Do Pisces man change their mind after a break up?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Poppyseeds on Tuesday, January 5, 2016 and has 11 replies.

Do Pisces Men Come Back After a Breakup?

Yes, many Pisces men do come back after a breakup, especially if they still have strong feelings, regret, or unfinished emotional business. In real situations, this often looks like late-night texts, checking in casually, or reopening the conversation after silence. But if he comes back only to avoid loneliness, the contact may fade again just as fast.

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My Pisces broke up with me but he stay in touch with me like we have never broken up. He texts me every day and night, he even timed it to say Merry Christmas at 12am and did the same for NYE.

He volunteered to do things for me. I told him he doesn't have to as he doesn't owe me anything. He said he really want to as he really enjoys texting in the past couple of weeks and like that to continue.

When we finally met up he hugged me really tight for a long time. He cuddles and kissed my cheeks like we are still together, but I stopped him when he tried to kiss my lips.

I asked if he is staying in touch to be FWB and if he is seeing anyone else? He responded he is not looking for anyone new, not until he sort out his emotional issues which he might need therapist. He said he is also not looking for FWB with me, he just misses me and feeling a bit horny as it's been 3 weeks since we last saw each other.

He said he will see me again soon to drop off my stuff. It's been 2 days since I saw him and his text is still consistent.

I heard Pisces have a hard time moving on emotionally, is he simply using me to move on? Or he is wanting to come back?

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I'm not done with him either, however I do need some boundaries as he is the one who initiated the break up. Can't let him have access to my body as if we were in a committed relationship.

He knows I don't want to break up, he tried to rationalize it by telling me what we have is not love, it's attachment towards each other.

Speaking of the devil, he just liked 60 of my posts in one go...

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Thank you for your suggestion.

I can definitely relate to some of the points above as it could probably be what inspired him to keep in close contact with me.

Surely took lots of self control to decline kiss and sex when he was here

Songs will be challenging but I will try to look for one. He likes house music without lyrics, and when he happen to listen to those with lyrics he said he is listening to the beat. Having said that he was listening to ":I got a woman" from Ray Charles on NYE, coincident? may be.. may be not..

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I know right, he doesn't want to commit to me anymore, but he can't commit to a life without me either.

It's probably part of his commitment issue, not justifying it for him. Just saying he needs to fix this issue before he can be in a real relationship.

60 likes is mind game for sure. He indirectly suggested he can cook for me. It's probably more games.

Walking away is the best, unless he fixed or at least in progress of fixing his issue. I will probably talk to him while he return my stuff as I find it hard to ignore him all of a sudden.

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Spoke to him in person and he says he always want to be with me, he is afraid if we try again and doesn't work he will get hurt.

I let him know I also want to be with him, but if we are getting back together his issues needs to be address / in progress of fixing.

Then he bought some self help books and told me he will let me know his progress.

After the talk we went shopping together and he gave me a lift home.

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I'm also in love with him, not going to dive back into what we had straight away. It's a good start for him to get a book to try to sort himself out. Will see how we go from there.

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He took me to sports and he still display PDA in front of everyone. When we are alone we talked and decided we both want to date each other. So we are on again, but not jumping straight back into the title or into bed. Not until he finish reading the self help book.

The "romantic song move" Vixen suggested work like magic!