aries/cancer bad match moon venus?

I'm an aries woman who's fallen hard for a cancer man. He feels the same. I know cancer/aries typically is not a good match. Can anyone interpret our other planet placements to help determine if we have a shot? I'm 32 he's 40.

Female Male
Sun - aries Sun - cancer
Moon - cancer Moon - aries
Venus- aquarius Venus - gemini
Mars - gemini Mars - gemini

Thank you!

Okay from what little I know this chart looks pretty good.
Becuase you have Sun Aries and Moon Cancer and he has the opposit and both have Mars in Gemini and Venus is aquarius Gemi match. I think this could work really well. Just remember crabs like to hang in there shell when feeling stuff and Aries are not the most compasionet in the world. Give him space to feel what he needs and make sure you give him a hug everyonce in a while to let him know your there and care.
Good luck.
BadAssGem

Thanks to badassgem
Appreciate your thoughts and insight. Very nervous about this because I hear and read that aries cancer is a bad match generally.
Anyone else have thoughts?

venus signs aquarius & gemini

i've read before it goes together well. try it.

Posted by smudgey
Thanks to badassgem
Appreciate your thoughts and insight. Very nervous about this because I hear and read that aries cancer is a bad match generally.
Anyone else have thoughts?

first of all-- you are distressing yourself with your own imaginings. your doubt is already getting in the way of reality, and this is the only problem I see between you and this cancer. because you are concentrating too hard on the fact that you and he are not compatible astrologically, you have no confidence in the slight POSSIBILITY that it will work out and therefore are not being HONEST with yourself or this relationship at all.

look at it this way. if you spend your time with him, day in day out-- doing things together, engaging in conversation-- all the while fretting to yourself, "it won't work, it can't work...!" well then... it simply will not work, will it?

how can you expect a flower to bloom if you do not nourish it? believe that someday it too can be beautiful?

I used to be like you. my bf is a virgo. I am not even close to a virgo. I am a double-watered, aries-fired pisces, and I have little to nothing of a virgo trait within me. I used to WORRY, constantly WORRY, if our relationship could EVER BE; can it be? I thought to myself; I got caught up in so much DOUBT, self doubt! until I realized that it was my OWN fear and my OWN superstitions that would be the downfall of our relationship-- NOT our astrological placements. by placing the value of what we had simply on the alignment of our stars, I was not being my true self to him; I was suffocating myself and the true character of our relationship.

virgos and pisces are actually quite compatible, with compromise.
and so too are aries and cancer, with patience.

have hope. BE YOURSELF. do not put on a face for what you think your cancer wants to see. BE PATIENT. cancers are a slow sign; they do not jump hastily or act swift in their passions like you. but he will admire this in you, as long as you do not allow it to pressure his own way of doing things. ENJOY YOUR DIFFERENCES. learn from him, and let him learn from you. it is ok to "agree to disagree." & finally, RELAX. don't think about it so much. don't base every dispute on "it's because I'm an aries, we're not compatible!" ha! if the ocean were always still there would be nothing to look at. life is MADE from the ups and downs; learn to appreciate them. with such an interestingly compatible chart, you shouldn't give up on love.

Posted by smudgey
I'm an aries woman who's fallen hard for a cancer man. He feels the same. I know cancer/aries typically is not a good match. Can anyone interpret our other planet placements to help determine if we have a shot? I'm 32 he's 40.

Female Male
Sun - aries Sun - cancer
Moon - cancer Moon - aries
Venus- aquarius Venus - gemini
Mars - gemini Mars - gemini

Thank you!

i can see a very nice synastry of planets in ur chart, based on my amatuer thoughts. Ur sun-moon conjunctions on both sides should make u compatible on an emotional and spiritual level, while ur venus-mars aspect will make u two feel great on physical level. Good luck!

From your both charts you provide it's almost like a perfect match. You need a bit more details like degrees and outer planets to know if it's truly a hit or a near miss.