Hi everyone! So things have been on the rocks with my Aries bf of 2.5 years or I should say ex now... the day after the lunar eclipse we got into a huge argument because he snapped at me. He was very aggresive, rude, to the point I was in tears. We ended the conversation that we would talk later and I have not heard from him since.(mind you... we talk every single day... a few times a day) I am a leo sun btw... We had broken up a few months back and then recently were kind of off and on...I have not contacted him because he was out of line and I am tired of his domineering ways. I deserve better than to be treated in that way...
Anyways... just wanted to see if anyone else experience any type of argument, breakups, or highlighted event after this lunar eclipse?? Pure curiosity!
Full Lunar eclipses, are like three full moons packed into one. These eclipses are about necessary endings and changes that have been long overdue, whether it be relationships, jobs, behavior/habits etc. These eclipses also have an affect for up to six months. If we try to delay the necessary changes, it will be revisited in 30 days (Nov. 18th) within a few days prior or just after 18th. If some did not feel this full moon eclipse, you may around Nov. 18th.
The Tower card in tarot pretty much signifies Full Moon Lunar eclipses. These are changes out of our control, but completely necessary.
So if we are jumping up and down, trying our darndest to effect change and it Hasn't.Happened. Yet. can we look forward to 18th Nov with any certainty?
It's completely necessary for me to get a better job.
I'm just too big a chicken to hand my notice in today without KNOWING what is happening.
My Aries is confusing the shit out me right now. He was affectionate and pretty much claimed me as his girlfriend at the parties we went to this weekend but when alone nothing. I worry that he's bored with me. I just need to talk with him.
Does it have to be "break ups?" because my family and few friends are going strong:
No break ups from my family members (sister's relationships are all strong and intact) and even my bff who just got married is strong. They were always harmonious.
But, the only drastic horrible things that are happening are my father in law's condition, and then finding out about my Pisces ex-husband. They are VERY big.
Also, i can see that change is necessary in changing hobbies and life style s.
I read that other people have been losing people (deaths, and changing jobs, ect) The death one is terrible. The job changing one is much easier to deal with for people.
oh the two neighbors we have, two died last month. (they were very old, one 90s, and the other early 70s) but it's still very drastic. The big house down the street is now empty. The old man who used to live there was very sweet and kindly.
everloving : I'm holding my tounge for now, because they have broken up and got backtogether a few times. ..but in a nutshell the Scorpio girl is infuriated and the Leo is too Proud to give a damn . They are way too fixed for eachother for it to work anyway
I had a big blowup with my Leo today. I think we should break it off now. Him...not so much. But I thought it was because of the Mercury Retrograde going on. Now that I've read up more on the Lunar Eclipse, that definitely seems to make sense as to why it's finally happening. Been a long time coming.....
With the guy I've been seeing, so ready to kick him to the curb. :/
As far as change, YES. Omg I've been job hunting for a year. It's been really frustrating. I NEED to get out of my current job. I don't want to work Thanksgiving and Christmas anymore. ๐ข
All in all, everything has left me uber stressed to the point where my bp has been elevated.
yes! spent the 18th with my ex of 7 years roughly. nightmare.
Backstory: we broke up and moved into separate homes as of Feb of this year and after a few months of cool regard to eachother and lots of privacy we started hanging out as friends again, mainly as a fwb type deal because neither of us wants to get involved in a relationship of any sort for awhile. thought it would be best to hook up with each other instead of strangers AND keep our single lives. well, when its he and i alone, we are usually fine. when we are with groups of friends, he becomes a royal prick!! (CANCER!!) and so Friday was the last straw for me. he started treating me the way he did when we were together (bossy, critical, having to be in control of all the plans and every minutia of the evening). By sunday i was pretty much convinced i was FINALLY, FINALLY, FINALLY ready to cut the contact with him
yesterday was the breaking point and i said i was done, had been too giving of myself and wasnt going to anymore.
Anyways... just wanted to see if anyone else experience any type of argument, breakups, or highlighted event after this lunar eclipse?? Pure curiosity!