Poppyseeds
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Why Pisces men has a rep of being a liar?
He does tell lots of little white lies, things he does for me shows he really cares. He also cried for me a few times. Especially when he broke up with me. Now we are dating again but I suggest we should not get physical as it might cloud our judgement. He also has to finish a self help book to sort out his issues first.
Posted by HellDoradoDefinitely.
astrologically speaking, you can find indicators of a person's behavior. whether their words will match their behavior is really up to the individual and cannot be determined by their zodiac chart. astrology is not an indicator of ethics.
I have met someone who has the same birthday with me, our chart looks identical and she hated me and we are very different
@OP- Good People get lied to all the time. What do you do when you get lied to constantly? It really puts a damper on and more curious why people lie to your face...
Is it an insecurity, are you too sensitive to hear it all out?
Is it an insecurity, are you too sensitive to hear it all out?
If someone is lying it is always because they are hiding something really important or scared to death to tell the truth..Trust is number one with most people...
I value honesty over sparing my feelings
I'm very curious why he has to tell these little lies all the time. One of the example is he lied about a girl who is often calling him. I said why don't you answer the call? I don't mind you answering it. He goes no it's ok. I knew it's not work related as the name never came up on any of his work events.
I asked work related? He couldn't look at me he said yes, I asked she works with you? he goes no not really. He avoided eye contact the entire time.
He added may be she just wants to talk about her boyfriend. I smiled and changed the subject.
Few weeks later that girl kept texting him and asking him for his opinion about her new clothes. He was texting her next to me, when I turn around I saw the photo of clothes and made some comments about the color. he voluntarily shows me the entire text conversation.
His actions says he has nothing to hide, but his words indicates he does.
I'm very curious why he has to tell these little lies all the time. One of the example is he lied about a girl who is often calling him. I said why don't you answer the call? I don't mind you answering it. He goes no it's ok. I knew it's not work related as the name never came up on any of his work events.
I asked work related? He couldn't look at me he said yes, I asked she works with you? he goes no not really. He avoided eye contact the entire time.
He added may be she just wants to talk about her boyfriend. I smiled and changed the subject.
Few weeks later that girl kept texting him and asking him for his opinion about her new clothes. He was texting her next to me, when I turn around I saw the photo of clothes and made some comments about the color. he voluntarily shows me the entire text conversation.
His actions says he has nothing to hide, but his words indicates he does.
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesIt is funny now that you point it out. It was a dumb way ask if it's work LOLPosted by PoppyseedsHow you could get a straight honest answer with this guy if every time you ask something you answer it yourself creating a whole lot of more questions on top of it.
I value honesty over sparing my feelings
I'm very curious why he has to tell these little lies all the time. One of the example is he lied about a girl who is often calling him. I said why don't you answer the call? I don't mind you answering it. He goes no it's ok. I knew it's not work related as the name never came up on any of his work events.
I asked work related? He couldn't look at me he said yes, I asked she works with you? he goes no not really. He avoided eye contact the entire time.
He added may be she just wants to talk about her boyfriend. I smiled and changed the subject.
Few weeks later that girl kept texting him and asking him for his opinion about her new clothes. He was texting her next to me, when I turn around I saw the photo of clothes and made some comments about the color. he voluntarily shows me the entire text conversation.
His actions says he has nothing to hide, but his words indicates he does.
instead of asking him and letting him give you his own answer.
That is pretty annoying to me.
If someone asks me a question and answers it him/herself. "is this text work related"
ME: yeah sure,
Other person : then why dont you have him on your list and why don't I see it on your schedule , and why dont you" WTF!!!!!!
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May be next time just ask who's this? Not sure what's the best way to ask without pressing too much.
@neves- Oh ok, so it's a game and manipulation.
