blame it on my Pluto in the eight house, I love undercover relationships?

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Anyone have this placement, or strong Scorpio influences that thrive off of relationships that are undercover... Maybe it's because of work place or whatever but I have realized it really works for me.
I have this, but what do you mean undercover relationships?

and i'm married, to a strongly scorpionic man.
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I mean like dating a co-worker, or someone out of a group of friends... Nothing like cheating or affairs.

I like the sense of " hiding" the relationship from others. Like an " us against them" our secret. But it doesn't mean after others find out I move on, it's just initially I like it.
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Anyone have this placement, or strong Scorpio influences that thrive off of relationships that are undercover... Maybe it's because of work place or whatever but I have realized it really works for me.
I have this, but what do you mean undercover relationships?

and i'm married, to a strongly scorpionic man.

I mean like dating a co-worker, or someone out of a group of friends... Nothing like cheating or affairs.

I like the sense of " hiding" the relationship from others. Like an " us against them" our secret. But it doesn't mean after others find out I move on, it's just initially I like it.
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oh I see what you mean.

like keeping the sex secret, where you have sex. ect. and all the juicy naughty yummy things hidden.

ie. touching eachother in the dark cinema, grabbing ass behind the corridor, a kiss on the neck,

appear all innocent in front of everyone, but behind closed doors......MEEEOWWW. lmao.

lol yup I see what you mean.



it's super HOT.



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Anyone have this placement, or strong Scorpio influences that thrive off of relationships that are undercover... Maybe it's because of work place or whatever but I have realized it really works for me.
I have this, but what do you mean undercover relationships?

and i'm married, to a strongly scorpionic man.

I mean like dating a co-worker, or someone out of a group of friends... Nothing like cheating or affairs.

I like the sense of " hiding" the relationship from others. Like an " us against them" our secret. But it doesn't mean after others find out I move on, it's just initially I like it.
oh I see what you mean.

like keeping the sex secret, where you have sex. ect. and all the juicy naughty yummy things hidden.

ie. touching eachother in the dark cinema, grabbing ass behind the corridor, a kiss on the neck,

appear all innocent in front of everyone, but behind closed doors......MEEEOWWW. lmao.

lol yup I see what you mean.



it's super HOT.



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Yes! I love the mystery.. And hiding the secret from others. Like I've been seeing this Aries guy and he basically announced to all his friends(my sis is one of his best friends) we are together and I grimaced lol



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Anyone have this placement, or strong Scorpio influences that thrive off of relationships that are undercover... Maybe it's because of work place or whatever but I have realized it really works for me.
I have this, but what do you mean undercover relationships?

and i'm married, to a strongly scorpionic man.

I mean like dating a co-worker, or someone out of a group of friends... Nothing like cheating or affairs.

I like the sense of " hiding" the relationship from others. Like an " us against them" our secret. But it doesn't mean after others find out I move on, it's just initially I like it.
oh I see what you mean.

like keeping the sex secret, where you have sex. ect. and all the juicy naughty yummy things hidden.

ie. touching eachother in the dark cinema, grabbing ass behind the corridor, a kiss on the neck,

appear all innocent in front of everyone, but behind closed doors......MEEEOWWW. lmao.

lol yup I see what you mean.



it's super HOT.



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Yes! I love the mystery.. And hiding the secret from others. Like I've been seeing this Aries guy and he basically announced to all his friends(my sis is one of his best friends) we are together and I grimaced lol





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what? well that part i'm not in agreement with you. I would PREFER if my man tells people he is TAKEN.
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Anyone have this placement, or strong Scorpio influences that thrive off of relationships that are undercover... Maybe it's because of work place or whatever but I have realized it really works for me.
I have this, but what do you mean undercover relationships?

and i'm married, to a strongly scorpionic man.

I mean like dating a co-worker, or someone out of a group of friends... Nothing like cheating or affairs.

I like the sense of " hiding" the relationship from others. Like an " us against them" our secret. But it doesn't mean after others find out I move on, it's just initially I like it.
oh I see what you mean.

like keeping the sex secret, where you have sex. ect. and all the juicy naughty yummy things hidden.

ie. touching eachother in the dark cinema, grabbing ass behind the corridor, a kiss on the neck,

appear all innocent in front of everyone, but behind closed doors......MEEEOWWW. lmao.

lol yup I see what you mean.



it's super HOT.



