Chart compatibility?

I know that these things are probably annoying, but if you could, some feedback on my boyfriend and I's charts or anything else that you find interesting in our charts, separately, would be appreciated! For instance, does it seem like we'd argue a lot, have problems with being stubborn, etc, or if compliment each other, etc?

Also, if you have any tips/pieces of knowledge to help me be able to read charts or parts of charts is also welcome. I know what some things represent but it's difficult for me to put it into a bigger picture.

Thanks, in advance!

Mine:
Zodiac in degrees 0.00

Sun Pisces 4.59
Moon Pisces 27.19
Mercury Pisces 22.42
Venus Aries 15.31
Mars Cancer 9.05
Jupiter Libra 13.40 R
Saturn Aquarius 22.36
Uranus Capricorn 20.39
Neptune Capricorn 20.16
Pluto Scorpio 25.32
Lilith Pisces 14.31
Asc node Sagittarius 18.18

Placidus Orb:0

Ascendant Taurus 3.39
II Gemini 4.59
III Gemini 27.41
IV Cancer 18.45
V Leo 12.51
VI Virgo 16.05
VII Scorpio 3.39
VIII Sagittarius 4.59
IX Sagittarius 27.41
Midheaven Capricorn 18.45
XI Aquarius 12.51
XII Pisces 16.05

His:
Zodiac in degrees 0.00

Sun Scorpio 12.36
Moon Scorpio 1.26
Mercury Sagittarius 1.32
Venus Virgo 26.07
Mars Scorpio 13.30
Jupiter Virgo 10.09
Saturn Aquarius 1.01
Uranus Capricorn 10.45
Neptune Capricorn 14.27
Pluto Scorpio 20.01
Lilith Capricorn 21.29
Asc node Capricorn 11.26

Placidus Orb:0

Ascendant Scorpio 22.16
II Sagittarius 22.42
III Capricorn 27.59
IV Pisces 4.24
V Aries 6.05
VI Taurus 1.30
VII Taurus 22.16
VIII Gemini 22.42
IX Cancer 27.59
Midheaven Virgo 4.24
XI Libra 6.05
XII Scorpio 1.30

Alot of passion but not much long term indicators.

You are both close and he feels comfortable and right at home with you. You feel like he is relationship material. Do you often go to his home, or are a close family friend?
He might be like a father figure to you, while you might restrict his speech sometimes.
You both have above average obsession with each other. Sexual compaitiblity not the best, though passion is there and you're both running on that.You both are under a love illusion where you can only see the good points in each other. Your relationship is mystical and ethereal.

Thanks, that sounds really accurate. We are working off that passion and trying to make it work. I've recently come out of the delusion, I guess you could say, and am not really sure what to do from here. We are very comfortable around each other and he is definitely relationship material. He thinks i'm his forever and i'm unsure of if I want to be.

I appreciate the reply. thanks a lot!

Thanks, that sounds really accurate. We are working off that passion and trying to make it work. I've recently come out of the delusion, I guess you could say, and am not really sure what to do from here. We are very comfortable around each other and he is definitely relationship material. He thinks i'm his forever and i'm unsure of if I want to be.

I appreciate the reply. thanks a lot!

Um, there could be lots of reasons. It's kind of how he is. He says he has had trouble with his past relationships and hasn't met someone as nice as me and can see me in his future. He says we have a connection (which, we do, really) and also that no one else would put up with him like I do. He says he loves me, though, I'm unsure if it's that or more of an obsession. He's kind of a needy person and needs emotional stability, so I think it's partly me treating him better than anyone else and also that we have a connection. He's not into flings or short term relationships, he's the type that wants to find someone and get married, partly for security and partly because of love. He really does give everything he has, though, I'll give him that.
It's not all one-sided. I really love/d? him and tried my best to be there for him and everything. I felt that connection, too, so he probably felt more reassured by that. There was a point that I thought he was my forever, too, but lately I'm just not sure of anything, anymore.