In media man it's all screwed up, they invent things that aren't truth but sounds truthful so you catch attention flags if you pay close attention. If not then can easy be lied to cover things. Only later it will come out ten fold. Lol haha
@OP - You do have some kind of thing where you trust his actions but his words aren't stable enough. People need to do both. Lol.. Also he is showing you the texts and if he's your bff he must be the type to have female friends more than male friends though. So he's actually showing you but the other woman isn't showing boundaries or something like that. First of all that girl he is talking to is emotional cheating on her bff. Your bff is listening and be supporting but that's something else..hm
In media man it's all screwed up, they invent things that aren't truth but sounds truthful so you catch attention flags if you pay close attention. If not then can easy be lied to cover things. Only later it will come out ten fold. Lol haha
@OP - You do have some kind of thing where you trust his actions but his words aren't stable enough. People need to do both. Lol.. Also he is showing you the texts and if he's your bff he must be the type to have female friends more than male friends though. So he's actually showing you but the other woman isn't showing boundaries or something like that. First of all that girl he is talking to is emotional cheating on her bff. Your bff is listening and be supporting but that's something else..hm
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesWhen I asked that question we were dating exclusively, boyfriend girlfriend relationship.Posted by PoppyseedsWhy do you want to know?Posted by Lifepath8PiscesIt is funny now that you point it out. It was a dumb way ask if it's work LOLPosted by PoppyseedsHow you could get a straight honest answer with this guy if every time you ask something you answer it yourself creating a whole lot of more questions on top of it.
I value honesty over sparing my feelings
I'm very curious why he has to tell these little lies all the time. One of the example is he lied about a girl who is often calling him. I said why don't you answer the call? I don't mind you answering it. He goes no it's ok. I knew it's not work related as the name never came up on any of his work events.
I asked work related? He couldn't look at me he said yes, I asked she works with you? he goes no not really. He avoided eye contact the entire time.
He added may be she just wants to talk about her boyfriend. I smiled and changed the subject.
Few weeks later that girl kept texting him and asking him for his opinion about her new clothes. He was texting her next to me, when I turn around I saw the photo of clothes and made some comments about the color. he voluntarily shows me the entire text conversation.
His actions says he has nothing to hide, but his words indicates he does.
instead of asking him and letting him give you his own answer.
That is pretty annoying to me.
If someone asks me a question and answers it him/herself. "is this text work related"
ME: yeah sure,
Other person : then why dont you have him on your list and why don't I see it on your schedule , and why dont you" WTF!!!!!!
May be next time just ask who's this? Not sure what's the best way to ask without pressing too much.
Is he allowed to have female friends? what if he says she is just a friend? or someone else he is dating. Will you be ok with that? does he know you are ok with it?
Are you guys dating exclusively? If you guys aren't then he doesn't have to explain himself to you and if the phone rings and if he chooses not to answer. simply respect his decision when he does not wishes to answer.
It does not mean that he lied, he just was avoiding any of the explanation that came with it.click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428You are right he has more female friends than male friends. His best friend is a male friend of 21 years.
@neves- Oh ok, so it's a game and manipulation.
In media man it's all screwed up, they invent things that aren't truth but sounds truthful so you catch attention flags if you pay close attention. If not then can easy be lied to cover things. Only later it will come out ten fold. Lol haha
@OP - You do have some kind of thing where you trust his actions but his words aren't stable enough. People need to do both. Lol.. Also he is showing you the texts and if he's your bff he must be the type to have female friends more than male friends though. So he's actually showing you but the other woman isn't showing boundaries or something like that. First of all that girl he is talking to is emotional cheating on her bff. Your bff is listening and be supporting but that's something else..hm
Yes I do trust his actions.
Posted by Vixen2I notice you are very honest Vixen. I love reading your posts as they are very sincere and helpful.
soooooo blown out of proportion *smh*
It's not like every Pisces is a pathological liar for Christ's sake.
"I" notice I am speaking of myself...adore honesty and completely honest when it's important.
I have been known to bend the truth to spare someone's feelings because it wasn't beneficial or anything to gain to crush this persons feelings or attempts or their ego...
drag me to the gallows for my confession
#witchtrials
I think it's like what the other person said the media makes every men to be screw up.
I knew someone with similar placements- They stole photos from a friends Facebook and pretended to be him via forums/texts.
I think he did it based on his own personal insecurity's. I'm not sure how deep it went or whether he used them to "catfish" people.
I stopped speaking to them after shortly finding out- i never asked why, never cared to.
It's hard when you feel like you have to maintain some amount of transparency and honesty in a friendship. Even more-so when you've known a person for so long- and all the small bs storys start adding up.
I'm not entirely sure of your situation with this person, but if it continues- i'd just MIA myself from the person.
I think he did it based on his own personal insecurity's. I'm not sure how deep it went or whether he used them to "catfish" people.
I stopped speaking to them after shortly finding out- i never asked why, never cared to.
It's hard when you feel like you have to maintain some amount of transparency and honesty in a friendship. Even more-so when you've known a person for so long- and all the small bs storys start adding up.
