StillFeelingCancer
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am I reading too much into scorpio ex's intentions
Posted by StillFeelingCancer
This is the point where he lost it. Saying "the girl thing is none of your business" and "thats my problem to worry about".
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hes absolutely right. Find someone else to fix your bike. there has to be at least one other person on God's green earth that can work on a bike.
You two are broken up and you're asking if there are othere are othee women in his life. That should no longer be any of your concern. It sounds like you're trying to manipulate your way back into his life even after he's made it clear he's no longer interested in a relationship with you. That's bad and is bound to blow up in your face.
Im not trying to manipulate my way back. I havent got much cash to get a mechanic to fix my bike thats why I asked. Why would he help me if he thought I was manipulating him.
I never cheated on him or manipulated him or was disrespectful. I understand we parted for a reason but why would he help me? Is he just being nice? Im afraid to tell him how I feel because I read that if a scorpio really loves u he will come back in his own time. And its been 2years now. So im guessing im holding onto false hope.
I just honestly thought that when I asked for his help he would shoot me down because the past 2 years he seemed to hate me with the fuel of hellfire.
I never cheated on him or manipulated him or was disrespectful. I understand we parted for a reason but why would he help me? Is he just being nice? Im afraid to tell him how I feel because I read that if a scorpio really loves u he will come back in his own time. And its been 2years now. So im guessing im holding onto false hope.
I just honestly thought that when I asked for his help he would shoot me down because the past 2 years he seemed to hate me with the fuel of hellfire.
I did. I went for counselling. Faced my demons and I feel like ive grown in these past 2 years. Him leaving forced me to change and deal with all the pain of my past.
I was give the bike because my cousin is moving to Australia.
Posted by StillFeelingCancer
Im not trying to manipulate my way back. I havent got much cash to get a mechanic to fix my bike thats why I asked. Why would he help me if he thought I was manipulating him.
I never cheated on him or manipulated him or was disrespectful. I understand we parted for a reason but why would he help me? Is he just being nice? Im afraid to tell him how I feel because I read that if a scorpio really loves u he will come back in his own time. And its been 2years now. So im guessing im holding onto false hope.
I just honestly thought that when I asked for his help he would shoot me down because the past 2 years he seemed to hate me with the fuel of hellfire.
Okay then. Like another poster said, it sounds like he wants to be your friend. I wouldn't think too much into it. Just appreciate the fact that he's helping you.
Thats probably all it is for the time being. Maybe try to initiate small talk whle he's working on the bike to see where his head is and go from there. What ever you do, dont think too much into what he's doing.
Thank u guys for the advice. I will stop ketting my mind run away with me. And you're right even being friends is a good thing. Appreciate the advice.
So I decided not to take my ex up on his offer to help me. I'll figure out another way to fix my bike. I was honest and told him that I was afraid that being around him again would bring up old feelings that I might not be able to control and it wouldnt do either of us any good. But I thanked him frlor his offer and apologied for not being ablebto take him up on it.
He replied saying that he understands and that if I do still need his help I just need to buzz him because the offer still stands.
He replied saying that he understands and that if I do still need his help I just need to buzz him because the offer still stands.
Posted by Magenta_Azure
You two are broken up and you're asking if there are othere are othee women in his life. That should no longer be any of your concern. It sounds like you're trying to manipulate your way back into his life even after he's made it clear he's no longer interested in a relationship with you. That's bad and is bound to blow up in your face.
This ^^^
Posted by StillFeelingCancer
Im not trying to manipulate my way back.
Yes you are, and he knows it. Don't expect anything more than a fixed bike. Drop the personal questions, it's only going to piss him off.
thread title: am I reading too much into Scorp ex's intentions
.... and I'm unclear what sort of intentions you could possibly be referring to, considering the word literally means reasons for engagement, and clearly he didn't approach you, rather responded to you.
So, yeah ... wtf? What the hell of kind psychosis are you suffering from that you have no critical thought processes?
Posted by StillFeelingCancer
... initially it was very calm as if he had gotten past all his anger and resentment.
He has no anger or resentment to get past. YOU DO
Apparently, you are so unaware of yourself, that you have no clue that he doesn't have anything to get past. This guy made a decision that he doesn't like you, romantically, so he ceased a relationship with you, and moved on with his life ... like a normal, healthy adult does.
