I am embarrased to post but I finally did talk back to my Aquarius after ignoring him for days. He sent and left me urgent voice messages asking to borrow $ 300.00 last Wednesday, 8/27. I didnt have $ 300 but lent him $ 150.00. I wrote out a promissory note and he basically seemed offended so I let him off the hook.
Shortly after getting the $ 150.00 I texted him, no response. The next day, I texted him no response. I sent him a text meant for someone else by accident on Friday, 8/28 and he got upset and told me not to call him anymore. It was meant for another guy. In any event, I texted him back and told him that I would honor his request but he needed to pay me. He basically sent an ugly text back stating that he would pay me that same day (8/28). He never told me when he would pay me though. Since that incidents, I have sent him texts, but no response. Do you think he will pay me my money back? Have anyone had a similar experience?
An Aqua guy (Sun and Moon Aqua) i dated before had broken his phone by accident and had no money to buy a new one or fix it yet so i let him borrow my new phone and i was using my spare phone (and i was stupid to do so) I thought by the end of month when he got paid he would get it fixed or buy a new one and return me quickly as he knew the phone i let him borrow was quite new and the spare one i was using was pretty old but month after month, there's still no sign he would return back my phone and was comfortably using it in front of me like it was really his phone and even used it to sms and took pictures of other girls!!!! which i found out later he was cheating then i ditched him and told him to return my phone immediately. After that he still didnt manage to buy or fix his phone but was borrowing a phone from other female friend as he told me that by himself!
Im still shocked until today how he really has no ashame of anything!!
I think you would only get your money back if you pressure him to pay u back, otherwise, he would think its not a big deal to u just like the way he feels about it... Good luck!
I can tell ya, my Aqua male, i have went out of my way to not get into a money change w/him in two years, my first instinct was if i did, he would take me to the cleaners and on to the next one......
Funny thing, my Aqua, when he tricked me to answer the phone i used exactly that against him in a way, took him food, delievered it, $ 30 worth of bar b que and even through in dessert's. Dropped it off and left. Dont worry bout it........LOL! Proved a point and made him retract back into his head again and leave me b for another week or so, LOL!
Seems if i use reverse psych on him, i can usually achieve a goal that i need to achieve, like him leaving me alone..........call once a week, he will stay aloof!
The Aquarius did not give me my money back as promised. Instead he made a point to argue with me and then finally said, "I am not going to give you are money back and dont call me no more". I really hate that I ever met him.
LoL~ sorry, wasn't laughing at you but that cheap dude. Don't be embarrassed, he's the one who should be feeling ashamed. So little pride in him... I mean couldn't he just ask his family instead? O well, just treat it as a lesson and thanks for the warning btw. =)
My aqua ex had MAJOR money issues and definitely has a lot of debts to pay that sadly, I doubt he will pay ALL back. A lot of them stem from courts and jail stuff but yea from my experience, Aquas are really bad with money so I wouldn't lend any to them unless you can afford to GIVE instead of "lend".
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Shortly after getting the $ 150.00 I texted him, no response. The next day, I texted him no response. I sent him a text meant for someone else by accident on Friday, 8/28 and he got upset and told me not to call him anymore. It was meant for another guy. In any event, I texted him back and told him that I would honor his request but he needed to pay me. He basically sent an ugly text back stating that he would pay me that same day (8/28). He never told me when he would pay me though. Since that incidents, I have sent him texts, but no response. Do you think he will pay me my money back? Have anyone had a similar experience?