Posted by thinktoomuch
I think you love them, and then they do something, that WOULD make you hate them, but what you feel as hate, is actually selfhatred, because despite it all you still love them. Love doesn´t come or go in a heartbeat.
I think a lot of the topics here, especially from women complaining over men and how the men treats them, but then still wanting to be with them, is an exampe of just that. They´re still into the guy and get angry with themself, because they still like the guy even after he doesn´t do everything, that the women imagine he would do... Didn´t live up to the exspectations.
Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
Posted by tiziani
That's the need to find meaning in the bond through extremes.
Where just an average day in one another's company isn't meaningful enough for one or either person.
Drama.
Posted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...click to expand
Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseGetting out of my first relationship now... Trying to and my first love... It's cool , but it's draining.. I know toPosted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...
My relationships aren't as volatile as to change within a day. But anyone important to me inherently has a lot of power over me. The power to bring me incredible joy and incredible pain. This is why you should be careful who you hand your heart over to. I wouldn't want to hand my heart over to someone who would cause the pendulum to swing so violently.click to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by saweetz1988Yep I know what you mean. Been through something similar myself.Posted by tiziani
That's the need to find meaning in the bond through extremes.
Where just an average day in one another's company isn't meaningful enough for one or either person.
Drama.
Yeb drama as you may call it but don't you think some connection are too intense that a normal relationship isn't enough? ... trust me I had not make eelarionships before n was fine with it... but this bond is so strong that it almost brings out the best and the worst from both sides....
Some connections just are not commitments, period.click to expand
Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthousePosted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...
My relationships aren't as volatile as to change within a day. But anyone important to me inherently has a lot of power over me. The power to bring me incredible joy and incredible pain. This is why you should be careful who you hand your heart over to. I wouldn't want to hand my heart over to someone who would cause the pendulum to swing so violently.click to expand
Posted by arose32Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseGetting out of my first relationship now... Trying to and my first love... It's cool , but it's draining.. I know toPosted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...
My relationships aren't as volatile as to change within a day. But anyone important to me inherently has a lot of power over me. The power to bring me incredible joy and incredible pain. This is why you should be careful who you hand your heart over to. I wouldn't want to hand my heart over to someone who would cause the pendulum to swing so violently.
Be really really careful, and possibly wait until around 26 to ever do the real love thing again... Unless Anything they do, doesn't surprise me anymore... Some people love having power over you, more than they actually love you.... It's scary... Seriously. I'm really just praying for the day I don't have love for this person anymore...click to expand
Posted by LuckyLibra979
Yea if you're bipolar
Posted by LuckyLibra979Posted by tiziani
That's the need to find meaning in the bond through extremes.
Where just an average day in one another's company isn't meaningful enough for one or either person.
Drama.
Yep I've been in relationships with women, well girls like this. They needed dramaclick to expand
Posted by saweetz1988I have a Leo moon.. Aqua Venus and sag sun.. I don't want to battle at all with anyone, I just want to be valued that's all lol... But just be careful trying to battle.. Don't let them pull you down ... Easier said than done...Posted by arose32Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseGetting out of my first relationship now... Trying to and my first love... It's cool , but it's draining.. I know toPosted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...
My relationships aren't as volatile as to change within a day. But anyone important to me inherently has a lot of power over me. The power to bring me incredible joy and incredible pain. This is why you should be careful who you hand your heart over to. I wouldn't want to hand my heart over to someone who would cause the pendulum to swing so violently.
Be really really careful, and possibly wait until around 26 to ever do the real love thing again... Unless Anything they do, doesn't surprise me anymore... Some people love having power over you, more than they actually love you.... It's scary... Seriously. I'm really just praying for the day I don't have love for this person anymore...
u r spot on abot having power over you rather than knowing how to love you.. It sucks... n he's one of them... I'm also hoping I will stop loving this person very soon myself.... I don't noe if it's real love or I just wanna win now ... Emotion r so complex. My Aqua moon is struggling very hard within... Maybe that's why I act like a psycho, I don't noe how to absorb and deal with them...click to expand
Posted by saweetz1988You are way too emotional & emotions make a person weak. I had this issue myself & trying to curb my own emotions due to my gem moon. If you have trusted him enough to have a child together, why cant u guys sit down together now to solve these issues together. Dont the past mean anything? I understand its difficult to cut out emotions in relationship but really all it does is just hurting you two. Calm your torrents of emotions & use a calm and rational approach to solve this. You will see a very different outcome 🙂Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthousePosted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...