why are you unsure?
it sounds like you want someone to take care of you more, rather than take care of someone else all the time... am I correct? you are very impressionable, I would dare say you find yourself weak sometimes? but you know you aren't. however when it comes to love, you believe in fairytales, and you want your love to be that way.... you are sensitive and emotional, and it is easy for those around you to become somewhat dependent on you for guidance and support... but I think you know that someone a bit stronger than you, someone who will guide you instead... is someone you may need. you being there for him is or has become more of an obligation than anything else, and I can relate to that. it is very important as a pisces/pisces to not get trapped into relationships that you enter out of pity, sympathy, or obligation... because they are tiring and deplete your spirits after a certain time... and that special pisces love goes stale and bitter... and you become drained or even worse struck with the coldest sense of apathy. this is something all too easy to do, however, given your natural ability to be so giving with anyone...

like I said, you are now unsure and I've been in that position before... if you can answer why, it will help you understand more about how YOU feel now.

I'm unsure, because I think I've gotten bored or don't feel the same. It's true I need someone in a relationship to focus on me quite a lot, but that's not the problem with this relationship. And I agree, I may think I'm weak less times than I show it, though, I am not completely free from that. Mainly, I don't like being wrong, and there are many people on here that can find something wrong with even an opinion, so I probably do make myself look weaker than I am.
But, back to the relationship part. As far as the guidance part, I think you're right on that. I've tried to guide/support my boyfriend, but gave up since he always has something to complain about. I can't deal with all his emotions or needyness very well and he's too caught up in his own problems to help me with mine, so yes, that is kind of frustrating.
Honestly, I'd probably continue in this rut, but someone has recently taken interest in me, and it might give me the opportunity to move on. He's not just an opportunity, though. Don't want to make myself sound like a bad person. But, the reason now, that I don't flat out leave him and focus on someone else is: Attachment, convenience (location convenience, I don't have my license, sadly. Not sex convenience), he is so nice to me and I really don't think I'd find somebody who would give himself so much to me/do so much for me, lingering feelings, he's comfortable, he's also like my best friend in a relationship, he puts up with all my crap. Reasons to leave: bored, to live a little, not feeling the kind of love I used to, veryyy emotional, he gets me angry easily and I can absolutely not talk about my opinion if it differs from his because it will start an argument, just a feeling. Idk, I could nitpick that all I want, but that's dumb. There is significantly less reasons for me to leave him, so it's basically a lot of good things v. not feeling how I used to and being bored. You can say the last things could be rekindled, but I'm not sure if I'd ever feel the same. I'll have to think about this a lot.

But, thank you for your input, doubletrouble. Seems like you can understand pretty well. Guess that's where those similar charts come in at. ; )

well, you're surely very intelligent (and that's viewable from how you write... type ha) so I hope you didn't take offense by me saying you may feel weak at times. I should have clarified. you said what I meant quite well actually; not that you are weak in the sense of the word, but rather you have a lot of "crap" of your own that takes dealing with (which is why you feel comfortable with your current bf, he "puts up with it" lol) I understand you that way. and in that regard I too sense a feeling of gratefulness to anyone who is willing to take me on, in all my two-sided currents & crap. but at times I feel that it is my greatest weakness, or I make it seem like it is, because my emotions are so messy (in my head I guess). but my heart is strong. and so is yours. so really, I hope you didn't take offense. you are a strong headed person simply from the devotions you have shared-- you have goals, wants, desires, for yourself and yourself only. that is a good thing.