I'm not entirely sure of your situation with this person, but if it continues- i'd just MIA myself from the person.
Posted by PoppyseedsIt's the gemini bit.
They say Pisces and Gemini are on the high lying scales of the zodiac however with different perspective.
Pisces lie to spare the other person's feelings or simply to avoid confrontation as they are highly sensitive.
How trust worthy is this person astrologically speaking?
Pisces Sun
Gemini Moon
Pisces mercury
Aquarius Venus
Scorpio Mars
Scorpio Rising
Posted by Vixen2Base on what I read and flash back of what he said made me created this posts.
soooooo blown out of proportion *smh*
It's not like every Pisces is a pathological liar for Christ's sake.
"I" notice I am speaking of myself...adore honesty and completely honest when it's important.
I have been known to bend the truth to spare someone's feelings because it wasn't beneficial or anything to gain to crush this persons feelings or attempts or their ego...
drag me to the gallows for my confession
#witchtrials
I trust his action but I do have doubts in his words.
You probably remember he broke up with me but couldn't let go. We are dating again but we are not getting physical or jumping into relationship as he has to finish his self help book.
Things he said made me doubt him include: He is now hiding his tagged picture from me. The other day he said he is having a few old friends over for drinks. I suspect is one female friend only.
The world is very small.. someone else is friends with that girl and told me she posted some food photo (the breakfast he used to make me, but he made that for dinner for her) tagged him only and no one else. he told me a few old friends my instinct already knew he was a lie, as he is never into group catch up unless it's work or family thing.
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesI don't think he is sleeping with them. I certainly don't like the lie. I'm not sure if I should confront him before I hit the road... or simply cut him loose
@ Poppyseeds
well, if you like his lies - continue with him. If you are a woman who does not put up with lies from another human you know what road to take. When my gut tells me there is another woman around and I know for sure in my heart that I am not ok with it. I hit the road at an instant instead of asking the obvious.
Posted by Lifepath8Pisceshaha very true. If i know he really is cheating I will slap him on his face and tell him not to contact me again.Posted by PoppyseedsWhat do men do when they know their girl is a cheating lying hoe? LOLPosted by Lifepath8PiscesI don't think he is sleeping with them. I certainly don't like the lie. I'm not sure if I should confront him before I hit the road... or simply cut him loose
@ Poppyseeds
well, if you like his lies - continue with him. If you are a woman who does not put up with lies from another human you know what road to take. When my gut tells me there is another woman around and I know for sure in my heart that I am not ok with it. I hit the road at an instant instead of asking the obvious.
They do not give them one more minute of the day or thought. Let alone let them get a reaction from them or lose sleep. They simply hit the road and look for someone that will make them happy.click to expand
Posted by Lifepath8Pisceshaha very true. If i know he really is cheating I will slap him on his face and tell him not to contact me again.Posted by PoppyseedsWhat do men do when they know their girl is a cheating lying hoe? LOLPosted by Lifepath8PiscesI don't think he is sleeping with them. I certainly don't like the lie. I'm not sure if I should confront him before I hit the road... or simply cut him loose
@ Poppyseeds
well, if you like his lies - continue with him. If you are a woman who does not put up with lies from another human you know what road to take. When my gut tells me there is another woman around and I know for sure in my heart that I am not ok with it. I hit the road at an instant instead of asking the obvious.
They do not give them one more minute of the day or thought. Let alone let them get a reaction from them or lose sleep. They simply hit the road and look for someone that will make them happy.click to expand
Drop him like a sack of potatoes, @OP...Really.....
@OP- Violence is not the answer..Whooooosssaahhhh! :-) seriously.
Posted by Vixen2You are right trust is very important and I do need to communicate with him. Not trying to defend him but I do know his lies are stems from his commitment phobia, which he is now reading a self help book for. I think I will just ask why is he hiding tagged pictures from me? As I'm more concern about the reasons behind of his action. See what he says from there.Posted by PoppyseedsTrust makes or breaks a relationship...without it, you've got nothing. I'm not saying you are wrong to have doubts or to be guarded with this man, but think logically...if he is making you feel this way now, most likely it will continue...if communicating how this makes you feel to him and he doesn't correct it ASAP (as that is what we will do if we know we are hurting someone we love-we are more of people pleasers) then cut him loose.Posted by Vixen2Base on what I read and flash back of what he said made me created this posts.
soooooo blown out of proportion *smh*
It's not like every Pisces is a pathological liar for Christ's sake.
