will pisces come back

I have already come to my own conclusion not on what this pisces will do, but more how I will handle the situation. I am really just interested in the comfort of other peoples opinion.

I was talking to a pisces for nearly a year until about a week ago. It was a battle of a relationship because it was long distance and a struggle. Although the distance, I would talk to him everyday, he would call me when he was upset, talk to me til he fell asleep. If I went out, he would get slightly jealous, never in a mean way, but wanted me to text him and be cute if I was going drinking. I was certain he liked me, he always told me he did not know what he would do without me, that I was easily the best, because I was always there for him, and made sure he was okay.

I did, and do care for him, but it often was like I was putting in most of the effort, he would often say he needed a break that would last not even a full day. I know he was hurt from his past ex, and I have wondered if that was the reason he was being the way he was. I guess I started to push him to see me more, being long distance, and he told me again he needed a break. After a week went by he told me it was over, and I needed to be happy, that how he was treating me was not fair. I wanted to beg him to stay but knew I couldnt. So the next day I told him that everything was fine, that I wanted him happy and to find happiness, and that I was there if he ever really needed someone to talk to. 7hours later he texted me I love you, and I figured I had cried and been hurt already so much, that I just said it back. Then nothing. He never replied back. I was confused so I just asked why he said it. I was thinking he said ITS OVER, why the I love you? He said Bc he wanted me to know. I made the mistake of saying. I love you, I care for you, I know you dont want to be together, but I cant help how I feel and wanted to tell you. And that has been the end.

I do not feel its over, but I feel that I do need to back off and not contact him. I feel he really saw me as one of the only people he could talk to. He would call me crying over family problems, being a sensitive pisces, you know what I mean.

I dont want to run him off more then he may be. ANY advice would be great.

Oh and I am a Scorpio.

Long distance if both people aren't doing there part of the relationship it won't work out. No man really wants to completely lose a good woman from his life, especially if he's made her a routine in his daily life so I'm not surprised by his I love you statement but I love you can mean I love you and wish you happiness but I don't want to do what it takes to be in this kind of relationship, men get scared too, they feel the intense loss of someone that has played a strong part in his life and they get anxious that you will quickly find another man and move on and they lose access to you so they panic and they say things that don't make since, it's like they want to keep you tied up and keep you to themselves but they don't want to do anything about the problem, it's that one foot in one foot out-itis some men and even women have during a down slope in the relationship, the cake and it too attitude.

I wouldn't make too much out of that I love you statement unless he's backing it up with solid actions that say I want to make it work anything other than is a non-issue. I don't think you ran him off, I just think you were stronger than him and he couldn't accept it, I mean if he's running to you about all his problems and crying over it well he's being the girl in the relationship and as comfortable as that may feel for him it doesn't make him more attracted to being with you.

You may have to be the one that fights for this one if he's been the passive one if you really want to keep him...

I really enjoyed both your messages and see truth and both of them. I have thought the both of them to be true at one point or another in my thought process of this situation.

I told myself I needed to let him go if that is what he "seems" to want. Whether it is true or not. I do want him to come back around, but I know pestering him will not make that happen right now. The Pisces men seem to swim away at pressure.

I think this is common, more often a Pisces would tell you right up "I wanna break up with you" just to see your re-action. and if you just say "ok" to it, and not bother.. then that might be it.. over. but if you insist, say that you love him, and that he is your life, then THAT is what he is looking for. then he will apologize. and he will KNOW that you do care, and that you dont wanna lose him.

this is like a test I think. for exemple:
if you tell him you would wanna break up, he would ask you many questions as to why. and he would do anythin for you to stay with him.
because he loves you.
now, if he tells you he wanna break up, he expect the same re-action. get it?
so if you just say "ok" to the break up. to him is like you dont care/love him as much as he loves you.

this doesnt work with a virgo though.
when pisces tell the virgo they wanna break up, the virgo usually never fights back, and just let it go.

and in your case, I think you acted how a virgo would act.

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After a week went by he told me it was over, and I needed to be happy, that how he was treating me was not fair. I wanted to beg him to stay but knew I couldnt. So the next day I told him that everything was fine, that I wanted him happy and to find happiness, and that I was there if he ever really needed someone to talk to.
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see... ?
and then.... he texted you: "I love you" (7 hours later)


he was "testing" you.. and you failed the test. :/
you didnt fight for love (as one would say).



aaaaaaa... and I just spoiled the pisces little secret 😢

It's so true we test in weird ways. If you bomb that test your done.

What is the purpose for testing someone? That's a little childish to me. Oh right, Pisces don't take anyone at face value.

Oh to whoever said I did not fight, too lazy to scroll up. I did, haha I almost begged, then I go to the okay he isnt budging point and stopped. thats when I said what I said the next day and he responded with the I love you. Since then he has come back and said I miss you, I told him to talk to me more then, and he did for a bit through text then nothing. I wrote him last, and did not want to write him again until he wrote me. yes or no?

Posted by Red_Diamond
What is the purpose for testing someone? That's a little childish to me. Oh right, Pisces don't take anyone at face value.

we test you to see what you're made of. and from your answer, it just seem that you would fail the test also.
it is very easily for us to give it all to you.. but we do some testing first.. to see if you deserve it.

Starfish this is common on pisces male only.. thats why you dont test.

scorpiotexas, you already showed him that you want him.
if he keeps comin to you, then ask him straight up. what is it that he wants.
from there on, you will know it.

pisces is very shy scorpiotexas, he might not have the courage to tell you whatever that he wants.
so go and make him talk, be the boss... make the first move.

Imagination, please. You??re testing to see what someone is made of. Get out your head. That is playing with a person??s emotions, annnnnd ONCE AGAIN that is a childish game.

Posted by Red_Diamond
Imagination, please. You??re testing to see what someone is made of. Get out your head. That is playing with a person??s emotions, annnnnd ONCE AGAIN that is a childish game.

well, every sign has their own childish ways. I'm sure you have yours too.
what's your sign?

It does look like a test, Ian, to the others ... when in reality it is a confirmation that the love shared in the experience was real.



To author of this question === Pisces people experience life, rather than living it. During this experience, he fucking loved you so much, and now it's finished and he needs to make sure that you loved him too because as a Pisces, he will love you for the rest of his life, even if he never sees you again.



The "Others" get deeply rooted in thier lives ... so deep normally that they are practicially helpless emotionally. For this reason is why we see so many people stay in horrible relationships they think is love when in reality, it's actually tearing them apart. They cannot comprehend that it is bad/negative because they think that anything that deep has to be right, because it must be love.

Fine line between love/hate .. practically completely invisible. Except for Pisceans. And the reason why we can see the difference is because we are never really submerged to the depthness that real feelings become ambiguous like the "others" who have no option except to always question these emotions.

Gotta love the irony in that, fellow fishes !!!!

So, what happens is that everything in our life becomes an experience of life, rather than living it as you do.

He does love you, and he wants you to know that he loves you, and he wants to know that you love him ........ and then he moves on like all Pisces do to the next experience.