Strongest synastry aspects/soul mate aspects?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by deckedandecker on Tuesday, December 22, 2020 and has 22 replies.

Sun Opposite Moon Synastry Attraction and Tension

Sun opposite Moon synastry often creates strong attraction and tension because one person’s identity presses directly against the other person’s emotional needs. Many people notice instant familiarity, intense eye contact, protective feelings, and arguments that feel strangely personal. In real situations, this aspect can feel soulmate-like when both people listen, but exhausting when one keeps leading and the other keeps reacting.

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I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

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Posted by CreamyPV

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I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

Sun conjunct moon has never worked out for me. It only gives the Neptunian aspect of making it feel like the love is fated. But usually its a toxic relationship and we're both just delusional. I find trines and sextiles healthier. Inconjuncts and squares a waste of time. Oppositions are same as conjunctions for me, since I am Pisces sun/Virgo moon.

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So how about a Sun Square Moon?

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Posted by deckedandecker

Posted by CreamyPV

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I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

Sun conjunct moon has never worked out for me. It only gives the Neptunian aspect of making it feel like the love is fated. But usually its a toxic relationship and we're both just delusional. I find trines and sextiles healthier. Inconjuncts and squares a waste of time. Oppositions are same as conjunctions for me, since I am Pisces sun/Virgo moon.

So how about a Sun Square Moon?

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Tension and conflict

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Posted by CreamyPV

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I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

Sun conjunct moon has never worked out for me. It only gives the Neptunian aspect of making it feel like the love is fated. But usually its a toxic relationship and we're both just delusional. I find trines and sextiles healthier. Inconjuncts and squares a waste of time. Oppositions are same as conjunctions for me, since I am Pisces sun/Virgo moon.

So how about a Sun Square Moon?

Tension and conflict

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Do you think it can work?

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Posted by deckedandecker

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Posted by CreamyPV

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I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

Sun conjunct moon has never worked out for me. It only gives the Neptunian aspect of making it feel like the love is fated. But usually its a toxic relationship and we're both just delusional. I find trines and sextiles healthier. Inconjuncts and squares a waste of time. Oppositions are same as conjunctions for me, since I am Pisces sun/Virgo moon.

So how about a Sun Square Moon?

Tension and conflict

Do you think it can work?

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If both people are patient and keep egos in check. Depends on how many other challenging aspects are in the synastry.....

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Posted by CreamyPV

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I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

Sun conjunct moon has never worked out for me. It only gives the Neptunian aspect of making it feel like the love is fated. But usually its a toxic relationship and we're both just delusional. I find trines and sextiles healthier. Inconjuncts and squares a waste of time. Oppositions are same as conjunctions for me, since I am Pisces sun/Virgo moon.

So how about a Sun Square Moon?

I like Sag moons. But the connection is always superficial on their side. With Gemini moons its 50/50. I like Sag suns but no thank you, unfortunately this is a 7th and 8th house area for me. Gemini is friend zone, but even that depends on their moon sign.

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What are your placements again?

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Posted by CreamyPV

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I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

Sun conjunct moon has never worked out for me. It only gives the Neptunian aspect of making it feel like the love is fated. But usually its a toxic relationship and we're both just delusional. I find trines and sextiles healthier. Inconjuncts and squares a waste of time. Oppositions are same as conjunctions for me, since I am Pisces sun/Virgo moon.

So how about a Sun Square Moon?

I like Sag moons. But the connection is always superficial on their side. With Gemini moons its 50/50. I like Sag suns but no thank you, unfortunately this is a 7th and 8th house area for me. Gemini is friend zone, but even that depends on their moon sign.

What are your placements again?

Pisces sun, Virgo moon, Aquarius Venus, Libra mars

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Do Virgo suns and Pisces moons get you going?

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Posted by deckedandecker

I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

Yes even with natural difficulties and misunderstandings, with a strong enough motivation or bond people will stick it out long enough to work it out in some form.

There are a lot of aspects that scream soulmate in general. The nodes are by far the biggest indicator to me.

About the sun/moon connect, I believe anything that allows you to sense what is underneath the surface layer of a person can give you this feeling(type of connection). Being able to sense and understand what is going on inside someone without the usual effort and time investment in normal relationships is quite a experience. When both people become aware of it and it flows back and forth freely, things get interesting. Becomes almost like a new form of communication.

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Posted by Lostthoughts

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I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

Yes even with natural difficulties and misunderstandings, with a strong enough motivation or bond people will stick it out long enough to work it out in some form.

There are a lot of aspects that scream soulmate in general. The nodes are by far the biggest indicator to me.

About the sun/moon connect, I believe anything that allows you to sense what is underneath the surface layer of a person can give you this feeling(type of connection). Being able to sense and understand what is going on inside someone without the usual effort and time investment in normal relationships is quite a experience. When both people become aware of it and it flows back and forth freely, things get interesting. Becomes almost like a new form of communication.

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So what if the two north nodes are conjunct, is that soulmate guaranteed?

Also, is sun moon square a red flag with synastry?

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I hear Sun Conjunct Moon practically guarantees that the people involved are meant to be together and if you have another harmonious aspect like Venus trine Venus, it is as strong as it gets.

Can compatibility work out if there are squares and oppositions?

Yes even with natural difficulties and misunderstandings, with a strong enough motivation or bond people will stick it out long enough to work it out in some form.

There are a lot of aspects that scream soulmate in general. The nodes are by far the biggest indicator to me.

About the sun/moon connect, I believe anything that allows you to sense what is underneath the surface layer of a person can give you this feeling(type of connection). Being able to sense and understand what is going on inside someone without the usual effort and time investment in normal relationships is quite a experience. When both people become aware of it and it flows back and forth freely, things get interesting. Becomes almost like a new form of communication.

So what if the two north nodes are conjunct, is that soulmate guaranteed?

Also, is sun moon square a red flag with synastry?

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Nodes are heavy hitters in astrology. Conjunctions in personal placements(sun thru mars) can really be felt at times.

Not that cut and dry. From what I noticed what is important is the effect those people have on each other through their interaction with each other. The bond can be rather strong just like the effect it has on the individuals. It can also be one side too. Maybe repeating the same statement leading a person in a piticular direction or even away from something. Like I said it's not so cut and dry.