SpinCycle
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How to snag a woman according to dxpnet women
*grabs notebook and pen*
oh i cant wait for the responses, so we can see how different women are from each other.
^ the worst thing that can happen is just the men commenting because they all want to know. lol
Posted by exoskeletonPosted by Koniucha
5 days a week minimum, lol
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simple stuff, lads!click to expand
I prefer 5 times a day but I guess 5 days a week will do.
*Leo Sun/Scorpio Moon/Aries Rising*
1. What makes you choose a man for a date?
*Physically, he must at least know how to dress decently. I'm not very particular with fashion but I do fall for the bad boy or nerdy/geeky looks. Personality-wise, I like men who are good listeners and aren't afraid to express their emotions. Too much masculinity turns me off, too.
2. What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
*Good listener, sensitive, deep, devoted, passionate, loyal, honest and not afraid to be a little bit cheesy sometimes. :p
3. When do you know he is husband material?
*When we've gone through good and bad years together and are still going strong.
4. What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
*Cheating. I'm not that possessive; I'll let him have fun with his girl friends and give him his own alone time, but the moment I have proof that he's been two-timing, I won't hesitate to punch him in the face and leave. No second chances.
5. How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
*Sex isn't that important to me, but if he wants it, I'll give it. If he holds out on me, I'll understand. But if the sex life becomes stagnant, then we'll need to talk.
6. How important is family acceptance of your partner?
*Semi-important. I'll let my family know of his existence right away, but if they don't like him, I will still be the judge of my own relationships.
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
*Very necessary. If I expect myself to be financially independent, then so should he. Unless we're living together, then of course, we have to pitch in.
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
*We're not afraid to honestly communicate with each other. Even if the relationship wouldn't work out, I would at least be happy knowing he didn't half-ass it. 🙂
1. What makes you choose a man for a date?
*Physically, he must at least know how to dress decently. I'm not very particular with fashion but I do fall for the bad boy or nerdy/geeky looks. Personality-wise, I like men who are good listeners and aren't afraid to express their emotions. Too much masculinity turns me off, too.
2. What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
*Good listener, sensitive, deep, devoted, passionate, loyal, honest and not afraid to be a little bit cheesy sometimes. :p
3. When do you know he is husband material?
*When we've gone through good and bad years together and are still going strong.
4. What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
*Cheating. I'm not that possessive; I'll let him have fun with his girl friends and give him his own alone time, but the moment I have proof that he's been two-timing, I won't hesitate to punch him in the face and leave. No second chances.
5. How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
*Sex isn't that important to me, but if he wants it, I'll give it. If he holds out on me, I'll understand. But if the sex life becomes stagnant, then we'll need to talk.
6. How important is family acceptance of your partner?
*Semi-important. I'll let my family know of his existence right away, but if they don't like him, I will still be the judge of my own relationships.
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
*Very necessary. If I expect myself to be financially independent, then so should he. Unless we're living together, then of course, we have to pitch in.
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
*We're not afraid to honestly communicate with each other. Even if the relationship wouldn't work out, I would at least be happy knowing he didn't half-ass it. 🙂
1 What makes you choose a man for a date?
He's not a douche.
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
Not be a douche.
3 When do you know he is husband material?
When he's not a douche.
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
Being a douche.
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
He must have a vagina.
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner?
Meh.
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
Yes. I don't need to support some douche.
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
When he's not a douche.
Anything else you may want to add.
Douchebags don't make good life partners.
Aries
He's not a douche.
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
Not be a douche.
3 When do you know he is husband material?
When he's not a douche.
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
Being a douche.
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
He must have a vagina.
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner?
Meh.
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
Yes. I don't need to support some douche.
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
When he's not a douche.
Anything else you may want to add.
Douchebags don't make good life partners.
Aries
Posted by SpinCycle
From a Pisces Point of view....
1 What makes you choose a man for a date?
Conversation. He has to be intelligent. He has to come to me correct. No cheesy lines. Making me laugh or blush is a plus. Never send over a drink if you see I am not drinking.
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
Consistency. Everything must flow. You don't have to be 100 perfect but you have to communicate, laugh, have fun, and want to understand me to the fullest. A man to takes notice of the little things. Isn't materialistic and knows that a little can go a long way.
3 When do you know he is husband material?
When he stays consistent and begins to do things without me asking or showing. Knowing that my happiness is important to him.
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship? Clingy, angry, drinker, yelling, confrontational, Lies, cheats.
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
Sex is a must have! When a man holds out..yeah we have a problem. I want sex every day 2x a day everywhere..with or without cameras...LOL
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner? Family...who's that?
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary? Well kinda. If he is in a slump and he's looking and trying and attempting I am good with it. If he is a bum I will hand him a box. I want financial stability but if he doesn't know it I can help him learn it.