I was also in a position such as yours, where I saw a road open to take me somewhere-- somewhere I very eerily knew I would end up taking. and I broke a heart or two... and even now, I've broken far too many, and it kills me, but they were decisions I had to make for myself. basically, I empathize with you most of all. I cannot say that I regret anything. I have grown, learned, traveled and experienced so much more than if I stayed beside a very dull, upsetting, needy partner... and it hurts me thinking about it. but you have to dwell on your own happiness... & how to get there.

you say you cannot express your opinion (he is sensitive), which is bound to get old (it already has) and that you don't feel the same love as before. all relationships hit a certain point of "eh" but that also brings comfort. comfort can be misleading, however, if the wind calls for novelty. no one can make decisions for you (you know this) so I won't, but I just want to remind you that you WILL find someone to "put up with your crap," trust me. you have a beautiful soul, and that alone is well worth meeting. "loving" someone is knowing them, including their bad habits. but love discriminates against none, and welcomes all flaws as beauty.

so just don't be too afraid. I got out of a "comfortable" relationship that was also "not like it used to be" and I grew. remember your strengths, and let them carry you to where you need to be. don't be afraid to let go; you have to be honest with yourself.

I ramble.

but question if I may, have you spoken to your bf about any of this? feelings, thoughts?
that is the hardest thing to do.

to give some insight (I never know if I make sense in my posts), the boy, and I'll say boy here, who I left had a ring ready and wanted to get married. I was 18. yikes, did that choke my chain... I loved him, but the "work" of taking care of "us" was all too one-sided, that being my side, and he needed too much... I couldn't give him what he needed without losing myself in return, and I became distant and mostly annoyed. it's upsetting to think about, because I hurt him that way & I couldn't explain WHY without blaming him in some way for draining ME...

but I took responsibility and said we needed a break; I needed to figure ME out first. he said he didn't understand, but he did. he was good to me that way, he never lost respect. he loved me. so much he could let me go... imagine how that makes me feel, being me. he was my best friend too... at the time. unfortunately I never did come back to him, but I'm in a much better place now. and as much as it hurt we both have grown somehow. and he knows that too... he has found more of himself in the process... it has been 3 or so years since.

we talk occasionally. it's very sad and strange the way some connections are made and lost, and how two people can agree on something like that. the level of respect two people can share for each other... human beings are such strange creatures.

Funny, cause I think I type rather immaturely compared to you. ; )
And no, I didn't take offense. I know all my faults, since I think about that kind of stuff so much, and I know that what you said wasn't untrue.

I appreciate you sharing your stories. Since they're similar to mine, or the decisions I have to make, it really helped hearing about someone who already made it that far. Can I ask, why do you think you didn't regret leaving him and making those decisions? Simply because you grew because of it, or did you find someone who treats you just as good, but in a healthier way, or what?
To me it seems like that'd be something so hard to let go of. You must've been strong to make a decision like that.
'Distant and annoyed' is what I'm becoming, too. Or rather, have already become. I think that is because I need time to think things over without him smothering me.

And, I don't actually believe I talked to him. I know he can feel I'm growing apart, though. He's been showering me with 'i love you's and 'i've been thinking about us a lot, lately', etc. If I said anything, I know what he'd say "So, you want to break up?" and after I explained to him that I'm not sure, he'd be devastated and probably cry for a while. But, I feel like it may be better to just tell him when I've made a decision, instead of telling him about how my feelings are wavering and how things don't really feel like how they used to earlier and having him be insecure everytime we talk or when he thinks of me. I don't know.

Could anyone do that for me? 🙂

Her

Sun Virgo 28.07
Moon Capricorn 20.08
Mercury Libra 23.58
Venus Leo 14.31
Mars Aries 7.22 R
Jupiter Gemini 6.06
Saturn Sagittarius 26.18
Uranus Sagittarius 27.09
Neptune Capricorn 7.26
Pluto Scorpio 10.51
Lilith Virgo 14.25
Asc node Pisces 14.02



Me

Sun Cancer 25.10
Moon Aquarius 3.09
Mercury Cancer 4.58
Venus Leo 21.54
Mars Gemini 29.41
Jupiter Libra 4.04
Saturn Libra 4.29
Uranus Scorpio 26.11 R
Neptune Sagittarius 22.39 R
Pluto Libra 21.38
Lilith Scorpio 22.19
Asc node Leo 1.42