"I" notice I am speaking of myself...adore honesty and completely honest when it's important.
I have been known to bend the truth to spare someone's feelings because it wasn't beneficial or anything to gain to crush this persons feelings or attempts or their ego...
drag me to the gallows for my confession
#witchtrials
I trust his action but I do have doubts in his words.
You probably remember he broke up with me but couldn't let go. We are dating again but we are not getting physical or jumping into relationship as he has to finish his self help book.
Things he said made me doubt him include: He is now hiding his tagged picture from me. The other day he said he is having a few old friends over for drinks. I suspect is one female friend only.
The world is very small.. someone else is friends with that girl and told me she posted some food photo (the breakfast he used to make me, but he made that for dinner for her) tagged him only and no one else. he told me a few old friends my instinct already knew he was a lie, as he is never into group catch up unless it's work or family thing.click to expand
At the moment I feel like he could be bailing from our sports game date.. I hope I'm wrong. We were meant to practice around 4, then leave and go back for his real game at night. Now he says he can't do it as he will be at his folks's. I told him all good and asked if we have time to do some quick and easy cooking as I need his help for a part of it.
He goes should be ok, plans change now they are coming over instead of me going. Could be a perfect line to
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I did't consider slap as violence 😛
@OP- Violence is not the answer..Whooooosssaahhhh! :-) seriously.
I thought only punches, elbows and kicks counts 😛
Was just a joke, never lay hands on anyone in my life
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesThis should be bookmarked, too many people are too quick to judge while they are lacking empathy.
@ exxtasyx
Feelings defy logic, we need to know our minds well enough to know when we are not thinking logically. When we are thinking with our heart and not our minds we do not make solid clear choices. It has nothing to do with being secure or insecure.
practice makes perfect.
for example... she knows his lies are hurting her and confusing her, but her heart is telling her to give him one more chance because she wishes in her heart things would just work out with him.
Her mind is telling her that lying is not right and something is wrong and her time is being wasted when she could occupy her mind in something better or someone who is worthy of her time.
At this point coming here and voicing it out, does not make her an insecure person. She is voicing it out and most likely she will be able to make a good choice based on logic. And this goes for her as well as the other users who come here asking for help.
All this relationship issues and stuff they go through have very little to do with a certain SUN SIGN.
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesThis should be bookmarked, too many people are too quick to judge while they are lacking empathy.
@ exxtasyx
Feelings defy logic, we need to know our minds well enough to know when we are not thinking logically. When we are thinking with our heart and not our minds we do not make solid clear choices. It has nothing to do with being secure or insecure.
practice makes perfect.
for example... she knows his lies are hurting her and confusing her, but her heart is telling her to give him one more chance because she wishes in her heart things would just work out with him.
Her mind is telling her that lying is not right and something is wrong and her time is being wasted when she could occupy her mind in something better or someone who is worthy of her time.
At this point coming here and voicing it out, does not make her an insecure person. She is voicing it out and most likely she will be able to make a good choice based on logic. And this goes for her as well as the other users who come here asking for help.
All this relationship issues and stuff they go through have very little to do with a certain SUN SIGN.
Beautiful song, looked up the lyrics and really feeling it.
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This is why people cheat. Because some people put up with it. Sad
Posted by Poppyseeds
They say Pisces and Gemini are on the high lying scales of the zodiac however with different perspective.
Pisces lie to spare the other person's feelings or simply to avoid confrontation as they are highly sensitive.
How trust worthy is this person astrologically speaking?
Pisces Sun
Gemini Moon
Pisces mercury
Aquarius Venus
Scorpio Mars
Scorpio Rising
See the thread where the Pisces people in here are honoring themselves at being the best.
So, the answer is ... their whole self image is a lie, you do the math.
Posted by LadyOfRebirthHe voluntarily bought the self help book for commitment issues, tell me who's labeling who?
Got to love how some women these days label guys commitment phobes..
Just because he won't commit to you doesn't mean they are commitment phobes.
Thought we already cover this in my previous thread when you comment about it?
Posted by jukeyThis avoidance of confrontation actually causes troubles later in my experience.
A reluctance for confrontation, even if it saves bigger troubles later. Living in a vacuum without uncertainty and conflict feels divine, but it does no favors
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