Bull Gggggrrrrrrrrrrrr

Ok the bull i was going out with for 1 yr told me on 19th that its all over and that he doesnt have any feeling for me and wants nothing to do with plus that i should leave him alone....when i asked if he loved me he said whos to know....he broke my heart.

so thats what i did. I didnt contact him at all...usually i would call and try to resolve issues but this time i was hurt and i gave up as he told that he had long time ago.

But then i had an interview for a graduate job yesterday in the same company we worked for as interns....well he texted me to wish me good luck and encouraging me that i have work before so i will have better chance....

I am so confused as to why he texted me when he said he wants nothing to do with me....whole week i saw him on msn but we never said anything. He also said that its not his problem that i have an interview when he was breaking up with me on 19th....so why wish me luck—?? or contact me.....

I text back this morning saying thanks and tell that it went ok and now waiting to hear their answer....but he hasnt contacted me back at all.

Anyone any thoughts....coz i love this guy but when he told all this i was heart broken....

I used to date a bull like this years ago. He would tell me that he didn't want to be with me anymore and then contact me by sending me flowers or trying to act like friends and wanting more. I don't really understand their behavior sometimes. Eventually I got sick of his crap and left him.

More specifically, I would say he still sees you as a friend and will occasionally do things like this. As long as you feel this way you will remain frustratingly cold and disappointed and you won't be in his thoughts most of the time 😢

You might do things for him but he will be completely blind to details. If you can't tone it down a bit it would be best to ignore him, because there is no way to fix it by getting in his face about it or subtlety trying to get his attention.

That would just irritate him I think or he simply wouldn't notice or ignore it himself since he was direct with you about his intent.

So yes, it's either ignore him or be prepared to wait - quite a while 😢

Thank you so much for all your advise and help. I truly love him and I will wait....and know we are ment to be.

Thank you and Pray for me.

I know that this is an old post, but I assume that fishworry is a pisces like me and im dating a bull, myself. now, im one of those pisceans who has their guard up because i refuse to be hurt again but im really into my bull and according to him, he's really into me too...

i was just wondering what are their pet peaves... things that would make him call the whole thing off because i truly dont want any surprises if i open myself all the way up. i mean i dont want to be thrown into the fire and have my hide cooked, ya know? Ive been cooked once before, anymore cooking and i'll be well done.

Fish worry, what happened to make him call it off?

I think it was coz there was no trust and we wanted different things coz i am older than him...he hides things thats what made it tough and was getting controlling...when i told him i love him that was it...he didnt do any work in the relationship.

I really love him and always will coz its was something great when he was into me but its a shame he didnt feel same for me.

Just hold of as long as u can expressing yourself and always remember never be there too much...take time off to do ur own thing...dont make him your world...keep him on his toes.

its interesting that you said that. i think i'll take your advice.

hey np at all. Just enjoy and try not to think so much....coz you'll miss this lovely time together.

What year was he born? But yeah, Taurus has a tendency to suddenly become bored and easily drops relationships they no longer feel good being in. They're very blunt about it as well. Descriptions always rant and rave about how Taurus is stable and loyal, but they don't talk about how they're only like that as long as it comforts them. They don't usually keep in touch with exes, so I want to know his Chinese sign. Thus why I asked his year of birth.

They just never grow up......my bull is a RAT....very odd combo.

LOL I know you are....but do you ever feel you act like a little boy.....no is the only word you know.

I wish you try and see other people's point of view.

He was born in 1984

im like super afraid that he's gonna one day, wake up, and say hmm... i think i'll dump arielle today. and i'll be heartbroken cause being a pisces, i give it a 100% try. and my last relationship was a disaster, so im truly hoping that he "get bored" with me.

I know that im sexy, i mean that probably sounds conceited but i work very hard to keep myself lookin good, and most people seem to think so. and its not that i have a big head, but i work hard to keep myself on top of things and to keep my man satisfied. so i dont think my being pleasing would be the problem. but on the other hand, i am a pisces. nurturing, caring, sympathetic, moody, and COMPLETELY ruled by my emotions. i hope he just doesnt break my wittle heart. i dont know how much more of that i could take.

*doesnt get bored* im an idiot. dont mind me. thats what i was supposed to say in the last statement

well get it straight bucko! Im a little mermaid and i swim under the water, and yes, i have the same name as the cartoon... rather, she has the same name as me because im older so ha! there you have it, theres the difference right there lol