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man? The fact he keeps trying. He doesn't quit evolving into a man. We grow often we do not stay stagnant as people. Communication and having fun. Fun is life...making changes within the world.
Anything else you may want to add
A man who has a sentimental side but doesn't show it until he knows he is secure with me. He should create a life for us and for himself. Being together doesn't stop him from being who he is and he also needs to understand that about me. Together we would be unstoppable..separate we would be genius's
Post with your sun sign we can do a study. Have fun!
Aqua Sun Leo Moon Cap in Venus Pisces Rising
1 What makes you choose a man for a date?
If we have a good connection we can just go with the flow from there
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
Loyalty, honesty and intelligence with a great sense of humour
3 When do you know he is husband material?
If he becomes my best friend with whom I can share things with that I can't or won't with anyone else. Someone I can see growing through life with as oppose to just going through life.
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
I do NOT like when guys try to control me or become too possessive. Like dude have faith in me. Also if he lies I hate liars and if he cheats it's pretty much a done deal.
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
Sexual compatibility is important but not the most important and in all honesty I??d have it errday at least 2 times a day. If he holds out it could probably be due to a number of things depending on what's been going on but if it becomes common then we??ll need to talk. Lol
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner?
Family is VERY important to me and it would be nice if he also has a closeness to his as well. My family will always accept who I'm with as long as they are good to me. I rarely bring anyone to my family unless it's very very serious.
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
I'm a very independent woman so yes it is necessary. If I have my sh!t together he should too
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
It's his loyalty and his affection towards me
Anything else you may want to add
I think communication is very important; often times people make the mistake of listening to other people instead of talking to their partner. People also have to know that no relationship is perfect and you??re going to have ups and downs but it's how you get through them together as a couple. So many people seem to also be selfish and want a partner to accept them flaws and all yet they forget just as they are human so is their partner... well, unless they??re into some shit that um ??_ yeah that's a different thread. Ewwww LOL :p
1 What makes you choose a man for a date?
If we have a good connection we can just go with the flow from there
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
Loyalty, honesty and intelligence with a great sense of humour
3 When do you know he is husband material?
If he becomes my best friend with whom I can share things with that I can't or won't with anyone else. Someone I can see growing through life with as oppose to just going through life.
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
I do NOT like when guys try to control me or become too possessive. Like dude have faith in me. Also if he lies I hate liars and if he cheats it's pretty much a done deal.
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
Sexual compatibility is important but not the most important and in all honesty I??d have it errday at least 2 times a day. If he holds out it could probably be due to a number of things depending on what's been going on but if it becomes common then we??ll need to talk. Lol
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner?
Family is VERY important to me and it would be nice if he also has a closeness to his as well. My family will always accept who I'm with as long as they are good to me. I rarely bring anyone to my family unless it's very very serious.
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
I'm a very independent woman so yes it is necessary. If I have my sh!t together he should too
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
It's his loyalty and his affection towards me
Anything else you may want to add
I think communication is very important; often times people make the mistake of listening to other people instead of talking to their partner. People also have to know that no relationship is perfect and you??re going to have ups and downs but it's how you get through them together as a couple. So many people seem to also be selfish and want a partner to accept them flaws and all yet they forget just as they are human so is their partner... well, unless they??re into some shit that um ??_ yeah that's a different thread. Ewwww LOL :p
Posted by peritwinkle
I feel like we should have more questions about what we can bring to the table though..
Add what ever you feel like it...Every bit helps!
1 What makes you choose a man for a date?
-- Charismatic, sends chills down my spine just by standing close.. can feel the electricity between us. If I can't get over him, I'll have to experience him 🙂
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
-- He should do his own thing, whatever he is passionate about. The guy's gotta have some ambition and goals in life. He should be confident in himself and not feel inferior to me. Takes care of himself and is loyal to his lady. Doesn't mind deep and philosophical conversations every once in a while. Open minded and doesn't take life too seriously 🙂
3 When do you know he is husband material?
-- After a couple of years of being together he still hasn't submitted to my dominant personality and become a complete doormat! There is great mutual respect and admiration. He still turns me on and makes me laugh.
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
-- Become needy and possessive, jealous of my friends, won't encourage me regarding my passions and career, want all of my free time, don't participate equally in chores, stop taking care of themselves, won't trust me for no reason.
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
-- It's important to me to be able to form a physical connection with your partner, it might suffer if there are long periods without sex. If a man holds out I'm expecting him to talk to me about what's up as I would do the same for him. If there's a real reason, I don't mind and I don't mind waiting for him to be ready for it again.
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner?
-- Somewhat important. My family knows me very well and they are always thinking about what's best for me. I might not occasionally see the red flags from my rose colored glasses.
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
-- All shared expenses should be split 50-50. Other than that, I don't care all that much as long as they are financially independent.
