fire water relationships

Hi,

I have an abstract question, the following are some placements of two people who have a very tempestuous relationship:

Guy:
sun,mercury and mars in leo
venus in virgo
moon in gemini
absolutely NO WATER in the chart and MOSTLY FIRE.

Girl:
sun scorpio, moon cancer, mars pisces.
venus and venus in libra.
absolutely NO FIRE in her chart and MOSTLY WATER.

Does anyone have any insights on this relationship? why this works? how will this work?
Does it seem to be a karmic relationship? what are these two trying to teach each other?

They are attracted to what the other is lacking in their own chart, take a look at this.
http://sasstrology.com/2010/08/are-you-attracted-to-the-element-you-lack.html page

You leave the Leo guy alone, once your water is boiled dry you will try sting the butter out of him and the poor guy will be a victim of a unhappy Scorpio woman. Walk away leave him alone why do you Scorpio women want to destroy guys?

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Stihl46
You leave the Leo guy alone, once your water is boiled dry you will try sting the butter out of him and the poor guy will be a victim of a unhappy Scorpio woman. Walk away leave him alone why do you Scorpio women want to destroy guys?

Do you think it is a 'control /power' thing?

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I can't explain it but Leo's are very opinionated they do like control and they seem to march to the beat of their own drum I don't see Scorpio and Leo working out for one a Scorpio will drag a Leo down with negativity.

The Leo guy may find her interesting for a little while but like I said he will boil her water dry that's when the relationship will turn ugly. I have Leo friends they are bold they can be intimidating at first.

I know of a Scorpio Leo relationship now that he Leo isn't with her anymore he's seems to be a changed man he's happy they were married for years she was a b**** she controlled his life. Now I see him he's enjoying his life he's doing his favorite hobby he has a new woman in his life he's smiling. I'm not ragging on Scorpio women but they all have the same trait of being a b**** or known as one.

@rabidtalker that was actually pretty insightful, thank you.

@stihl46 come on, that's a little unfair. Don't generalise a whole sign because of your own personal experiences. I promise you, not all Scorpios sting. However, I do appreciate what you're saying, there is a sense of exhaustion on both sides but then both sides are unable to stay away too. We understand we're polar opposites but still somehow very similar.
That's something I was hoping to get feedback on.

Also, in case you're still reading this, it's not a romantic relationship anymore. It's just a strong relationship in our lives. I was wondering what the purpose of it could be.

@impulsiv 🙂 seriously, I'm so tired of the Scorpio bashing. We're not all the same.

Have you had any fire water experience you'd like to talk about?

Usually a very dynamic passionate short term fling.
Long term is not realistic.

My Mother (Scorp) and my stepfather (Leo) have been in a 21 year relationship of pure hell. I would advise anybody to stay well clear of that combo.

@lunarmaiden what kind of issues do you think crop up in relationships like these?

@JROI could you elaborate more on their relationship if you're comfortable? like the issues they've had to face? what brought them together?

@all my question is not necessarily about leo scorpio relationships (thought i'm still trying to understand them)
The bigger question is how two people have one element completely missing in their chart and find (and connect with) someone whose chart is loaded with that element.
fire for me and water for him.

though*

They have problems with privacy, my mum likes to be very private in everything that she does, but my step dad needs to know what she's doing, what she's spending money on etc... He's gotten to the point of opening her mail and attempting to reseal it, reading her emails, text messages etc... Which is totally wrong, he should trust her... But at the same time he has no reason to trust her, I wouldn't... she lies about a lot of things, she keeps him in the dark and she's very very good at manipulating pretty much any situation.

But to be honest I have no idea what goes on behind closed doors, because I'm not sure what comes out my mother's mouth is true and I'm not close with my step dad to ask him. I generally try to stay away from it, I put up with it for 17 years, I'm done haha.

Posted by JROI
They have problems with privacy, my mum likes to be very private in everything that she does, but my step dad needs to know what she's doing, what she's spending money on etc... He's gotten to the point of opening her mail and attempting to reseal it, reading her emails, text messages etc... Which is totally wrong, he should trust her... But at the same time he has no reason to trust her, I wouldn't... she lies about a lot of things, she keeps him in the dark and she's very very good at manipulating pretty much any situation.

But to be honest I have no idea what goes on behind closed doors, because I'm not sure what comes out my mother's mouth is true and I'm not close with my step dad to ask him. I generally try to stay away from it, I put up with it for 17 years, I'm done haha.

well you yourself are saying bad things about both of them.

and opening mail or personal stuff is already bad relationship right there. if no trust, it's not going to survive.

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Murder can occur with these two signs together.

I have seen this pairing and 99.999% of them were very hostile relationships.

are you talking about the Oscar Pistorious/Reeva Steenkamp?

Certainly NOT Bill Gates/Melinda Gates.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by JROI
They have problems with privacy, my mum likes to be very private in everything that she does, but my step dad needs to know what she's doing, what she's spending money on etc... He's gotten to the point of opening her mail and attempting to reseal it, reading her emails, text messages etc... Which is totally wrong, he should trust her... But at the same time he has no reason to trust her, I wouldn't... she lies about a lot of things, she keeps him in the dark and she's very very good at manipulating pretty much any situation.

But to be honest I have no idea what goes on behind closed doors, because I'm not sure what comes out my mother's mouth is true and I'm not close with my step dad to ask him. I generally try to stay away from it, I put up with it for 17 years, I'm done haha.

well you yourself are saying bad things about both of them.

and opening mail or personal stuff is already bad relationship right there. if no trust, it's not going to survive.

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Oh yeah, once upon a time I would have blamed him completely (we never got along) but now I am out of the picture, I'm starting to see the bigger picture. They're both as bad as each other, his behaviour is just more out in the open for everyone to see.