My relationships aren't as volatile as to change within a day. But anyone important to me inherently has a lot of power over me. The power to bring me incredible joy and incredible pain. This is why you should be careful who you hand your heart over to. I wouldn't want to hand my heart over to someone who would cause the pendulum to swing so violently.
If only I knew a way to stop my heart from being fallen to such person I would. It's awful, 5 days ago I was tearful from the love I feel for this person. (How can I love someone so much ) I wonder... 3 days ago, things shift and I hated him so much for so many wrong things he has done to me... I want indeferent really badly.... but it's not happening.. he's probably all confused not knowing wth... He thinks I'm some kind of a psycho changing my feelings within days.. trust me, I have never been this way before ... 😢 and now he's hating me .. lol... what a storyclick to expand
Posted by RainDancerPosted by starwarsI know this feeling.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse+1Posted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...
My relationships aren't as volatile as to change within a day. But anyone important to me inherently has a lot of power over me. The power to bring me incredible joy and incredible pain. This is why you should be careful who you hand your heart over to. I wouldn't want to hand my heart over to someone who would cause the pendulum to swing so violently.
Gah. It's been YEARS! And the freedom of not having it is bittersweet.
At the end of the day you need stability. You need to trust. To relax. To let your hair down and be you in its most beautiful form.
The violent swings for me were passion, nothing more. Once I learned that I was no longer shackeled.
Guard your heart above all else because all you do flows from within it.
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Posted by Arielle83
my venus is in virgo, and his is in scorpio..
i actually am bipolar.
hes more up and down than me.
i can love him to the moon and back, but when he criticises me i lose it...however, I'm a cancer and we hate criticism.
i go on a walk, trip, swim, my cave to sort out how i really feel...then i realise its the words he uses that i hate, the mannerisms, the context, how he said it.
I dont hate him, he's just the messenger.
Then i rape him with my mouth. 🙂
Posted by AngmodurianPosted by saweetz1988You are way too emotional & emotions make a person weak. I had this issue myself & trying to curb my own emotions due to my gem moon. If you have trusted him enough to have a child together, why cant u guys sit down together now to solve these issues together. Dont the past mean anything? I understand its difficult to cut out emotions in relationship but really all it does is just hurting you two. Calm your torrents of emotions & use a calm and rational approach to solve this. You will see a very different outcome 🙂Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthousePosted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...
My relationships aren't as volatile as to change within a day. But anyone important to me inherently has a lot of power over me. The power to bring me incredible joy and incredible pain. This is why you should be careful who you hand your heart over to. I wouldn't want to hand my heart over to someone who would cause the pendulum to swing so violently.
If only I knew a way to stop my heart from being fallen to such person I would. It's awful, 5 days ago I was tearful from the love I feel for this person. (How can I love someone so much ) I wonder... 3 days ago, things shift and I hated him so much for so many wrong things he has done to me... I want indeferent really badly.... but it's not happening.. he's probably all confused not knowing wth... He thinks I'm some kind of a psycho changing my feelings within days.. trust me, I have never been this way before ... 😢 and now he's hating me .. lol... what a storyclick to expand
Posted by FrenchKpricornPosted by saweetz1988love and hate are the same thing.