Thanks for sharing your input. I'm glad there's someone else in a situation similar to mine. I'm having a hard time battling this, but I think I will stick with him for a while. If we can make it through the summer (since we'll be working opposite work schedules everday of the week except one), then I'll think about this again.
I think part of my problem, also, is that I'm still so young. I haven't had much experience with relationships (he's my first serious relationship), and I kind of want to get out in the world, go through some guys and then I'll be ready to settle down. It makes me kind of anxious to think that my first and only (real) man will also be my last.
My whole life I've settled with the first thing to come around and also living to the minimum and now, everything I come across, I just want something more. I want to start living before my choices in life start disappearing.
Ugh. I just said something deep out of no where. Anyway, I appreciate the comments and I will start sorting my thoughts/feelings out and try a little harder in my relationship. : )

Also, THIS.

-79 K Opposition B Mercury - Venus

Negative aspect: Their relationship will sometimes be agreeable, sometimes disturbed. They will like to share their ideas which are not always to the other's taste, so that they may have interminable discussions in order to convince each other of their mistakes, lack of judgement or lack of taste.

Remember this line: he gets me angry easily and I can absolutely not talk about my opinion if it differs from his because it will start an argument

My life now makes complete and total sense.
Haha

Posted by Scenic
I appreciate you sharing your stories. Since they're similar to mine, or the decisions I have to make, it really helped hearing about someone who already made it that far. Can I ask, why do you think you didn't regret leaving him and making those decisions? Simply because you grew because of it, or did you find someone who treats you just as good, but in a healthier way, or what?
To me it seems like that'd be something so hard to let go of. You must've been strong to make a decision like that.
'Distant and annoyed' is what I'm becoming, too. Or rather, have already become. I think that is because I need time to think things over without him smothering me.

sorry for the late reply. life gets in the way sometimes ha. I do admit, dxp is one my "me time" pleasures! :-)
anyway. I made the decison to leave because I was with someone who, although he treated me well, I felt smothered by, and dare I say was not on the same level of maturity as I thought I was. he was childish. he was lazy. he needed all the time. in this sense I felt he wasn't willing to grow with me. he handled things in an apathetic way, did not make any effort to change his life by his own terms, and I felt pulled by a greater gravitation of "something else." I couldn't handle having to take care of him all the time, when I knew he was capable of taking care of himself, but chose not to. I was too comforting. it was necessary for myself and for him for me to leave; and yes, it was harsh... I guess not many people are willing to act so boldly when decisions need to be made. perhaps it is too frightening. but mountains only forge when the earth shakes and crumbles. it is valuable to mention, this was my first "official" relationship, and it was difficult to get over. we spoke or saw each other every day since we first met, and lasted nearly two years. we were young and for the most part happy. I broke up with him at his parents house in the garage. I sat on the floor and cried.

he had always told me, one day you'll move on; there's too much for you to explore. I still feel sorry for needing to find myself. I remember, in desperation he called me, frantically asking what my favorite movie was. he had never asked me. "I realize after all this time together, I don't even know your favorite movie. I don't even know you. please, tell me."

it has happened a lot in my relationships with people. even friends. I never give too much of myself away. I spoil others by putting the light on them and I? am never known until I'm gone.

I was single for awhile. in college. I enjoyed its freedoms. I met a leo/leo (I always attract other doubles for some reason) who lived in the room below mine, and I fell hard. we met at a party in one of the dorms and he was captivating. I can't say fate, or perhaps karma had a role in our transgression, although it would seem that way. we were unbaringly close, and I gave a lot of myself to him. you might be thinking now-- how rash, how quickly I can turn the lights off in one room to turn them on in another. but before you reflect understand this was an incredibly confusing time. I was stuck with old habits while developing new ones. I was 18. leo brought a lot of enlightenment to me. we discussed things I could never have thought about before, let alone share, and I was pushed to expand my own understanding of the world around me. I grew a voice. we engaged in politics, mushrooms, and walks in the park. like a typical pisces, I suddenly molded into something new, and at the time I liked it. I cannot say I felt sorry, I was exploring myself and my mind.

