
Im getting sick of my other half talking to me like trash. This is probably more to do with him being totally spoilt than to do with his sign but just wondering...—


Posted by LibraLovesHimHave you talked to him about it? Is he even aware?
Cusp of Beauty with extreme potty mouth! Is it over reacting to walk away from a relationship with this issue?

Posted by HappyCapperYes he's very aware! I do tell him its unacceptable and the relationship is basically broken down to nothing because its showing to me an extreme lack of respect! I now genuinely think it may be his culture and/or his upbringing as the youngest boy. He constantly gloats about how his sisters "are scared of him" and they question nothing when it comes to him. He would quite literally get away with murder.Posted by LibraLovesHimHave you talked to him about it? Is he even aware?
Cusp of Beauty with extreme potty mouth! Is it over reacting to walk away from a relationship with this issue?click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimI wonder about his age. Is he in his teens?Posted by HappyCapperYes he's very aware! I do tell him its unacceptable and the relationship is basically broken down to nothing because its showing to me an extreme lack of respect! I now genuinely think it may be his culture and/or his upbringing as the youngest boy. He constantly gloats about how his sisters "are scared of him" and they question nothing when it comes to him. He would quite literally get away with murder.Posted by LibraLovesHimHave you talked to him about it? Is he even aware?
Cusp of Beauty with extreme potty mouth! Is it over reacting to walk away from a relationship with this issue?click to expand

Posted by HappyCapperHe's 43! And im 30...he says he knows its wrong and admits but I think its just to shut me up tbh. He told me earlier today-spending time with you makes me feel physically sick. Wtf is this...I think it may be the final straw. I need a kind man which he actually is in general when we're not arguing. We had an argument because we were supposed to go for dinner and furniture shopping today for new house-he cancelled for like the 4th time in a row and I told him fck it im not moving in with you. (He also has serious disrespect for peoples time) This is where he lashed out. True jekyll and hyde.Posted by LibraLovesHimI wonder about his age. Is he in his teens?Posted by HappyCapperYes he's very aware! I do tell him its unacceptable and the relationship is basically broken down to nothing because its showing to me an extreme lack of respect! I now genuinely think it may be his culture and/or his upbringing as the youngest boy. He constantly gloats about how his sisters "are scared of him" and they question nothing when it comes to him. He would quite literally get away with murder.Posted by LibraLovesHimHave you talked to him about it? Is he even aware?
Cusp of Beauty with extreme potty mouth! Is it over reacting to walk away from a relationship with this issue?click to expand

Posted by SingASong41Thank you, good to hear a response from a virgo/libra! My friend actually told me the same thing-that he is unhappy in himself...
Definitely not a Virgo/Libra cusp issue. More of a personal issue. Especially if he is boasting about invoking fear in others. Seems like he is unhappy with himself on a deeper level and feels like he needs power/to be in control which may explain his aggressive behaviour. If he is constantly disrespecting you, even after you have expressed your concern on the matter, drop him. He needs to deal with himself.
Posted by LibraLovesHimIs he trying to make you break up with him so that he won't have to? We are all different, but I know I would never ever be able to put up with that behaviour. It's disrespectful!Posted by HappyCapperHe's 43! And im 30...he says he knows its wrong and admits but I think its just to shut me up tbh. He told me earlier today-spending time with you makes me feel physically sick. Wtf is this...I think it may be the final straw. I need a kind man which he actually is in general when we're not arguing. We had an argument because we were supposed to go for dinner and furniture shopping today for new house-he cancelled for like the 4th time in a row and I told him fck it im not moving in with you. (He also has serious disrespect for peoples time) This is where he lashed out. True jekyll and hyde.Posted by LibraLovesHimI wonder about his age. Is he in his teens?Posted by HappyCapperYes he's very aware! I do tell him its unacceptable and the relationship is basically broken down to nothing because its showing to me an extreme lack of respect! I now genuinely think it may be his culture and/or his upbringing as the youngest boy. He constantly gloats about how his sisters "are scared of him" and they question nothing when it comes to him. He would quite literally get away with murder.Posted by LibraLovesHimHave you talked to him about it? Is he even aware?
Cusp of Beauty with extreme potty mouth! Is it over reacting to walk away from a relationship with this issue?click to expand

Posted by LibraLovesHim...and "spending time with you makes me feel physically sick" Seriously, what are you doing with this guy? Sounds a bit masochistic. If I were a psychologist, I would ask you if your parents used to talk to you like that in your childhood.
This is just how he is...I will not talk to him for 3-4 days and hell come back saying hes done this and hes done that at the house (acting all responsible for us) he doesnt work, and is a major procrastinator
I dont want to say ive gotten used to his behaviour but i think I have, I left before I wish now id just stayed away...