Intense feelings overwhelmed with extrme love one day and when there's a fight you just hate everything about them and back to love in a few days. Why is that—?? Can pain makes you feel hate, revenge, etc.... if someone claims he doesn't love love how can you have an affect to make them hate you that much n want you the next— This is new to me... reminds me of the notebook when they fight like crazy and want each other the next... It's awful lol... I want indifferent ... but struggling with itclick to expand
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
when i was a kid, i remenber there was i girl that i was hating on her, but i still find her cute, and i definitly fall and love with hem, i was "WTF" —?
then i understand it that the fact i was thinking about her all the time made me in love. i even pick a chick with this technique make me hating on me, then changing his mind, for having her; the fact she was thinking on me was good.
and generally, with my loved ones if i see hate, its good sign. its probably why cap choose to ignoring persons when they dont want to see them again
Posted by FrenchKpricornPosted by saweetz1988which one you wants ?Posted by FrenchKpricornPosted by saweetz1988love and hate are the same thing.
Intense feelings overwhelmed with extrme love one day and when there's a fight you just hate everything about them and back to love in a few days. Why is that—?? Can pain makes you feel hate, revenge, etc.... if someone claims he doesn't love love how can you have an affect to make them hate you that much n want you the next— This is new to me... reminds me of the notebook when they fight like crazy and want each other the next... It's awful lol... I want indifferent ... but struggling with it
😢 what r ur placements?click to expand
Posted by mysteriousTaurus
This caption is my entire life
Posted by starwarsPosted by saweetz1988what is your venus saweetz?Posted by LuckyLibra979
Yea if you're bipolar
I'm a bipolar to this person yes...but not anywhere else in life... Very stableclick to expand
Posted by FrenchKpricornPosted by saweetz1988carefull with passional relation, it can make you crazyPosted by FrenchKpricorn
when i was a kid, i remenber there was i girl that i was hating on her, but i still find her cute, and i definitly fall and love with hem, i was "WTF" —?
then i understand it that the fact i was thinking about her all the time made me in love. i even pick a chick with this technique make me hating on me, then changing his mind, for having her; the fact she was thinking on me was good.
and generally, with my loved ones if i see hate, its good sign. its probably why cap choose to ignoring persons when they dont want to see them again
Well one thing he said to me was ** it's so bad, when we fight I really hate you then the next I want you again.... I'm like your Slave or something *** I agreed with him Coz that's what I feel too... Ofcoz he never told me he loves me at all esp with my up n down behaviour on messages....he noes I love him too bits.... everytime we fight he tells me I'm pushing him to hate him then after a while he wants me.... now from what I can see he's hating me again lol..... I'm so lost.... n I maybe shud just leave us like this... I want balance n we r never going to have that ever... atleast not in person... I want us to work out so bad even as friends but I can't seem to keep a stable route with him !!! The funny thing is I never fight with anyone ever I mean I always have peace and detach... With him is the same, almost like we hurt each other like this all the time... If he didn't love me why wud he say I hurt him.. So confused I am giving up completely... ;(click to expand
Posted by starwars
@saweetz1988 maybe its the gemini venus, my ex used to do that when hes mad, he hates me lol but i know its just a phase. What things that he does that makes you hate him?
Posted by starwarsPosted by saweetz1988I'm Scorpio venus. My ex used to hate me when hes jealous. (Most of the time he get jealous for a very irrational reason so i hate that too lol). I wait until he come back to his sense and apologize. Hes a crab so i believe hes just as stubborn. Im voting that it might be the venus in you.Posted by starwars
@saweetz1988 maybe its the gemini venus, my ex used to do that when hes mad, he hates me lol but i know its just a phase. What things that he does that makes you hate him?
What's ur Venus? I noe I hate my Venus too. It's sooooo up and downnnnnn but my stubborn loyal Taurus side can't stop loving him . It's so hard....click to expand
Posted by HuldraPosted by saweetz1988Venus/Pluto in harsh aspect both ways.
