Do men become addicted to a skillful lover?

Posted by Huldra

Posted by MsTeeq1974
I'm curious as to what this "addiction" would look like. I swear up and down that it's not the sex with these dudes and my friends are like, "um...yes it is Dear". Lol...I mean, it can't be. There's no way in the world that I would chase a relationship and do the things that these guys do simply for good sex. I mean, I know what I'm doing, but there has to be more to it.

Yes, I've been holding out on a thread update, because I don't really know how to put it in words. I think maybe now is a good time. Lol

I don't do sex w/o emotional attachment or the means of a relationship. So the only way I'm getting hooked is lots of sex thru the feeling of love and attachment, plus a LOT of vasopressin... do it like they do it on Discovery channel

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Lol@vassopressin. Ha ha ha You already know my stance on casual sex. IDK...emotional sex is great. I'm not saying it's not, but then that's tying something as important as sex to conditions. What happens if you argue...then you don't get any. Or what happens when the relationship isn't going well? You don't get any. Casual sex has nothing to do with anything BUT ggetting the job done and I like the job description. Lol

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Posted by Tinxy
Title says it all

Just reading a topic about how women become addicted and attached to a skillful lover just wondering if it's the same for men ??

Curiousity I suppose lol

Yes they so!!

Better than cooking!! Lol lol

If you can give earth shattering bjs and first massages... You will have the most "meanest " of dudes under your thumbs for life!! 😉 😄

How does one give an earth shattering bj?
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I'd have to inbox you this information.

Posted by Huldra
Venus in Taurus, man. I am doomed to be a one man woman lol

My ex Aries has venus in Taurus. He could be quite the player, BUT he enjoyed the illusion of being a one woman man. That was respectable to him.

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Posted by Tinxy
Title says it all

Just reading a topic about how women become addicted and attached to a skillful lover just wondering if it's the same for men ??

Curiousity I suppose lol

Yes they so!!

Better than cooking!! Lol lol

If you can give earth shattering bjs and first massages... You will have the most "meanest " of dudes under your thumbs for life!! 😉 😄

How does one give an earth shattering bj?

I'd have to inbox you this information.

hahaha do it.
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Aye aye aye...just be ready for what you're asking for. Lol ha ha ha

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^ A Pisces freding Libra the tiramisu

*explodes...*

LMBO!!!!!

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Posted by Huldra
Venus in Taurus, man. I am doomed to be a one man woman lol

My ex Aries has venus in Taurus. He could be quite the player, BUT he enjoyed the illusion of being a one woman man. That was respectable to him.

The illusion lol

I don't know if I'm sad or happy to say I can relate.
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Well, depends. Lol...I'd say sad if being busted while trying to keep up the illusion has left you and your S/Os lives in turmoil. But if you genuinely hope to have that connected one to one commitment one day and the fairytale just hasn't happened, then be happy about it. In which case illusion = dream. The beauty of the English language. Lol ha ha ha ha

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Posted by Tinxy
Title says it all

Just reading a topic about how women become addicted and attached to a skillful lover just wondering if it's the same for men ??

Curiousity I suppose lol

Yes they so!!

Better than cooking!! Lol lol

If you can give earth shattering bjs and first massages... You will have the most "meanest " of dudes under your thumbs for life!! 😉 😄

How does one give an earth shattering bj?

I'd have to inbox you this information.

Deep throat... LInda Lovelace

lol I've seen better head than that. I thought you all were going to tell me something special.
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Oh I am....deep throat is not the only name of the game. Lol

Posted by GetMisted

Posted by starlover

Posted by Huldra
Fyi it's a proven fact that people who have a good aense if rhythm (i.e. musicians, dancers) are great in bed. Of course, a decent size of cock helps as well.

Watch how a person dances to see how they are as a lover

Yep.
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I'm an amazing dancer. I was once asked by a bouncer if my spine existed because of how I move my body core. My hips do not lie. Lol

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Posted by Vanish

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Tinxy
Title says it all

Just reading a topic about how women become addicted and attached to a skillful lover just wondering if it's the same for men ??

Curiousity I suppose lol

Yes they so!!

Better than cooking!! Lol lol

If you can give earth shattering bjs and first massages... You will have the most "meanest " of dudes under your thumbs for life!! 😉 😄

How does one give an earth shattering bj?

Finger in the butt.
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That's just a part of the technique. LMBO!! And not really IN the butt...some tantalizing rim play works better.

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Posted by MsTeeq1974

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Posted by Vanish

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Tinxy
Title says it all

Just reading a topic about how women become addicted and attached to a skillful lover just wondering if it's the same for men ??

Curiousity I suppose lol

Yes they so!!

Better than cooking!! Lol lol

If you can give earth shattering bjs and first massages... You will have the most "meanest " of dudes under your thumbs for life!! 😉 😄

How does one give an earth shattering bj?