While YOU are still in the same place emotionally that were you 2 years ago, this thread's existence being proof that you haven't dealt with your past issues ... which is the whole reason he left you.
wtf? how can people really be this dense? aren't we evolving as humans?
why are there STILL people like this, universe?
Posted by StillFeelingCancer
I dont know why he became so defensive ...
Why don't you know that?
For the life of me, I cannot fathom how Cancers can ever be happy in life, considering it's all an act. Playing stupid, or playing hard to get, or playing na??ve, or whatever the game is ... it appears to be your whole being, and all there is.
And I really don't get how a Cancer can ever be happy, considering they never really lived, since it's all fake.
:::: shrugs ::::
Am I the only one tired of the way P-Angel talks to people...this girl came here seeking advice...there is nothing wrong with being brutally honest...but please work on your delivery...it's clear that years of being in your loveless marriage has caused you to treat others poorly...she has clearly evolved considering the fact that she was able to reach out and cancel the offer...she's human and has emotions...and holding on to a love from her past...at least she has the balls to face her emotions...instead of bullying others to suppress them...
Posted by Angel1177
Am I the only one tired of the way P-Angel talks to people...this girl came here seeking advice...there is nothing wrong with being brutally honest...but please work on your delivery...it's clear that years of being in your loveless marriage has caused you to treat others poorly...she has clearly evolved considering the fact that she was able to reach out and cancel the offer...she's human and has emotions...and holding on to a love from her past...at least she has the balls to face her emotions...instead of bullying others to suppress them...
There's a Block option. This girl came in here not seeking advice but wanting validation that she should fuck with another woman's man. She got her answers.
Hi I had similar love break up with my scorpio we were separated for 3 years lots of things happened my moon is also cancer if u want to know my story read Please help Scorpio and Sag
So basically right now i m planning for a trip to see him and he was willing to help me and stay with me I thought he is giving me hints that he wants me back but all I got back is that he doesn't care if I go or not he is looking forward better options and he is very cruel and rude I feel like he is taking revenge by torturing me emotionally He is showing me completely different face that I never seen before but knowing all this I m still willing to see him I know guys u ll think I m stupid but it's my cancer part pushing me it's like I have this bond with him that nobody can take it away
So if u want to get ur scorpio back it's going to be a lot of pain and suffer to face with Just warning u its almost impossible to win them back
So basically right now i m planning for a trip to see him and he was willing to help me and stay with me I thought he is giving me hints that he wants me back but all I got back is that he doesn't care if I go or not he is looking forward better options and he is very cruel and rude I feel like he is taking revenge by torturing me emotionally He is showing me completely different face that I never seen before but knowing all this I m still willing to see him I know guys u ll think I m stupid but it's my cancer part pushing me it's like I have this bond with him that nobody can take it away
So if u want to get ur scorpio back it's going to be a lot of pain and suffer to face with Just warning u its almost impossible to win them back
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It was a very painful breakup. We both cried alot. And I struggled to let him go. We've been broken up for 2 years now. I apologised profusely for the first year and tried to get back together with him but to no avail. Since then its been a year since we've had an actual conversation. In these 2 years his family has said he hasnt had a girlfriend and ive never seen any posts indicating he was seeing anyone seriously.
Recently I got a motorbike that needs some work. And he was always the biking boffin. I got into contact with him and initially it was very calm as if he had gotten past all his anger and resentment. We asked about each other's lives and caught up.i asked if he would be able to help me fix my bike and teach me how and he agreed and said he would be glad to help.
Then I had asked if he had a girlfriend and if she would eb alright with it beacuse I didnt want to make another woman feel awkward for her boyfriend spending so much time helping out his ex.
This is the point where he lost it. Saying "the girl thing is none of your business" and "thats my problem to worry about".
I dont know why he became so defensive but once he cooled off he said he would still help with my bike.
I wanted to ask for people's opinions why on he reacted the way he did, does it mean anything that he hasn't had a new girlfriend since we brole up and if it means anything that after hating me so much hes still willing to help me with this huge project? I think I do still have feelings for him but a p part of me feels like too much time has passed and its too late to change anything.