Intense feelings overwhelmed with extrme love one day and when there's a fight you just hate everything about them and back to love in a few days. Why is that—?? Can pain makes you feel hate, revenge, etc.... if someone claims he doesn't love love how can you have an affect to make them hate you that much n want you the next— This is new to me... reminds me of the notebook when they fight like crazy and want each other the next... It's awful lol... I want indifferent ... but struggling with itclick to expand
Posted by FrenchKpricornPosted by saweetz1988its still fine, the limit is over when a partner cheats just for seeing a reactions.Posted by FrenchKpricornPosted by saweetz1988carefull with passional relation, it can make you crazyPosted by FrenchKpricorn
when i was a kid, i remenber there was i girl that i was hating on her, but i still find her cute, and i definitly fall and love with hem, i was "WTF" —?
then i understand it that the fact i was thinking about her all the time made me in love. i even pick a chick with this technique make me hating on me, then changing his mind, for having her; the fact she was thinking on me was good.
and generally, with my loved ones if i see hate, its good sign. its probably why cap choose to ignoring persons when they dont want to see them again
Well one thing he said to me was ** it's so bad, when we fight I really hate you then the next I want you again.... I'm like your Slave or something *** I agreed with him Coz that's what I feel too... Ofcoz he never told me he loves me at all esp with my up n down behaviour on messages....he noes I love him too bits.... everytime we fight he tells me I'm pushing him to hate him then after a while he wants me.... now from what I can see he's hating me again lol..... I'm so lost.... n I maybe shud just leave us like this... I want balance n we r never going to have that ever... atleast not in person... I want us to work out so bad even as friends but I can't seem to keep a stable route with him !!! The funny thing is I never fight with anyone ever I mean I always have peace and detach... With him is the same, almost like we hurt each other like this all the time... If he didn't love me why wud he say I hurt him.. So confused I am giving up completely... ;(
It's a bit too late for a careful advise lol... Over a year now... so I'm going to try to cut it off completely ...click to expand
Posted by starwars
@saweetz1988 its fine, it wasn't really terrible when he get in the "hate" phase (at first i was taken aback and would argue but with time i start to find it quite funny and realized its just a phase and he'd chill soon ) he glares, throw shades and make comments that are ridiculously funny (at least i think they are). he never been nasty and crossed the limit. we've broken up obvs but it wasn't for that reason.
Posted by starwarsPosted by saweetz1988I will pm youPosted by starwars
@saweetz1988 its fine, it wasn't really terrible when he get in the "hate" phase (at first i was taken aback and would argue but with time i start to find it quite funny and realized its just a phase and he'd chill soon ) he glares, throw shades and make comments that are ridiculously funny (at least i think they are). he never been nasty and crossed the limit. we've broken up obvs but it wasn't for that reason.
How badly did you argue though?.... after a few days my hatred dissapear and after a week I feel like nothing has happened between us lol.. but I'm sure that's not the same for him.... this may b It for him (I hope not ) 😢 .. I honestly don't know how to fix it anymore. His Venus drives me mad and my Venus reacts in a bad way. It's a cycle.. it's probably best this way... I dun want my words to hurt him anymore.. Do u mind me asking why did u break up, and what did love most bout that Venus and hate the most .. Thank uclick to expand
Posted by saweetz1988feeling the same 😢 .... power and love ... so confusing. hes got aqua moon too ... im not sure if hes aware we are breaking upPosted by arose32Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseGetting out of my first relationship now... Trying to and my first love... It's cool , but it's draining.. I know toPosted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...
My relationships aren't as volatile as to change within a day. But anyone important to me inherently has a lot of power over me. The power to bring me incredible joy and incredible pain. This is why you should be careful who you hand your heart over to. I wouldn't want to hand my heart over to someone who would cause the pendulum to swing so violently.