Finger in the butt.

That's just a part of the technique. LMBO!! And not really IN the butt...some tantalizing rim play works better.

Naw.. I need someone to handle my walnut.
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Oral sex isn't complete without all of that. The bottom line is that you have to truly enjoy it or I can see how it gets halfway done. I have an oral fixation issue. So enjoyment is putting it lightly.

Vanish...I'm serious about inboxing you, but my smartphone is acting really dumb right now. It won't let me send you a PM. smh

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Posted by Vanish

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Tinxy
Title says it all

Just reading a topic about how women become addicted and attached to a skillful lover just wondering if it's the same for men ??

Curiousity I suppose lol

Yes they so!!

Better than cooking!! Lol lol

If you can give earth shattering bjs and first massages... You will have the most "meanest " of dudes under your thumbs for life!! 😉 😄

How does one give an earth shattering bj?

Finger in the butt.

That's just a part of the technique. LMBO!! And not really IN the butt...some tantalizing rim play works better.

Naw.. I need someone to handle my walnut.

Oral sex isn't complete without all of that. The bottom line is that you have to truly enjoy it or I can see how it gets halfway done. I have an oral fixation issue. So enjoyment is putting it lightly.

Do you worship?
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Damn near. I think of the penis as a sacred scepter of sorts. It's the ruling rod carried by the man and to allow me to touch it is like kissing a kings ring.

I love the "D"...I cannot lie. Lol ha ha ha...it's a very special tool and even looking at one can move me to tears with the right person. It gets the attention that I feel it deserves. I don't know if you recall me mentioning going to sleep with my man's penis in my mouth. It was divine.

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Posted by GetMisted

Posted by MsTeeq1974
I love the "D"...I cannot lie. Lol ha ha ha...it's a very special tool and even looking at one can move me to tears with the right person. It gets the attention that I feel it deserves. I don't know if you recall me mentioning going to sleep with my man's penis in my mouth. It was divine.

lol omg
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I used it as a pacifier of sorts and we went to sleep like that. I woke up later and crawled into his arms. He gives me sooooo much playtime and playground with his body. His response to it is very openly...ummm...well, he really really likes it. Lol The last time we were together he asked me to take a shower with him and he was like a kid in a candy store...everywhere I touched him, he shivered. I can pretty much do whatever I want to "my" body. Lol...and you better believe he claims full ownership over "his" body too. Lol

@ashley1734

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Tinxy
Title says it all

Just reading a topic about how women become addicted and attached to a skillful lover just wondering if it's the same for men ??

Curiousity I suppose lol

Yes they so!!

Better than cooking!! Lol lol

If you can give earth shattering bjs and first massages... You will have the most "meanest " of dudes under your thumbs for life!! 😉 😄
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Is that all it takes? Haha. I have always wondered what actually makes good sex for a man.

@ashley1734

10 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by MsTeeq1974
I love the "D"...I cannot lie. Lol ha ha ha...it's a very special tool and even looking at one can move me to tears with the right person. It gets the attention that I feel it deserves. I don't know if you recall me mentioning going to sleep with my man's penis in my mouth. It was divine.

Woahhhh. I'm blushing.

10 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by ashley1734

Posted by MsTeeq1974
I love the "D"...I cannot lie. Lol ha ha ha...it's a very special tool and even looking at one can move me to tears with the right person. It gets the attention that I feel it deserves. I don't know if you recall me mentioning going to sleep with my man's penis in my mouth. It was divine.

Woahhhh. I'm blushing.
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Why blush. Sex is as natural as eating and our sexual organs are vital to our mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health. I would love to host a sexuality seminar. OMG...that would be amazing. I would cover everything from non traditional physical touch to "the health benefits of ingesting semen" lol ha ha ha

@ashley1734

Posted by MsTeeq1974

Posted by ashley1734

Posted by MsTeeq1974
I love the "D"...I cannot lie. Lol ha ha ha...it's a very special tool and even looking at one can move me to tears with the right person. It gets the attention that I feel it deserves. I don't know if you recall me mentioning going to sleep with my man's penis in my mouth. It was divine.

Woahhhh. I'm blushing.

Why blush. Sex is as natural as eating and our sexual organs are vital to our mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health. I would love to host a sexuality seminar. OMG...that would be amazing. I would cover everything from non traditional physical touch to "the health benefits of ingesting semen" lol ha ha ha
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Where do I sign up? I'm not sensual at all 😢

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Posted by MsTeeq1974

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
I love the "D"...I cannot lie. Lol ha ha ha...it's a very special tool and even looking at one can move me to tears with the right person. It gets the attention that I feel it deserves. I don't know if you recall me mentioning going to sleep with my man's penis in my mouth. It was divine.

