Will sleeping with my Pisces ex complicate things?

I have known him for more than 5 years. We started dating 5 years ago while I was still in college and I was a virgin at the time so we never got to be together sexually. A year after dating we broke up due to my insecurities and his mistakes but remained friends after that, we would tell each other everything. Fast forward to now, he still likes me very much but every time we are supposed to meet I keep giving him the run around. This past weekend he decided to drive all the way to where I stay, I was really surprised but very excited to see him.

I must say he hasn’t changed much; he is still sweet, funny and acts silly around me. The problem now is that the sexual chemistry between us is super intense. He kept on grabbing my butt and I on the other hand let him cause I very much enjoyed it 🙂. Now the problem is that he is sensitive, already we have a very strong bond and I am afraid that if we decide to go to that level it will make things worse. He is an amazing guy but I don’t see myself spending the rest of my life with him. Things almost got heated when he came to visit me that I had to stop him. The sexual tension between us is too much to a point where when we are together we kiss a lot, our kisses are always deep and passionate and we can’t keep our hands off each other, it’s really bad.

I care about him a lot and the last thing I want is to hurt him or make him fall for me more than he already does. I feel like sleeping with him will be conformation for him since he has not given up on me for years.

Sex will likely make you fall for him more so than he will you. Especially if you're still a virgin.

Sorry, you said your "were" a virgin.
Sex always complicates things when feelings are involved and two aren't exclusive, no matter the sign.

don't worry, it will be worse if you don't give him the sex anyway

Posted by MeMyselfAndIntrigued
Sorry, you said your "were" a virgin.
Sex always complicates things when feelings are involved and two aren't exclusive, no matter the sign.

That’s true

Posted by YellowSubmarine

Posted by TauriLove
He is an amazing guy but I don’t see myself spending the rest of my life with him.

Has he expressed that he wants to spend his life with you?

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Lol yes he has, so many times. He always comments on how I am so like his mother (his mom is a Taurus as well, such a sweet lady), and how stubborn I am sometimes, he loves it I guess 😄. Last night we were talking over the phone when he asked me how I would feel if things progressed between us and we were to move in together.. I just froze for a minute there.

Posted by hydorah
don't worry, it will be worse if you don't give him the sex anyway

LOL

I actually thought the same thing too.

just make it clear to him that you don't want to spend the rest of your life with him