviously. Right CombatingMyTwoFacedSister?

PA, you have my sympathy.

I see .. I don't believe the same way you do.

"do not like to be negative in any situation"

.. because I do not think every situation to be the same. Sometimes, people NEED to see, or acknowledge the negative. Sometimes, people just go about life, wihtout any awareness that they are in need of recognizing failure, for success.

The negative cannot be ignored ... if it is, then it encourages ignorance.

But, being a Pisces, it isn't surprising to me that you recognize this energy for what it's worth. Most people cannot, I'm afriad, and just gloss over it, as if it doesn't exist.

"It makes me happy to be positive and I think it rubs off on people around me."


Yeah, I can see this rubbing off 🙂


I suppose I should consider changing my view of what success means.