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Yes! I love the mystery.. And hiding the secret from others. Like I've been seeing this Aries guy and he basically announced to all his friends(my sis is one of his best friends) we are together and I grimaced lol





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what? well that part i'm not in agreement with you. I would PREFER if my man tells people he is TAKEN.
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That's the thing... We were friends a few months and there's a lot on the line being he is best friends with my sis and her group of friends. I never told him I was his gf we never had sex... I just wasn't ready to be announced while I'm still figuring out my feelings.
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Clandestine

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Yes! I can't imagine why I'm drawn to these is it my Pluto in 8th? I always seem to find myself in these relationships. Not that I'm complaining 😉


Scorpio energy in general

I used to like it till someone tried to hide me and then it felt bad and I was pissed off.....he had moon, pluto, saturn and mc in Scorpio

Lol
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Yes, that's why it has to be hidden for a mutual purpose.
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.... I would much rather be out with someone as it proves to me they are proud of me and i don't think I deserve to be hidden from anyone

Feels a bit like being a mistress

Feck that
I think the context was among co-workers or a circle of friends which is different than introducing a stranger to an established group. In the latter case, I have no problems but co-workers it's really none of their business and within a circle of friends, it depends on the cattiness and gossipiness.

Otherwise, yes I'd agree with you, it's a red flag when someone doesn't want to introduce you to their people, so to speak.
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.... I would much rather be out with someone as it proves to me they are proud of me and i don't think I deserve to be hidden from anyone

Feels a bit like being a mistress

Feck that

No, not hidden like that I mean because you work together or fell for someone in a group of friends and it's mutual. Not like I'm hiding him or he's hiding me, it's more of a "we" hiding initially.
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.... I would much rather be out with someone as it proves to me they are proud of me and i don't think I deserve to be hidden from anyone

Feels a bit like being a mistress

Feck that

No, not hidden like that I mean because you work together or fell for someone in a group of friends and it's mutual. Not like I'm hiding him or he's hiding me, it's more of a "we" hiding initially.
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.... I would much rather be out with someone as it proves to me they are proud of me and i don't think I deserve to be hidden from anyone

Feels a bit like being a mistress

Feck that
I think the context was among co-workers or a circle of friends which is different than introducing a stranger to an established group. In the latter case, I have no problems but co-workers it's really none of their business and within a circle of friends, it depends on the cattiness and gossipiness.

Otherwise, yes I'd agree with you, it's a red flag when someone doesn't want to introduce you to their people, so to speak.

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Well most workplaces don't allow it.. I mean they will transfer your ass so you are not in the same building. And groups of friends... That can get complicated if things don't work out and create division and drama in the circle of friends. That's why I rather keep it hidden at least until circumstances change that are more favorable for the relationship to be in the open. Generally a few months.
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.... I would much rather be out with someone as it proves to me they are proud of me and i don't think I deserve to be hidden from anyone

Feels a bit like being a mistress

Feck that

No, not hidden like that I mean because you work together or fell for someone in a group of friends and it's mutual. Not like I'm hiding him or he's hiding me, it's more of a "we" hiding initially.
Oh right

Yes I went through that and worked with him. We got married and had a baby. 🙂
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That's awesome, good for you! And you had to keep it hidden for awhile?
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.... I would much rather be out with someone as it proves to me they are proud of me and i don't think I deserve to be hidden from anyone

Feels a bit like being a mistress

Feck that

No, not hidden like that I mean because you work together or fell for someone in a group of friends and it's mutual. Not like I'm hiding him or he's hiding me, it's more of a "we" hiding initially.
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ok I get you.

yeah you don't want people in your business.

I know/ get what you mean.
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aargggh quoting system here is weirding out again. lol

anyway I wrote:

ok I get you.

yeah you don't want people in your business.

I know/ get what you mean....

because my scorpio sun /stellium gf in high school/ junior high was the same way....she had even clandestine meetings with someone from school, that was a super jock, and no one would have suspected she and HIM (the guy) lol, were making out and other naughty activities (this was high school senior year already) because she was not in the popular crowd group. She was the nerdy girl like us, and she told me about him though. I was ....really shocked. lol I mean I wasn't because I knew she liked him but holy damn. lol

and this was true too with another scorpio sun gf I knew in my harry potter circle, she never talked about her bf, but would mention him a little, giving some clues. it just wasn't anyone's business.

however if they are married then they are married, that's it. but you don't talk too much about private affairs.
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yeah we're all on the same page. Just from my experience having to clean up after someone else's gossiping "fun" is a lot of work I'd rather not have to do. And a lot of the time the person having the gossiping "fun" suffers no consequence for causing a lot of problems for others.
keeping it secret so the entire school doesn't know, basically is what keeping secrets mean.



or letting the entire workplace (if this happened at the workplace) know and the gossipy women make trouble.