Posted by HappyCapperNo my parents most definately did not, but I have a habit of forgiveness and trying to understand the other individual. Obviously this statement pushed me beyond it which I exactly just why I was looking for an outlet here in the meantime. Thank you anyway for your feedback.Posted by LibraLovesHim...and "spending time with you makes me feel physically sick" Seriously, what are you doing with this guy? Sounds a bit masochistic. If I were a psychologist, I would ask you if your parents used to talk to you like that in your childhood.
This is just how he is...I will not talk to him for 3-4 days and hell come back saying hes done this and hes done that at the house (acting all responsible for us) he doesnt work, and is a major procrastinator
I dont want to say ive gotten used to his behaviour but i think I have, I left before I wish now id just stayed away...click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimThat's great to hear!Posted by HappyCapperNo my parents most definately did not, but I have a habit of forgiveness and trying to understand the other individual. Obviously this statement pushed me beyond it which I exactly just why I was looking for an outlet here in the meantime. Thank you anyway for your feedback.Posted by LibraLovesHim...and "spending time with you makes me feel physically sick" Seriously, what are you doing with this guy? Sounds a bit masochistic. If I were a psychologist, I would ask you if your parents used to talk to you like that in your childhood.
This is just how he is...I will not talk to him for 3-4 days and hell come back saying hes done this and hes done that at the house (acting all responsible for us) he doesnt work, and is a major procrastinator
I dont want to say ive gotten used to his behaviour but i think I have, I left before I wish now id just stayed away...click to expand

Posted by HappyCapperno, virgo in marsPosted by LibraLovesHimThat's great to hear!Posted by HappyCapperNo my parents most definately did not, but I have a habit of forgiveness and trying to understand the other individual. Obviously this statement pushed me beyond it which I exactly just why I was looking for an outlet here in the meantime. Thank you anyway for your feedback.Posted by LibraLovesHim...and "spending time with you makes me feel physically sick" Seriously, what are you doing with this guy? Sounds a bit masochistic. If I were a psychologist, I would ask you if your parents used to talk to you like that in your childhood.
This is just how he is...I will not talk to him for 3-4 days and hell come back saying hes done this and hes done that at the house (acting all responsible for us) he doesnt work, and is a major procrastinator
I dont want to say ive gotten used to his behaviour but i think I have, I left before I wish now id just stayed away...
I can understand that you reacted!
May I ask, do you have a pisces mars. I ask because I do and I have a tendency to see past too much as long as can understand it.click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimAh. Okay. Take care of you and make sure your (next) boyfriend does too!🙂Posted by HappyCapperno, virgo in marsPosted by LibraLovesHimThat's great to hear!Posted by HappyCapperNo my parents most definately did not, but I have a habit of forgiveness and trying to understand the other individual. Obviously this statement pushed me beyond it which I exactly just why I was looking for an outlet here in the meantime. Thank you anyway for your feedback.Posted by LibraLovesHim...and "spending time with you makes me feel physically sick" Seriously, what are you doing with this guy? Sounds a bit masochistic. If I were a psychologist, I would ask you if your parents used to talk to you like that in your childhood.
This is just how he is...I will not talk to him for 3-4 days and hell come back saying hes done this and hes done that at the house (acting all responsible for us) he doesnt work, and is a major procrastinator
I dont want to say ive gotten used to his behaviour but i think I have, I left before I wish now id just stayed away...
I can understand that you reacted!
May I ask, do you have a pisces mars. I ask because I do and I have a tendency to see past too much as long as can understand it.click to expand

Posted by HappyCapperPosted by LibraLovesHimAh. Okay. Take care of you and make sure your (next) boyfriend does too!🙂Posted by HappyCapperno, virgo in marsPosted by LibraLovesHimThat's great to hear!Posted by HappyCapperNo my parents most definately did not, but I have a habit of forgiveness and trying to understand the other individual. Obviously this statement pushed me beyond it which I exactly just why I was looking for an outlet here in the meantime. Thank you anyway for your feedback.Posted by LibraLovesHim...and "spending time with you makes me feel physically sick" Seriously, what are you doing with this guy? Sounds a bit masochistic. If I were a psychologist, I would ask you if your parents used to talk to you like that in your childhood.
This is just how he is...I will not talk to him for 3-4 days and hell come back saying hes done this and hes done that at the house (acting all responsible for us) he doesnt work, and is a major procrastinator
I dont want to say ive gotten used to his behaviour but i think I have, I left before I wish now id just stayed away...
I can understand that you reacted!
May I ask, do you have a pisces mars. I ask because I do and I have a tendency to see past too much as long as can understand it.click to expand
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