ThatLeoChick
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Confuzzled About Aquairus Guy
(Part II) For one, I've never met a guy who texts and phones me as much as he does. I also understand that sometimes Aquarians like to give their friends nicknames, but this guy has a handful for me: Sweet Thing, Little Miss Midnight (we met online at midnight his time, 2hr difference), Little Miss Sunshine, Peanut Butter (inside joke)... I took this as a sign that he really liked me. What's more, when I asked him why he never thought it important to mention that he had a girlfriend, he just said, —I just liked how our friendship is and I didn't want it to change??_ I'm sorry.?? Then later when I (rationally) asked him to expound on this, he explained that he didn't have —like any chick friends any more?? and liked how I was —super awesome and sweet and stuff?? to him. He said he didn't want to lose that plus thought I??d see our friendship as —eh?? or not being a strong one, due to the distance between us. He also mentioned how girls —just act more distant and not interested and stuff?? when they know a guy has a girlfriend.
Basically he admitted to deliberately not telling me about this other girl.
I'm not a vindictive person or an overly emotionally Leo—in fact, I??d say I'm unusually reserved and introverted—so although I'm very hurt by the fact he never told me about his girlfriend (and told him so as politely as I could), I really do care about the friendship we have cultivated, at least. As such, I'm REALLY trying to understand where he's coming from. He made an additional comment about —Plus yeah?? but then stopped short, saying it was regarding his feelings towards me, but now he's having trouble going beyond this.
What gets me is that he admitted that he told his girlfriend about me —many times?? (just said I was an Xbox friend, I suppose) but for some reason he still didn't feel I should know about her!
Right now I'm trying to give him as much space as possible after telling him how hurt I am by our situation, but I just want to know whether his behavior makes any sense to anyone else out there? I'm not an unreasonable person, but I'm not going to continue on with this guy as we have knowing what I know now—and he knows this.
He's in class now, so he apologized for not getting back to me and explained that he isn't trying to ignore me, which I do appreciate, so I'm going to wait and see if/how he responds to my inquiries. But??_ I just need to know if this kin
Basically he admitted to deliberately not telling me about this other girl.
I'm not a vindictive person or an overly emotionally Leo—in fact, I??d say I'm unusually reserved and introverted—so although I'm very hurt by the fact he never told me about his girlfriend (and told him so as politely as I could), I really do care about the friendship we have cultivated, at least. As such, I'm REALLY trying to understand where he's coming from. He made an additional comment about —Plus yeah?? but then stopped short, saying it was regarding his feelings towards me, but now he's having trouble going beyond this.
What gets me is that he admitted that he told his girlfriend about me —many times?? (just said I was an Xbox friend, I suppose) but for some reason he still didn't feel I should know about her!
Right now I'm trying to give him as much space as possible after telling him how hurt I am by our situation, but I just want to know whether his behavior makes any sense to anyone else out there? I'm not an unreasonable person, but I'm not going to continue on with this guy as we have knowing what I know now—and he knows this.
He's in class now, so he apologized for not getting back to me and explained that he isn't trying to ignore me, which I do appreciate, so I'm going to wait and see if/how he responds to my inquiries. But??_ I just need to know if this kin
(Part II) I apologize for the really long post??_ I just feel this is really complicated more me, as I've never met anyone like him. So any insight would be MUCH appreciated. 🙂
Sry, second post got cut off: "I just need to know if this kind of stuff is typical for Aquairus and if it seems like I'm handling this correctly."
Move on. He's an immature little boy trying to have his cake and eat it too. He's been emotionally cheating on the girlfriend via fantasy.
Get over the mini obsession and move on. If he's going to lie about a girlfriend, imagine what else he'll lie about? What if there are 3-4 other females he's doing this to?
Also, he's 18. His testicles barely dropped 2 days ago. Try someone closer to your age, who's actually available, and closer to you.
Get over the mini obsession and move on. If he's going to lie about a girlfriend, imagine what else he'll lie about? What if there are 3-4 other females he's doing this to?
Also, he's 18. His testicles barely dropped 2 days ago. Try someone closer to your age, who's actually available, and closer to you.
Hey, thanks for the comments all. When you put it that way...
To be clear, I wasn't even *looking* for a relationship in the first place. This just kinda happened...but you're all right: it's not worth it.
To be clear, I wasn't even *looking* for a relationship in the first place. This just kinda happened...but you're all right: it's not worth it.
Posted by size zero superhero
No offense yet I must point out that few details regarding the situation are in your favor. X-Box Live is far from an ideal medium for meeting others in pursuit of romantic interest...in addition to the whole age difference and distance factors.
Of course he's entertaining the notion of talking to other girls via gaming system. For what it's worth that's precisely how you know him! What's more, any degree of commitment that's been suggested between you and him is unrealistic; you do not interact face-to-face with one another and he HAS A GIRLFRIEND. Whom, by the way, must feel honored her boyfriend gets his kicks flirting with other chicks via P2P network.
Don't you think you deserve more out of a relationship(or prospects in this case)? Nothing personal, but the entire situation reads as too fantasy-world to be able to go places.
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It started off with me playing some games on Xbox Live. For those who don't know, you can chat via microphone with people you don't even know while playing games online. Sometimes you bump into people that seem pretty cool, so you add 'em as an Xbox friend.
Well...one day I met an Aquarius guy on Live. We really seemed to hit it off as friends, so I added him. I get along with his friends pretty well, too (some he knows in person and some he knows just online). Somehow, we ended up playing games from 10ish at night 'til 7am my time the next day.
Now, usually I don't spend that long playing games, but as I said, we really just really seemed to hit it off.
Anyway, I continued playing games with the guy, and he started becoming really curious about me--like he wanted to know what I look like. So I agreed to swap photos via email. After that, things really progressed and he (indirectly) asked for my number. He started texting me every day, just being really friendly. Every morning he'd send a text saying, "Hi" or "Good morning", often times with one of the little nicknames he'd come up for me. We'd talk over the phone, as well, just about whatever. Things are pretty chill between us.
He's very sweet and, though this isn't conventionally a kind of relationship I'd get involved with (long-distance, plus he's 18 and I'm 23), I couldn't help but start to fall for this guy.
Here's the thing: we live about 1200mi from each other in the U.S., though that's not the real problem. The REAL problem is that he somehow forgot to mention he has a girlfriend.
Whoops!
It's only been 3.5 weeks since I first "met" him, and neither of us actually agreed that we were in a romantic relationship together, but the way he's behaved with me suggested (to me) that he harbors some sort of romantic feelings for me. I did some reading up on Aquarian traits, so I expected him to be "friendly", but right now he's got me so frustrated and confused. (...to be continued...)