the one thing was, of course, I was mad for leo. absolutely mad. and he? mad about himself. we were and remained under the title of "friends" throughout our entire relationship, but did not act as such. we acted quite romantically linked, although mention this to him and he claimed he didn't want a relationship. he was "damaged." in essense, I remained a plaything and a friend, and it swallowed my ego whole. leo was good, he had a good heart; but he hurt me at my own expense, and even though he knew he was hurting me, it didn't stop him.

it is hard to summarize entire portions of your life and still capture their essense. I hope I am not jumbled. I do not regret it, but I regret the decisions I made at the time I was around him. he liked to look at other girls, and talk about them. I developed bad habits about myself because of this. I didn't eat much, I exercised a lot, I was depressed but hid it well. I lost 25 lbs in a few months. when I finally called it quits, it was for good.

I wasn't going to be an object, and I gave him my key to his apartment. that night I cried, as he didn't stop me from leaving. just a sad whimper and goodbye. I won't say all leos are bad, they are not. he was just not a very good "man."

it's been... I don't know a long time since then. I have slowly let go of that hurt and anger. I still wish my old boyfriend the very best, and like I said we still talk here and there. I think he's found it best to move on. he was a virgo, if I didn't mention before, as is my current boyfriend now. imagine when I found that one out! I thought not this again! but the earth sign is very good to me, and I've never been as hoest and open as I am now with this virgo. he has a cancer moon, which leads to a better understanding of each other. he treats me well, with respect and care. he provides for me, and pushes me to provide for myself as well. he holds no discriminations against me or who I am, and communicates his pride and adoration in the person I am. I can honestly say I have never felt more "me" with someone like him before, and there is a quiet line between us somewhere that we both feel we couldn't, or rather wouldn't be anywhere else but with each other. it's strange.

I have become stronger, more emotionally stable, and connected with my self over the years. I have told you all of my own experiences, from the moment I made the first move to "somewhere else" because I wanted to share where it has taken me. whether you choose to go and where it takes you may be better or worse than the road you're on now. life is a blank page. I would not have suffered heartbreak and turmoil had I stayed with my first young love at 17. then again, I would not be the adult I am today at 21, nor lay next to the man who takes care of me in a way that I can't-- and don't want to-- explore elsewhere. "somewhere else" is suddenly beside him, and my journey is now his; we will explore together.

I hope my ramblings help in some way. if they do not, at least I have shared my story, and you can take what I have offered for pleasure. it may mean nothing, and that I am ok with. I hope you figure out what is best for you and your story. it keeps on going, that's for sure. I am thankful for the hardships I have taken myself through, because they were all experiences I have learned from, and I have gained so much more than if I had not taken the risk. please let us know how things go, and I wholeheartedly wish you the best.

Wow, you would be really good at writing/creating stories. I admite that. My thoughts are all jumbled and I don't know what I think/feel on a lot of things, so nothing I say ever comes out right. That's why I've just given up and will write however I can, even if it doesn't make sense. But really, that's a good quiality to/that you have! : )

Thanks. It did help me. To hear that you have no regrets and that your life turned out just fine with your decision to leave. I'm happy that you didn't have to wait too long to find someone who fits you so well like that. Some people go their whole lives without finding someone like that.

Another really stupid thing that is partially affecting my decision - I emailed a psychic. I emailed him before, and he seems pretty legit. Plus, I'm gullible and naive, soo.. Anyway, he said that my current boyfriend would not be around at the start of this year and that I would find a new love between March and September of this year. Seeing as how my boyfriend is still with me, I imagine I may have grown more attached to my boyfriend because of this (by thinking over my future without him, etc). Or he could just be wrong. I kind of want to believe it, though, so I can get a fresh start. Thing is, I probably wouldn't know whether this person is the 'new love' he was referring to or not, so I'd probably let the opportunity slide. But, either way, I just got to think over what is better for me. I think in the long run, I'll end up without him, but that's only after I find some courage and get rid of this attachment. I also admire that you just went for it, yourself. It's hard to choose to move on like that. So, good for you. : )

Also, I'll update if anything happens, but I kind of doubt it will anytime soon.

