Do harsh aspects between Mars and Venus in synastry signal lack of attraction?

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Harsh=challenge

So it really depends. It would change the nature of the connection without supporting aspects.

If a square then, it would basically mean their wasn't a natural effortless flow there to positively stimulate the other person. On paper, a Venus mars square for instance would mean the way the mars person does things may not be pleasing or understood by the Venus person.

You would need to put in real (conscious) effort into understanding the other person in that aspect Venus represents for them and the mars person as well. Everyone has similarities true but unqiue still. You just have to keep a open mind to learn and understand the other person just like any other healthy relationship.

That is the best I can give you with such poor amount of vague generalized information.
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Posted by deckedandecker

need more help

Harsh=challenge

So it really depends. It would change the nature of the connection without supporting aspects.

If a square then, it would basically mean their wasn't a natural effortless flow there to positively stimulate the other person. On paper, a Venus mars square for instance would mean the way the mars person does things may not be pleasing or understood by the Venus person.

You would need to put in real (conscious) effort into understanding the other person in that aspect Venus represents for them and the mars person as well. Everyone has similarities true but unqiue still. You just have to keep a open mind to learn and understand the other person just like any other healthy relationship.

That is the best I can give you with such poor amount of vague generalized information.
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So squares only work when both people want them to?
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Posted by deckedandecker
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by deckedandecker

need more help

Harsh=challenge

So it really depends. It would change the nature of the connection without supporting aspects.

If a square then, it would basically mean their wasn't a natural effortless flow there to positively stimulate the other person. On paper, a Venus mars square for instance would mean the way the mars person does things may not be pleasing or understood by the Venus person.

You would need to put in real (conscious) effort into understanding the other person in that aspect Venus represents for them and the mars person as well. Everyone has similarities true but unqiue still. You just have to keep a open mind to learn and understand the other person just like any other healthy relationship.

That is the best I can give you with such poor amount of vague generalized information.

So squares only work when both people want them to?
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can't answer that question. Seems like you are hunting for a piticular response without giving enough info.