Libra males

how will a libra male handle having to stay in a relationship with a woman he does't love anymore. When he loves another totally and completly, but due to financial, family, ect... he has to stay married. However, he seems very depressed about having to choose this choice. He is even going to a counsler to help him deal with this situation. Is he going to fall into a deep depression over this? Help libras answer some questions for me!

Posted by Ju
how will a libra male handle having to stay in a relationship with a woman he does't love anymore. When he loves another totally and completly, but due to financial, family, ect... he has to stay married. However, he seems very depressed about having to choose this choice. He is even going to a counsler to help him deal with this situation. Is he going to fall into a deep depression over this? Help libras answer some questions for me!

I would be interested in knowing the answer to this as well. Anyone?

I can't talk for every Libra man because that will be wrong and stupid of me. As Libra male from my eyes I personally wouldn't stay with her. If I don't love her and I'm not happy this can't lead to some deep depression and sadly even suicide (Hope that doesn't happen to your guy). He should understand that he fell out of love with his wife and want to move on. He must and always keep in contact with his children and not be a deadbeat. He basically needs to reboot himself.

Im a Libra female and stayed with a guy who i didnt love and i fell into serious depression, it actually took me to almost the point of suicide before we ended it. I dont blame the guy he didnt drive me there, it was my own fault for not getting out sooner

yeah, i'm the one who had to break it off with my libra guy in the end. he tried to once but went the pity route (which is even more messed up because, not to sound like an arrogant leo but, i could have easily replaced him with someone who really wanted to be with me). i know plenty of libras who stay in relationship even when unhappy. it eventually ends but it may very well take them years before it happens even when the relationship died in their hearts.

man its out of pity, simply put we truly may not understand emotions b/c when we see them we easily go with what we THINK would make it better rather than just leave. Most of the time, if libras stay in a bad relationships its out of compulsion b/c our natural impulse is to leave. But emotions make us uneasy and we sometimes dont know when we are being taken advantage of

then some just fear that lonilness, that feeling we intially felt before everything became disillusioned. Libra men who stay in relationships out of pity are highly disillusined about morals and whats right. You can tell when we arent happy either b/c we force smiles, hardly move, things just change, you will know.He will drink more or do something to free himself and give him that since of manhood and independence and libras tell the truth when drunk b/c no inhibitions about someone else's boundaries exist at tgat point

i stayed in a bad relationship before out of pity, finally i decided that no matter what i say the pain will still be there

People say we are emotionless, but they have no idea how hard love rocks us. It takes us a little bit to recover tho we may not show it, we are raging hurricanes on the inside during bad relationships

It changes with EXPERIENCE, not maturity b/c we matured young, just experienced late, its sad to see us unhappy, and its all in our eyes when we are depressed

i been thru that and it was just abosolutely dark

And after it all is said and done...the guilt will stick with us for the longest period of time... until all the guilt of the people we have had to hurt have moved on...

If you are part of the reason we leave, that guilt will belong to you too, narrowing the chances of it working with you!

Posted by Ju
how will a libra male handle having to stay in a relationship with a woman he does't love anymore. When he loves another totally and completly, but due to financial, family, ect... he has to stay married. However, he seems very depressed about having to choose this choice. He is even going to a counsler to help him deal with this situation. Is he going to fall into a deep depression over this? Help libras answer some questions for me!

You've had good responses so far. I think I'd add my 2c though.

I think that said Libra male will still stay married for reasons because he is not free to do as he pleases. Libras are usually surrounded by verrrry manipulative people and they're verrry likely to do whatever it takes to guilt him into staying, and he most probably would.

Depression is a Libra's mojo, you seldom meet a Libra who isnt depressed, because the world's not pretty.

Apart from points already mentioned, there is a sense of obligation, and sentimentality, not based on love, but times shared with a said person.

Libra loves the status quo; change is not a viable option, unless it gets really unbearable.

"When he loves another totally and completly"

Only this. You can't say fo' sure. Only he knows. You don't.

Hahaha, this post and her other one was created in 2007!

Would be interesting to hear from her now and how it all went!

@ superhero
simple straightforward and true. my libra friend was "inlove" with this Scorpio girl while in a relationship with a Pisces. Broke up w the Pisces... got bored i guess— and went back to the Pisces and proposed...

Libras!! what goes on in your heads??