:-) thank you for saying that. my dream in life, for myself, is to write a book someday.

it's ok to have seen a psychic lol you can even argue that his insight has eerily fit into your reality somehow, so I wouldn't discredit it entirely. remember, I'm a pisces, ha. so I believe there's something greater on a spiritual level goin on in the universe that only some are aware of; even only on the most instinctual level. if I were you, I would go to the psychic again. just for kicks, but see what he/she has to say NOW, after all this time. are things different for your future or have you prolonged the inevitable? ask. it'll help to make sense of your past with regards to your present.

however, I'm pretty sure you've already made the decision for you future.

I think I have made up my mind. Just have to come to terms with it and dissolve my attachments.
I emailed the psychic again and he said that he isn't the guy for me and he still sees me meeting someone new this year, If that's true, then I should be grateful. I can move on quicker and have less opportunities to mess things up with other guys. He said his opinion is that it's better for me to be single for now. So, I think soon I will cut off ties and also be upfront with the other guy who is currently trying to court me. That's going to be hard since I hate letting people down and hurting their feelings.
And hey, if the psychic was wrong and I don't meet anyone, at least I'll have time to breathe and have some freedom/less worrying.
Well, thank you. You certainly also helped me reach this conclusion.

I'm not. that's just a reassurance for the direction I ultimately feel I should go. I do what I want. If I did what other people told me to do, I would have broken up with my boyfriend the first time I contacted the psychic, which was over 5 or 6 months ago. I didn't feel a need to then. So, don't worry, i'm not doing this just because of what the psychic said.

Well, the deed is done. Didn't want to do it today, since it was leading into our anniversary, and I really hate when people break up on special days like that, but, I guess it happens for a reason. He cried and said he'll always love me. Told him he should not wait for me and he should try to move on. He'll do what he wants to, though. I'm just scared he'll think his life is over and do something rash, or rather, get apathetic and not do anything with his life. The conversation we had made me feel really bad and he asked me multiple times if there was anything he could do to change my mind. He even admitted he was going to propose to me this summer (which was way too soon, imo). I just hope I'm not expecting/looking for a prince charming here and that I didn't pass up my chance to be with someone as close to that as I'll find. Almpst ended up crying, myself, but I just have to reassure myself that this was best for me and that no matter how much he changed or how much more loving he became (because, he really did nothing wrong, anyway, so changing himself shouldn't matter), that I needed to do this. I hope I don't end up cracking and going back. I know I can live on my own, but if my decision doesn't end up justified, it's going to haunt me forever.

Was It this hard for you, too, doubletrouble?

yes, it was. in fact, remarkably, everything you have expressed I relate to... I felt the same way.
lol eerily enough, I too called things off just prior to our anniversary... although I couldn't keep my composure. this was, at the time, my best friend.

it was not easy. I found that, the more I justified doing this for me, the more I grew restless and wanted him to move on. it would make things easier, for me. it was a very selfish way of going about things in retrospect, but I was someone who had never mad.e the decisions for myself that I needed to make, so this was something that I felt had to be selfish about. I still felt horrible about it, and his disappointment made me feel like the bad guy, and I hated that. in many ways looking back on it now I still feel like the bad guy. but he and I are happier; we have found ourselves. even if it is unsaid, it is true.

you are quick like me. I was surprised to find you had already acted on your decision. I did too though, after several self talks and mulling overs. but someone is always hurt in a breakup, unless it's something mutual. I figured, why delay the inevitable all the way to our anniversary, and cause even more upset? continue being dishonest? with not only myself but with him...

