have any of you gem ladies

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Perfect Gem Angel on Wednesday, December 3, 2008 and has 6 replies.

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@Perfect Gem Angel
18 Years500+ Posts

been successful in turning someone you had "feelings", "love" for into a "booty call" ?
If so, how did that work out for ya? were you able to "get your feelings" under "control" ?

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@GEMuine
18 Years

No way. Never wanted to. If I have feelings for them, I wouldn't want to sabotage the potential for us to be something serious. And being a booty call pretty much leaves you in that category.

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@dward417
20 Years1,000+ Posts

9 times out of 10 booty calls are exactly what they are call.....BOOTY CALL...why even consider having feelings...it is what it is...

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@Perfect Gem Angel
18 Years500+ Posts

Just a question, looking for other points of views, Aqua had said something to me like this and thought it to be "normal" but i have not been able to get my mind around it.....I tried the "booty call" thing, it didnt work for me, tried the "one night stand" thing, it dint either, just not made for it i guess.......still new to it all in my opinion........

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@BaBy-GrL414
20 Years1,000+ Posts

booty call - friends with bennies to me are the same thing. i'm a professional at separating my feelings. i have only had 2 FWB so i'm no way near able to give advice. but i know this. with how well i am with controlling my feeligns, i would never attempt the FWB with someone i wanted for a relationship. that to me, is asking for trouble. Thats pure self torture. nooooo thanks.