Which of these synastry aspect is more hot to have and create strong strong attraction?

This topic was created in the Chart Interpretation forum by Pari23 on Sunday, July 7, 2019 and has 13 replies.

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I would say 2nd.. Man's Venus conjunct Woman's Mars.. I have it with my Pisces, oh boy it's fireworks when we are together lol

Also my North Node is conjunct his Jupiter creating lunar Node, meaning we are made for each other 🙂

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Posted by pisceanloves

I would say 2nd.. Man's Venus conjunct Woman's Mars.. I have it with my Pisces, oh boy it's fireworks when we are together lol

Also my North Node is conjunct his Jupiter creating lunar Node, meaning we are made for each other 🙂

So who feels more attraction? You or him?

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Posted by Caplove

They're both smoking hot, but I think Mars does more of the initiating/chasing. My mars was sextile to his venus (not conjunction but oh well) and I initiated first, and I NEVER do that. The only problem was wondering if he really liked me or was just going along with it because... 😆


so have u ever been venus person? And other person mars?

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There are "masculine" and "feminine" planets and reception.

Venus is feminine, Mars is masculine. The synastry is "hot" when the sexes of the persons involved match the sexes of the planets.

If not, the attraction will certainly be there but, the male will eventually pull away because he will feel the incongruence.

This is the same for Sun/Moon. The male feels best as the Sun. The Moon is feminine.

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Double post.

But, what has amazed me over the years is how the female is so "gong-ho" and doesn't feel the incongruence.

I can only think they've taken a masculine role for whatever reason and are determined.

The males, it takes them awhile but they feel it eventually and withdraw.

This I've witnessed with the Sun/Moon and Moon/Ascendant which gives a feeling of marriage.

The Venus/Mars is sex and romance.

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Posted by Pari23
Posted by VenusAquarius

There are "masculine" and "feminine" planets and reception.

Venus is feminine, Mars is masculine. The synastry is "hot" when the sexes of the persons involved match the sexes of the planets.

If not, the attraction will certainly be there but, the male will eventually pull away because he will feel the incongruence.

This is the same for Sun/Moon. The male feels best as the Sun. The Moon is feminine.


but i have read somewhere that when man mars conjunct woman venus it will be one sided attraction but when man venus conjunct woman mars then it will be mutual i have seen many love marriages where man is venus and woman is mars. Can you explain with some your examples.
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Posted by Pari23
Posted by Pari23
Posted by VenusAquarius

There are "masculine" and "feminine" planets and reception.

Venus is feminine, Mars is masculine. The synastry is "hot" when the sexes of the persons involved match the sexes of the planets.

If not, the attraction will certainly be there but, the male will eventually pull away because he will feel the incongruence.

This is the same for Sun/Moon. The male feels best as the Sun. The Moon is feminine.


but i have read somewhere that when man mars conjunct woman venus it will be one sided attraction but when man venus conjunct woman mars then it will be mutual i have seen many love marriages where man is venus and woman is mars. Can you explain with some your examples.

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This aspect is one of many in a couple's synastry. So "many love marriages where the man is Venus" is not the whole picture. They could have many other aspects supporting thd relationship and at stronger potency because there are also degrees and orbs of the synastry that show which aspects are stronger.

Plus, there's the Composite Chart which is more significant than synastry.

So, I answered your question singularly as it was posed.

But, the strength of a relationship, which is now your new proposition, is not based on one aspect. However, there are a few aspects that are strong no matter the degree.