you will continue to wonder if it was a right decision. and you will come to a conclusion when your future unfolds (and how it unfolds). but the fact is, you had made this decision a long time ago, and that is important to remember. if you were feeling that something wasn't fulfilling you, or that it just wasn't the same and it was ending naturally, and that there would be a time and place when it would be over-- is that not discovering an outcome that is (almost fatefully, coming to you without direction; it just is) unevitable to you? upon thinking and coming to that conclusion, however many months prior to its execution, you thought it would end somehow and you would have to move on, is that not an honest delivery of what you want and needed to do? think of it this way: somehow you knew this would unfold, whether you wanted it to or not. obviously a part of you didn't, and clung to the idea of the past, when the feelings were still there... there was no illusion of discontent. however things change, relationships (they really do) get stale sometimes.

you can't allow feelings of guilt to cloud the actions you have made. you have to be strong in your conclusions, you made them. they were decisions based on your own understanding of what was best for you; and only you know what is best for you.

so do not feel like the bad guy. like I said, a part of you wanted to keep going, out of empathy, out of guilt and sorrow. you love and care about him, and appreciate all that he has offered you. it is for him in a way, that you have chosen yourself first. and that is the mark of a strong character. it is vital to remember that a part of you, beside the part that wanted to stay, wanted to leave; to explore, learn, & become. and that is the path you chose, which will probably benefit you more than had you stayed. who knows? perhaps you will meet someone. perhaps you won't. perhaps you will prefer it that way for now. or, and this may be too, you will be reconnected with him at some point in the future, and it will work out differently. life is what you make it, and it's all up to you.

well aren't I the longest fortune cookie you ever read haha

Mm, well, i'm sure not all pisces think or take actions like this. It is quite coincidental that two of us have had very similar experiences. Don't give up on pisces! Also, i'm sure the men are even more different, but I wouldn't know. : (

I'll reply to you, double, later. I'm out now. : )

Aha, are you me?
But, I agree. I've started justifying myself and seeing all the bad in him after the break up. We were originally going to hang out this weekend, so we decided to have one more nice weekend before going our separate ways. And being with him now, I'm like "He is really clingy. This is annoying. I made the right decision", but that is me just trying to reassure myself, really, by finding all his faults. It makes me feel bad, but it's something I need for myself.
Thank you for your input and all your advice. I never like listening or agreeing with other people on what I should do or whatever else. I guess that's because I need to hear something I would say to myself and that I can relate to. So congratulations for being the first to make me realize that, and that I can take advice. Though, you're advice was softer and more like laying it all out, but whatever. I also like that you're open to the idea of people getting back together. I think most people on here would say "What, you're going back to him? That's weak. You left him for a reason." Though, I know, the second time we broke up, that time off made me realize how much I appreciated him and helped mature us both a little. I think as long as relationships are abusive or extremely unhealthy, then it's probably okay to consider another chance. I think for me, though, this is it. But, only time will tell.
Like I said, I'm starting to think this was the right decision more and more, so I think I'll be okay. : )Thanks for all your support and everything you contributed.

Posted by Scenic
I know that these things are probably annoying, but if you could, some feedback on my boyfriend and I's charts or anything else that you find interesting in our charts, separately, would be appreciated! For instance, does it seem like we'd argue a lot, have problems with being stubborn, etc, or if compliment each other, etc?

Also, if you have any tips/pieces of knowledge to help me be able to read charts or parts of charts is also welcome. I know what some things represent but it's difficult for me to put it into a bigger picture.

Thanks, in advance!