Woahhhh. I'm blushing.

Why blush. Sex is as natural as eating and our sexual organs are vital to our mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health. I would love to host a sexuality seminar. OMG...that would be amazing. I would cover everything from non traditional physical touch to "the health benefits of ingesting semen" lol ha ha ha

Where do I sign up? I'm not sensual at all 😢
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Maybe that's how you view yourself, but it doesn't mean that you're not. Plus, sensual is objective. It's not so much for you as its for your suitors. You should definitely be comfortable with whatever level of sensuality you project, but honestly, as long as you're comfortable...then you'll draw partners who have similar sexuality styles. I would never recommend that a person who is naturally reserved put it all out there, because then they'd attract someone who is sensually or sexually out there and that's not good. What makes a really good sexual experience is being alike enough that you recognize yourself in the other, but different enough that there's friction. Hence the penis to vaginal connection. Opposites, but complements in every way. That's only one way to enjoying good sex though.

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you don't need to ingest semen to give a good bj. sorry, but that's just gross

You're right about the fact that you don't need to ingest semen to give good oral sex, but there's nothing wrong with it either. Besides, I'd be rather embarrased if my guy went down on me and kept a spitting cup nearby. If I'm yummy enough for him to swallow you bet he's yummy enough for me to do the same. Plus, he just tastes good.

Posted by GetMisted

See..this is why women get all grossed out. You guys MAKE it appear gross. Smh lol...don't pay attention to this dude. Lol ha ha ha...you're just horrible. Smh AGAIN.

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Posted by MsTeeq1974

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you don't need to ingest semen to give a good bj. sorry, but that's just gross

You're right about the fact that you don't need to ingest semen to give good oral sex, but there's nothing wrong with it either. Besides, I'd be rather embarrased if my guy went down on me and kept a spitting cup nearby. If I'm yummy enough for him to swallow you bet he's yummy enough for me to do the same. Plus, he just tastes good.

to each their own, im just saying that's not happening.
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I respect it.

Posted by starlover
That is not sexy at all

Gross

See...that's what I'm saying. That's such an over exaggerated graphic of a "facial" & there's nothing about that gif that says a man left a woman feeling valued and loved after shooting his semen in her face. I actually waited for that kind of guy to come my way before allowing him to give me a facial. That's my current guy and he shows me nothing but respect, love, affection, and all great things after he does it. He's not mean or standoffish with me in ANY way when we're sexually engaged in WHATEVER it is that we do to/with one another.

Posted by GetMisted
Some ladies like facials.

Women like to be valued more than we like facials. Do you kiss your woman after you shoot your semen in her face?

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
I'm curious as to what this "addiction" would look like. I swear up and down that it's not the sex with these dudes and my friends are like, "um...yes it is Dear". Lol...I mean, it can't be. There's no way in the world that I would chase a relationship and do the things that these guys do simply for good sex. I mean, I know what I'm doing, but there has to be more to it.

Yes, I've been holding out on a thread update, because I don't really know how to put it in words. I think maybe now is a good time. Lol

Could you go without sex if you had to, say for a year or so Ms?
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Yes. I've gone five and a half years without sex. I've also spend 4-5 days a week around someone I was very attracted to for over 6 months without us having sex AFTER we'd already had sex. He wouldn't stay away, but he didn't want us to have sex, because he wanted us to be best friends and not a couple. We made out a lot. He relapsed and boned right before I was going on a party vacation, because he didn't want me to have sex with a random stranger. I was going to Vegas. His gesture was cute. Lol

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Some ladies like facials.

Women like to be valued more than we like facials. Do you kiss your woman after you shoot your semen in her face?

Yes.. I do.
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So, you're not really a jerk. You just like messing with people's heads. Lol

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
I'm curious as to what this "addiction" would look like. I swear up and down that it's not the sex with these dudes and my friends are like, "um...yes it is Dear". Lol...I mean, it can't be. There's no way in the world that I would chase a relationship and do the things that these guys do simply for good sex. I mean, I know what I'm doing, but there has to be more to it.

Yes, I've been holding out on a thread update, because I don't really know how to put it in words. I think maybe now is a good time. Lol

Could you go without sex if you had to, say for a year or so Ms?

Yes. I've gone five and a half years without sex. I've also spend 4-5 days a week around someone I was very attracted to for over 6 months without us having sex AFTER we'd already had sex. He wouldn't stay away, but he didn't want us to have sex, because he wanted us to be best friends and not a couple. We made out a lot. He relapsed and boned right before I was going on a party vacation, because he didn't want me to have sex with a random stranger. I was going to Vegas. His gesture was cute. Lol

So why did you mention addiction.....?
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The question was whether or not men get addicted to good sex. I said that I love penis. That doesn't mean that I'm addicted. It means that when I'm with a man his penis gets lots of attention from me. That's definitely happening. I think penises are beautiful and special.

