Why Pisces men often complain about their partner to friends?

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My Pisces guy friend often come and complain about his girlfriend to me. I have been telling him that he has to be real and express how he is feeling about things that he believe is hurting him. Or else she would have no idea about it.

It also occurs to me that my ex would do more "couple like" stuff with his female friend. Such as knowing her friends and family. He claims that' because he has known her for over a decade.

From my experience with ex and guy friends, this actually seems a a bit odd and unhealthy. I believe you have to be authentic with expressing your emotions and removing walls with the person you are dating. Why would they prefer to have this emotional intimacy with a friend instead?
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This question should be why do MEN go run and spill their issues with their friends and not the person they are with— I've seen this done many times and it's not just been Pisces men, it's been all of the signs. I get very frustrated with guys that would come to me about their relationship problems and they haven't address it with their partner. For fucks sake they can't fix the issue if you don't tell them, instead the person just wants to complain about them and make themselves a victim to the situation vs trying to find a resolution. This goes for woman too.. I don't like when people constantly complain about a person, I understand everyone has problems and need to vent every once in awhile but I feel personal stuff between two people needs to stay private.

This is why people don't like someones partner and the partner can't figure out why these people don't like them. When someone is feeding negative info to another person about a person, they won't forget it. That will alter how they view that person, most likely..

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Posted by WateryGem
This question should be why do MEN go run and spill their issues with their friends and not the person they are with— I've seen this done many times and it's not just been Pisces men, it's been all of the signs. I get very frustrated with guys that would come to me about their relationship problems and they haven't address it with their partner. For fucks sake they can't fix the issue if you don't tell them, instead the person just wants to complain about them and make themselves a victim to the situation vs trying to find a resolution. This goes for woman too.. I don't like when people constantly complain about a person, I understand everyone has problems and need to vent every once in awhile but I feel personal stuff between two people needs to stay private.

This is why people don't like someones partner and the partner can't figure out why these people don't like them. When someone is feeding negative info to another person about a person, they won't forget it. That will alter how they view that person, most likely..
Those men are cowards. They choose to be the righteous victim so they can stop being a good partner. Some purposely complain to opposite sex to fish for chances to have an affair.