Mine:
Zodiac in degrees 0.00

Sun Pisces 4.59
Moon Pisces 27.19
Mercury Pisces 22.42
Venus Aries 15.31
Mars Cancer 9.05
Jupiter Libra 13.40 R
Saturn Aquarius 22.36
Uranus Capricorn 20.39
Neptune Capricorn 20.16
Pluto Scorpio 25.32
Lilith Pisces 14.31
Asc node Sagittarius 18.18

Placidus Orb:0

Ascendant Taurus 3.39
II Gemini 4.59
III Gemini 27.41
IV Cancer 18.45
V Leo 12.51
VI Virgo 16.05
VII Scorpio 3.39
VIII Sagittarius 4.59
IX Sagittarius 27.41
Midheaven Capricorn 18.45
XI Aquarius 12.51
XII Pisces 16.05

His:
Zodiac in degrees 0.00

Sun Scorpio 12.36
Moon Scorpio 1.26
Mercury Sagittarius 1.32
Venus Virgo 26.07
Mars Scorpio 13.30
Jupiter Virgo 10.09
Saturn Aquarius 1.01
Uranus Capricorn 10.45
Neptune Capricorn 14.27
Pluto Scorpio 20.01
Lilith Capricorn 21.29
Asc node Capricorn 11.26

Placidus Orb:0

Ascendant Scorpio 22.16
II Sagittarius 22.42
III Capricorn 27.59
IV Pisces 4.24
V Aries 6.05
VI Taurus 1.30
VII Taurus 22.16
VIII Gemini 22.42
IX Cancer 27.59
Midheaven Virgo 4.24
XI Libra 6.05
XII Scorpio 1.30

Wow just noticed our charts are so similar except for sun and moon everything else pretty much matches. :O

^^^
I noticed this before, also. Even our ascendant is the same. Wonder what qualities we actually share, outside of what the chart says. Anyways, it is interesting!

Posted by Scenic
Aha, are you me?

:-) close, ha. but I root for you like you are.
is that really how you spell root... for like cheer? anyway. everyone does that. I did that. I still do that, when comparung my now boyfriend to the guy I was with before, because he's so much better than him. and finding faults (or rather, allowing myself to feel more strongly about them) was a way of letting go so I could be LESS AFRAID of my own decisions. like you said, reassuring. "this the right choice for me. I really just can't deal with his lazy attitude towards life."

I'm glad you found some solace in my posts. to be honest, I don't share a lot because I don't like other people's judgement on things they don't fully understand, and I have this dogmatic side that likes to think I fully understand some things better than most. plus most other pisces annoy me to some degree lol, but I ca n relate to you. it's really because I find weaknesses in other fish (as well as dogmatism) that I know I have too, but I try and hide it.

anyway. as for getting back togethers... who cares what people say, they're not the ones in the actual relationship so their input doesn't matter in terms of what you decide to do with it. getting back together with someone is not a sign of weakness by no means, unless there is actual harm. some people push and pull their entire lives, so what. their feelings are their own business.

Oh, I think I get that, kind of. Is it like...not liking to see it (in other people) so you can kind of deny you're also like that, as well? I'm so tired I'm not really functioning, so I apologize.

I like to think I know all or most of my faults(though, going by my first statement here, you may be able to tell I don't like to always admit them), so I at least try not to judge people who are similar to me in those ways, because I've experienced them.

And YES. Don't even get me started on the judgements that go down here. Everyone likes to super/over analyze people's posts to the point that they have just created some bs opinion that couldn't be farther off. Seems likeit's hard to take things at face value or just answer the questions without telling someone that they are wrong for doing it. Just accept the person, stop criticizing (it's not you, anyway, so why care?), and answer them nicely. There's a line between blunt and rude, and some people here don't know it. Sorry for the rant.

I guess we should probably end the conversation soon. My problems have been worked out. I just really enjoy talking to someone who is so calm and understanding. But, hey, if you ever want to shoot me a message just because you can, there is no problem there.

Posted by Scenic
^^^
I noticed this before, also. Even our ascendant is the same. Wonder what qualities we actually share, outside of what the chart says. Anyways, it is interesting!

Lol yea pretty insane my curiosity is so peaked by this I wonder if your the same level of sexy as me haha except girl version.

Of course :-)
You're the easiest person to talk to on here so far!