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you know this is all under the scorpio.org site too, where the authoress discusses about scorpionic activities and keeping secrets.

it's very similar to what OP was discussing, just like what the site suggests.

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yeah we're all on the same page. Just from my experience having to clean up after someone else's gossiping "fun" is a lot of work I'd rather not have to do. And a lot of the time the person having the gossiping "fun" suffers no consequence for causing a lot of problems for others.
keeping it secret so the entire school doesn't know, basically is what keeping secrets mean.



or letting the entire workplace (if this happened at the workplace) know and the gossipy women make trouble.

EDIT -



you know this is all under the scorpio.org site too, where the authoress discusses about scorpionic activities and keeping secrets.

it's very similar to what OP was discussing, just like what the site suggests.

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What's funny is I didn't think of my Pluto placement until I created this topic, then I remembered reading about 8th house Scorpio... It's the only Scorpionic aspect in my chart.
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yeah we're all on the same page. Just from my experience having to clean up after someone else's gossiping "fun" is a lot of work I'd rather not have to do. And a lot of the time the person having the gossiping "fun" suffers no consequence for causing a lot of problems for others.
keeping it secret so the entire school doesn't know, basically is what keeping secrets mean.



or letting the entire workplace (if this happened at the workplace) know and the gossipy women make trouble.

EDIT -



you know this is all under the scorpio.org site too, where the authoress discusses about scorpionic activities and keeping secrets.

it's very similar to what OP was discussing, just like what the site suggests.



What's funny is I didn't think of my Pluto placement until I created this topic, then I remembered reading about 8th house Scorpio... It's the only Scorpionic aspect in my chart.
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I find cancer sun the same way though. and pisces sun. it's a water thing in my personal opinion. but maybe they have 8th house aspects, because the authoress on that site also mentions Gemini suns, like double air Marilyn Monroe having sexual charisma which is 8th house/scorpio energy. Not from her Gemini sun, or aqua moon, or leo rising. I remember reading that link.
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yeah we're all on the same page. Just from my experience having to clean up after someone else's gossiping "fun" is a lot of work I'd rather not have to do. And a lot of the time the person having the gossiping "fun" suffers no consequence for causing a lot of problems for others.
keeping it secret so the entire school doesn't know, basically is what keeping secrets mean.



or letting the entire workplace (if this happened at the workplace) know and the gossipy women make trouble.

EDIT -



you know this is all under the scorpio.org site too, where the authoress discusses about scorpionic activities and keeping secrets.

it's very similar to what OP was discussing, just like what the site suggests.



What's funny is I didn't think of my Pluto placement until I created this topic, then I remembered reading about 8th house Scorpio... It's the only Scorpionic aspect in my chart.

I find cancer sun the same way though. and pisces sun. it's a water thing in my personal opinion. but maybe they have 8th house aspects, because the authoress on that site also mentions Gemini suns, like double air Marilyn Monroe having sexual charisma which is 8th house/scorpio energy. Not from her Gemini sun, or aqua moon, or leo rising. I remember reading that link.
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Ah, so then I've got it double! My Cancer Sun and eighth house need it. Makes sense.
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you know this is all under the scorpio.org site too, where the authoress discusses about scorpionic activities and keeping secrets.

it's very similar to what OP was discussing, just like what the site suggests.


Interesting, I dont consider myself scorpionic at all, though I like my secrets and I dont like being crossed 😛

I will have to check out this website, thank you!
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you know this is all under the scorpio.org site too, where the authoress discusses about scorpionic activities and keeping secrets.

it's very similar to what OP was discussing, just like what the site suggests.


Interesting, I dont consider myself scorpionic at all, though I like my secrets and I dont like being crossed 😛

I will have to check out this website, thank you!

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lol sure. but you have 8th house moon. Marilyn Monroe has pisces mars/ pisces Uranus in the 8th house.
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I have Pluto in the 8th house and I'm far from being secretive. I talk to a lot of people so I hardly ever keep secrets about my life (I can keep others' secrets though, if they ask).

And, you know, the news spreads fast and far like wildfire...
Hmm I'm the same, I talk a lot and secrets spill out but I'm talking about relationship wise. I like to have a mystery about "us" like we share a secret against others. It's the thrill of not getting caught like we are in our own movie lol. Like, I was kinda seeing a co-worker so that was kept hidden from others at work, but my friends an family knew about us.