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Some ladies like facials.

Women like to be valued more than we like facials. Do you kiss your woman after you shoot your semen in her face?

Yes.. I do.

So, you're not really a jerk. You just like messing with people's heads. Lol

I suppose.

I just think that if I want her to kiss me with a face full of her spunk, she should be able to expect the same from me.
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I completely agree.

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I'm curious as to what this "addiction" would look like. I swear up and down that it's not the sex with these dudes and my friends are like, "um...yes it is Dear". Lol...I mean, it can't be. There's no way in the world that I would chase a relationship and do the things that these guys do simply for good sex. I mean, I know what I'm doing, but there has to be more to it.

Yes, I've been holding out on a thread update, because I don't really know how to put it in words. I think maybe now is a good time. Lol

Could you go without sex if you had to, say for a year or so Ms?

Yes. I've gone five and a half years without sex. I've also spend 4-5 days a week around someone I was very attracted to for over 6 months without us having sex AFTER we'd already had sex. He wouldn't stay away, but he didn't want us to have sex, because he wanted us to be best friends and not a couple. We made out a lot. He relapsed and boned right before I was going on a party vacation, because he didn't want me to have sex with a random stranger. I was going to Vegas. His gesture was cute. Lol

So why did you mention addiction.....?

The question was whether or not men get addicted to good sex. I said that I love penis. That doesn't mean that I'm addicted. It means that when I'm with a man his penis gets lots of attention from me. That's definitely happening. I think penises are beautiful and special.

Oh right....i see. Like you, i can go a long time without sex (usually because i am very fussy who i do it with), but when i am with someone, i am over the top and become addicted...so it becomes a nuisance lol

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I see...I see.

When I go without it, it's usually because I've been hurt and am focusing on healing, becoming a better person, and just don't want to have anything to do with romance and the opposite sex. I've had to practice protecting myself from deep hurts so that I avoid hiding from men for such a long time. It's a balancing act...being open to love, but retaining exclusive rights to self validation.

Do you find that your male sex partners become addicted as well?

That's the part that's difficult for me to fathom. Lol

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
When I go without it, it's usually because I've been hurt and am focusing on healing, becoming a better person, and just don't want to have anything to do with romance and the opposite sex. I've had to practice protecting myself from deep hurts so that I avoid hiding from men for such a long time. It's a balancing act...being open to love, but retaining exclusive rights to self validation.

Do you find that your male sex partners become addicted as well?

That's the part that's difficult for me to fathom. Lol

Yes i can see where you are coming from, i have been through similar phases Ms.

The last two in particular became quite addicted......poor devils 😛. I almost finished them off and they were much younger too

I am in remission now

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Well, may your remission bring you the bounty of blessings that you seek and when it's over, may the kindly intent of cupid set your hindsfeet securely on high places.

Posted by MsTeeq1974
Vanish...I'm serious about inboxing you, but my smartphone is acting really dumb right now. It won't let me send you a PM. smh

Just spill it. lol

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Posted by GetMisted

See..this is why women get all grossed out. You guys MAKE it appear gross. Smh lol...don't pay attention to this dude. Lol ha ha ha...you're just horrible. Smh AGAIN.
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LMAO. I have totally done that. Great facial! 😆

@saweetz1988

Posted by Huldra
Fyi it's a proven fact that people who have a good aense if rhythm (i.e. musicians, dancers) are great in bed. Of course, a decent size of cock helps as well.

me dancer him singer. We r doomed addicted to each other for life. Each other's salves lol. Admitted by both parties lol c

This thread!

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
Vanish...I'm serious about inboxing you, but my smartphone is acting really dumb right now. It won't let me send you a PM. smh

Just spill it. lol
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I thought about that, but that would be soooo impolite. Lol

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
Vanish...I'm serious about inboxing you, but my smartphone is acting really dumb right now. It won't let me send you a PM. smh

Just spill it. lol

I thought about that, but that would be soooo impolite. Lol
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Eh, politeness is overrated lol

Man...people tell. I am living vicariously through everyone else right now.

Posted by flowingwater
Crazy to say but I love giving head.

Wonder if this is an Aqua trait?

moi aussi

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Posted by flowingwater
Crazy to say but I love giving head.

Wonder if this is an Aqua trait?

moi aussi

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Since the first time I did it, I was hooked. Gets me super hot and ready. I feel like I'm in control for his pleasure.
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Posted by flowingwater
Crazy to say but I love giving head.

It shouldn't be crazy to say. I don't understand why it's socially unacceptable for a woman to truly enjoy giving oral sex.

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Man...people tell. I am living vicariously through everyone else right now.

Lol same here
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At least I am not alone. 😄