Friends with Benefits with Aquarius

Im a Sagittarius Women and I have this Aquarian guy friend. We were friends at first with the same group of people. Then I started talking to a guy in our group a Taurus But we werent officially going out so the Aquarius friend and I hooked up multiple times as "friends with benefits" and then his Taurus friend and I got serious and started dating. When Taurus found out Aquarius hooked up with me he was Pissed! They stopped being friends for the whole 4 years Taurus and I was dating..............BUT then at the end of our relationship Aquarius started coming around again and the guys became friends. Long story short, Taurus and I are over each other we stayed friends and everything is fine with us and the Aquarius and him are BFF again

BUT the night we broke up I told the Aquarius I wanted him and we were friends with benefits again for a month then he started feeling guilty and said we needed to stop since he saw my Taurus ex all the time.

Its been 8 months and they are Still friends and im ONLY friends with the Aquarian man NOTHING else BUT I keep trying. He thinks its funny and I do to but at the same time im serious. He knows me very well and says I have a "mode" I go into when I want him and there is nothing stopping me. He cant even hang out with me alone cause he is afraid he will do something hell regret.

Do you think he will not care soon or his mind is fixed ? Do Aquarians fix their mind on things that they define as BAD and that's it? Im his top Lay and we have sick sexual chemistry and I know he wants it but hes not letting himself go there...

***Also I hung out with him for the first time alone in 5months outside of his house (cause he refused to go inside with me) and he was licking his lips, I caught him staring at me and we were talking about how it was fun being friends with benefits, blah blah, we can talk for hours about bullshit BUT he had some strong will power and kept saying NO

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

Posted by Gobshite

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

Why? She's a fucking Sag!

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LMFAO thanks dude ! im not insecure about my shit, I call it as I see it and he told me himself ! hahah

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

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He told me himself, its a compliment ;] lol Sag baby

No, honey, it's not a compliment. You only think it is because you're 23 and grossly inexperienced in these matters.

Also, you're fucking gross. The guy said no. Stop harassing him already. You're essentially sexually harassing the guy non stop. Guys shouldn't do it to women, and same for the reverse, especially in this situation. Who the fuck are you to harass him into sleeping with you? Get the hell over yourself and go find someone else who wants your selfish vag.

I'm all for women embracing sexuality and not being shy with it, but Sag women here just take it to a fucked up level at times...

Posted by nikkiboop148

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

He told me himself, its a compliment ;] lol Sag baby

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If you see yourself as a sex object and take pride in that, men are only going to see you that way as well. They will use you up and spit you out.

But, hey! If that's your goal, then more power to ya! To each their own.

Posted by nikkiboop148

Posted by Gobshite

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

Why? She's a fucking Sag!

LMFAO thanks dude ! im not insecure about my shit, I call it as I see it and he told me himself ! hahah

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lol +1

Consider the opposite. No one wants to be the worst lay.

Curious, are you a mars in virgo?

cause I live for those types of compliment

Curious, are you a mars in virgo?

cause I live for those types of compliment

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

He told me himself, its a compliment ;] lol Sag baby

If you see yourself as a sex object and take pride in that, men are only going to see you that way as well. They will use you up and spit you out.

But, hey! If that's your goal, then more power to ya! To each their own.

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+1

I think that if Sag women realized this sooner, the fewer relationship woes we'd see here on DXP. Any time I've read one of their sob stories, they just cannot connect the dots.

It's a shitty thing in dating- you view sex as a man, some men turn you into a sex object and look down on you. It doesn't mean you should go nun status, but don't be surprised if some lame ass guy starts treating you as such.

Oh please we are like at the bottom of the relationship woes lol. Hilarious

besides sex is friggin good and nuthin wrong with being told that you're good at it.

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

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lol...this goes back to DMV's post on "Sex Shaming"

The way I see it, she's proud of what she is and does and owns it. I do wonder though how proud her father or brothers (if any) would be how she self describes herself. Do they pat her on the back, say "atta girl" and toast together?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
No, honey, it's not a compliment. You only think it is because you're 23 and grossly inexperienced in these matters.

Also, you're fucking gross. The guy said no. Stop harassing him already. You're essentially sexually harassing the guy non stop. Guys shouldn't do it to women, and same for the reverse, especially in this situation. Who the fuck are you to harass him into sleeping with you? Get the hell over yourself and go find someone else who wants your selfish vag.

I'm all for women embracing sexuality and not being shy with it, but Sag women here just take it to a fucked up level at times...

LOL im not "inexperience" cause of my age. I know plenty of older people that are more inexperience mentally and sexually. Also I find it funny cause we are friends and I don't give a f*** hahaha im not harassing him, I guess it does sound bad from the post but Ill ask him jokingly, I don't jump on him and shit like a little a** girl lol So learn to not be soooo serious DAM girl, And I know I can be selfish =] oh well. Most sag are but we don't show it like I am right now! lol & I love other sag women that take it far! If some dumb a** man can express themselves and say what they want Why cant I? but thank you for the Great advice!

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

He told me himself, its a compliment ;] lol Sag baby

If you see yourself as a sex object and take pride in that, men are only going to see you that way as well. They will use you up and spit you out.

But, hey! If that's your goal, then more power to ya! To each their own.

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Dam I cant deal with Caps, yal take shit wayyyyyyyyy to far. I am experienced not a "sex object"' but I know what it means to love. Im a romantic at heart but YES that's what I want from HIM cause I trust him and know him, Im not looking to do anything with anyone else at the moment cause a girl needs to breath damm but vibrates only do soo much and if you cant handle the truth then byee. Just keeping it real. Thanks for the advice though!

Posted by DMV
Curious, are you a mars in virgo?

cause I live for those types of compliment

Im mars in Sag, moon in Sag, Mercury in Sag, Jupiter Virgo

& I appreciate the no judgment =]

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

He told me himself, its a compliment ;] lol Sag baby

If you see yourself as a sex object and take pride in that, men are only going to see you that way as well. They will use you up and spit you out.

But, hey! If that's your goal, then more power to ya! To each their own.

+1

I think that if Sag women realized this sooner, the fewer relationship woes we'd see here on DXP. Any time I've read one of their sob stories, they just cannot connect the dots.

It's a shitty thing in dating- you view sex as a man, some men turn you into a sex object and look down on you. It doesn't mean you should go nun status, but don't be surprised if some lame ass guy starts treating you as such.

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DUDE just stop lol it has nothing to do with some psychological bulls*** I have a stable family, good home, loving heart, amazing friends and know how to say f*** you to men and love lol Sooo your soo off point...IM JUST HAVING FUN WITH AN OLD FRIENDDDDDD haha not f***ing with every guy and their daddy

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Posted by truecap

Posted by nikkiboop148

Im his top Lay

I find it really sad that you describe yourself this way.

lol...this goes back to DMV's post on "Sex Shaming"

The way I see it, she's proud of what she is and does and owns it. I do wonder though how proud her father or brothers (if any) would be how she self describes herself. Do they pat her on the back, say "atta girl" and toast together?

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I wish my parents were that cool !!! But I didn't get that lucky lol

My cousin is a Sag and yeah she has this "I'm the top lay" type of attitude. Drives me crazy, definitely not the type of person I am but whatever ... not my life! As far as Aquarius they seem to me IMO happy to be FwB ... over a committed relationship so if you're into that, more power to you both!