Most important thing I've learned about relationships is communication. Say what's on your mind. Either you find out he's a dickhead, or you were really overthinking. Some men won't like your depression - others will be more patient and detached. He has already seen your blues and is still hanging around
If she is manipulating u into government-tied commitment, u must be a great catch. Or rich.
Why does she wanna marry u so badly?
If the sex is that great she wouldn't punish herself like that... Unless she likes suffering
Maybe you have competition 🙈 she might be cheating already..
It sounds like she was recently saved which adds a whole other element of (religious) pressure. I know a lot of people don’t understand it or agree with it but it will have you looking at life differently and more careful about what you’re willing to compromise.
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Op didn't say anything about religion otherwise he might not be so confused