Can you live together with moon-uranus in synastry? Typically the hard aspects!

I am curious about anyone who has this aspect with their partner and live together... is it unstable? Give me some insight

Posted by Gobby

Posted by alexscaries

Sorry to sound uneducated but can someone give an example of placements and how they would clash? I'm not familiar with Uranus synastry. Thanks.

I'm not sure what you're asking, but Uranus governs change and the unexpected. Therefore, any hard aspects with this planet is going to guarantee instability in certain areas of the relationship.

Hard aspects are basically challenges, which vary depending on the two planets involved. The only exception to this rule would be any hard aspects involving Venus, which are (in theory) usually workable...

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Damn Gobby you have taught this astrology newbie something new. I guess in the past I never cared and just dated for the sport, but you've shown a deeper dynamic if I wanted something more than a few months.

Posted by alexscaries

Sorry to sound uneducated but can someone give an example of placements and how they would clash? I'm not familiar with Uranus synastry. Thanks.

But it's possible for it to work out?

Posted by DriBaby

Posted by alexscaries

Sorry to sound uneducated but can someone give an example of placements and how they would clash? I'm not familiar with Uranus synastry. Thanks.

But it's possible for it to work out?

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Yes. The Uranus person will take time to trust the Moon person which can be hard on the Moon person. Once they do establish this bond, they will be able to confide things in each other that they would never tell anyone else. The Uranus person should trust the Moon person because when firm trust is established they can have a meaningful unique relationship. They can become very close to other as they may share each other's idiosyncrasies.

Posted by VenusX

Posted by DriBaby

Posted by alexscaries

Sorry to sound uneducated but can someone give an example of placements and how they would clash? I'm not familiar with Uranus synastry. Thanks.

But it's possible for it to work out?

Yes. The Uranus person will take time to trust the Moon person which can be hard on the Moon person. Once they do establish this bond, they will be able to confide things in each other that they would never tell anyone else. The Uranus person should trust the Moon person because when firm trust is established they can have a meaningful unique relationship. They can become very close to other as they may share each other's idiosyncrasies.

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Sooo true about the trusting part. It took him probably almost a year before he trusted to open up about how he feels and drove me crazy! He's a lot better now... I think what I struggle with the most with this placement is him being too busy with work and not being able to spend a lot of time with me but I'm learning to be more understanding. I think this aspect between really helped me in many ways

Posted by maiden

Had to look this up..have exp. living with someone w the following uranus aspects:

(my)moon square(their)uranus

(my)mars trine (their)uranus

(my)neptune sextile (their) uranus <--I don't know that this aspect holds any weight though

I don't aspect their uranus at all (which, I never notice until just now hm..)

This person did introduce very big, sudden and abrupt changes in my life (good ones!)

And living together has always been as a fly-by thing, suddenly planned and suddenly ended.

The actual day to day living is mostly meh.. with sudden wonderful days and sudden fights which almost had me leaving (more than once)

I'd say overall it is do-able and I'll echo Gobby that other aspects definitely come into play

And synastry does keep you on your toes..

I'll add though that it's really best to just roll with it instead of trying to keep a hand on top scrutinizing the astrology

Sounds pretty much like us especially with the arguing and almost breaking up part. I've been trying to be more understanding but sometimes you can't help how you feel 😩. We do have moon trine saturn, do you think that would help lessen the effects of uranus on my moon?

Posted by hiphopopotamus

Woukd need to see the rest chart, degrees and other aspects. Saturn could balance things out in Synastry, or Uranus prominent in Natal would be more comfortable with the out the box-ness.

Personally, I like it in synastry-keeps you on your toes.

True, it does keep us on our toes but sometimes it also get on my nerves too lol. The love between us is unconditional and strong so I know we can get through it. I think his saturn trine my moon helps out a bit cause he doesn't give up on me and continues being a great support system