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
-- We can come to each other anew time and time again mentally and physically. We can always find something to laugh and joke about. He won't give up on me easily if times get hard.
- Sag
-- Charismatic, sends chills down my spine just by standing close.. can feel the electricity between us. If I can't get over him, I'll have to experience him 🙂
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
-- He should do his own thing, whatever he is passionate about. The guy's gotta have some ambition and goals in life. He should be confident in himself and not feel inferior to me. Takes care of himself and is loyal to his lady. Doesn't mind deep and philosophical conversations every once in a while. Open minded and doesn't take life too seriously 🙂
3 When do you know he is husband material?
-- After a couple of years of being together he still hasn't submitted to my dominant personality and become a complete doormat! There is great mutual respect and admiration. He still turns me on and makes me laugh.
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
-- Become needy and possessive, jealous of my friends, won't encourage me regarding my passions and career, want all of my free time, don't participate equally in chores, stop taking care of themselves, won't trust me for no reason.
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
-- It's important to me to be able to form a physical connection with your partner, it might suffer if there are long periods without sex. If a man holds out I'm expecting him to talk to me about what's up as I would do the same for him. If there's a real reason, I don't mind and I don't mind waiting for him to be ready for it again.
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner?
-- Somewhat important. My family knows me very well and they are always thinking about what's best for me. I might not occasionally see the red flags from my rose colored glasses.
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
-- All shared expenses should be split 50-50. Other than that, I don't care all that much as long as they are financially independent.
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
-- We can come to each other anew time and time again mentally and physically. We can always find something to laugh and joke about. He won't give up on me easily if times get hard.
- Sag
The men kinda flaked on me on this..but Ladies we Rule!!! Love this!
1 What makes you choose a man for a date?
I don't ask men out, but if I was asked out it would be someone I know through conversation on more than two occasions, or have known. If my choice was yes, it was because I sense intelligence, respect and my bullshit detector hasn't gone off.
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
Well..for starters, if we've been together for more than 6 months without any red flags and the chemistry is still there, yet stronger. His traits? Again, intelligence, respect, loyalty, communicates well, empathy and shows his desire for me. Actions..instead of words.
3 When do you know he is husband material?
When he agrees to a prenuptial agreement. The rest is a no brainer and mentioned above.
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
Lies, cheats, is disrespectful, bad personal hygiene, lazy, and weak. Weak meaning, you are my man, wear the pants and take the bull by the horns to help solve issues that come up. Protect me
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
Important. If he's holding out there's a reason. I'd communicate and ASK him!!
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner?
It isn't. He's my choice, not theirs. If they like him great, if not oh well
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
Absolutely. What's yours is yours, what's mine is mine. We split the bills and necessities down the middle 50/50. If you can't carry your own weight, then do something so that you can.
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
Stability, knowing he's also happy and content, happy to see each other after a long day at work or from an absence, continues communicating and doesn't get bored with me.
Anything else you may want to add
Nothing I can think of right now..
I don't ask men out, but if I was asked out it would be someone I know through conversation on more than two occasions, or have known. If my choice was yes, it was because I sense intelligence, respect and my bullshit detector hasn't gone off.
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
Well..for starters, if we've been together for more than 6 months without any red flags and the chemistry is still there, yet stronger. His traits? Again, intelligence, respect, loyalty, communicates well, empathy and shows his desire for me. Actions..instead of words.
3 When do you know he is husband material?
When he agrees to a prenuptial agreement. The rest is a no brainer and mentioned above.
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
Lies, cheats, is disrespectful, bad personal hygiene, lazy, and weak. Weak meaning, you are my man, wear the pants and take the bull by the horns to help solve issues that come up. Protect me
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
Important. If he's holding out there's a reason. I'd communicate and ASK him!!
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner?
It isn't. He's my choice, not theirs. If they like him great, if not oh well
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
Absolutely. What's yours is yours, what's mine is mine. We split the bills and necessities down the middle 50/50. If you can't carry your own weight, then do something so that you can.
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
Stability, knowing he's also happy and content, happy to see each other after a long day at work or from an absence, continues communicating and doesn't get bored with me.
Anything else you may want to add
Nothing I can think of right now..
Posted by SpinCycle
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Forgot this...
Answer...Scorpio w/some splashes of Pisces. 😉
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Women let the men into your thoughts....
1 What makes you choose a man for a date?
2 What does a man do to make you want to commit? Your ideal man traits?
3 When do you know he is husband material?
4 What do men do to make you run and disappear or shut off to the point of dissolving the relationship?
5 How important is sex? When a man holds out..what does that mean to you?
6 How important is family acceptance of your partner?
7. Financial responsibility is it necessary?
8. What truly keeps you happy and secure with a man?
Anything else you may want to add
Post with your sun sign we can do a study. Have fun!