Be really really careful, and possibly wait until around 26 to ever do the real love thing again... Unless Anything they do, doesn't surprise me anymore... Some people love having power over you, more than they actually love you.... It's scary... Seriously. I'm really just praying for the day I don't have love for this person anymore...
u r spot on abot having power over you rather than knowing how to love you.. It sucks... n he's one of them... I'm also hoping I will stop loving this person very soon myself.... I don't noe if it's real love or I just wanna win now ... Emotion r so complex. My Aqua moon is struggling very hard within... Maybe that's why I act like a psycho, I don't noe how to absorb and deal with them...click to expand
Posted by TxOgalPosted by saweetz1988feeling the same 😢 .... power and love ... so confusing. hes got aqua moon too ... im not sure if hes aware we are breaking upPosted by arose32Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseGetting out of my first relationship now... Trying to and my first love... It's cool , but it's draining.. I know toPosted by saweetz1988Precisely. If you didn't care about them, they would never be able to provoke such emotions from you.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouse
My most powerful emotions are reserved for the people I care about the most.
When you say powerful u mean, love or hate lol ...
My relationships aren't as volatile as to change within a day. But anyone important to me inherently has a lot of power over me. The power to bring me incredible joy and incredible pain. This is why you should be careful who you hand your heart over to. I wouldn't want to hand my heart over to someone who would cause the pendulum to swing so violently.
Be really really careful, and possibly wait until around 26 to ever do the real love thing again... Unless Anything they do, doesn't surprise me anymore... Some people love having power over you, more than they actually love you.... It's scary... Seriously. I'm really just praying for the day I don't have love for this person anymore...
u r spot on abot having power over you rather than knowing how to love you.. It sucks... n he's one of them... I'm also hoping I will stop loving this person very soon myself.... I don't noe if it's real love or I just wanna win now ... Emotion r so complex. My Aqua moon is struggling very hard within... Maybe that's why I act like a psycho, I don't noe how to absorb and deal with them...click to expand
Posted by TxOgal
@saweetz1988 Oh well ....long story n i cant trust him.. he lied to me at times.. n now i doubt every little thing he says n does to me. And we had a big argument that was never solved.... we did not break up yet but i feel it coming probably from my side..
me: taurus sun / scorpio moon / taurus mercury / aries venus / pisces mars
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Txogal- Taurus with mercury in Taurus is consistent in honesty and trust.... Actual truth most people don't know is we know when shit is not happening right usually right away like a special sense..., even the lying. People lie so much and it sucks because sometimes we let shit slide till it's too much and focused to achieve problems.. then we are coming up with solutions like this. Release the bullshit. And fess up..and then walk away.. haha..
Especially you guys been together for a while.. we are consistent in the way we speak, with direct and straightforward communication.. it's simple all we want is honesty and respect and can't get that. What a damn shame.. No solution, no respect means not going to work out.
Posted by TxOgal
@saweetz1988 Oh well ....long story n i cant trust him.. he lied to me at times.. n now i doubt every little thing he says n does to me. And we had a big argument that was never solved.... we did not break up yet but i feel it coming probably from my side..
me: taurus sun / scorpio moon / taurus mercury / aries venus / pisces mars
Posted by saweetz1988him: Leo sun / Aqua moon / Virgo mercury, venus and marsPosted by TxOgal
@saweetz1988 Oh well ....long story n i cant trust him.. he lied to me at times.. n now i doubt every little thing he says n does to me. And we had a big argument that was never solved.... we did not break up yet but i feel it coming probably from my side..
me: taurus sun / scorpio moon / taurus mercury / aries venus / pisces mars
I'm sorry 😢 what r his placements ?click to expand
Posted by flowingwater
No, when I love you I love you til the ends of the earth. Yeah I may get mad but my feelings don't change.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@saweetz1988- Oh as you may know. I am Taurus with Aquarius moon too.. I understand completely what's the mind set we have on every one. Like I think the more bullshit we deal with in life including your lover...the more we are able to tell what's fishy about their personal experiences in their own life, it's why I emphasize friendship because you get to know them more than they realize...... it's probably why we care way too much and give way too many chances in the beginning.
Usually in the beginning I try to remain open minded...but it seems like we have to call them on it... But I can't. I don't....because people who are habitual liars eventually tell us the truth....maybe afew months later too. Like really why lie just tell me now...like why are you scared must be the poker face stare we have.. maybe alittle intimidating too.. but deep down I appreciate more if you just talk. We love to talk and make things work ...
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