if the stars are againsts us, it wont work?

so im a sagi and in relationship with a cancerain, now all the astro and zodiac says we would never work out (which is scaring me). although now as a sagi i myself am serious for her and want this relationship to work from my heart. now i thought probably in palmistry there would be something different, but our hands dont match and my hand has a early break in the emotional or heart line (dont remember what its called) so now thats disturbing me to my core. the one that i love and want to be with all my life will not work out? so the stars and all these stuff are actually true and will happen and get the best of us?? so yea she says she aint a keeper or practical at times so i should be worried about that and live with a constant fear that she might leave or it wont work out throughout this relationship? I dont want to believe all this afterall we make our own fate but still its worrying me way a lot than it should!

if you are going to go in thinking that kind of thinking, then you failed already.

Posted by lisabethur8
if you are going to go in thinking that kind of thinking, then you failed already.

you might have point but as "einrickpisces" said up there, i already happen to know a little about these stuff and such have been lately coming in front of me making me curious as well as scared at the same time.

Posted by harryn

Posted by lisabethur8
if you are going to go in thinking that kind of thinking, then you failed already.

you might have point but as "einrickpisces" said up there, i already happen to know a little about these stuff and such have been lately coming in front of me making me curious as well as scared at the same time.

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defeat only makes you STRONGER. you can't go wrong if you don't try and pursue this woman with your heart and soul. If she doesn't want you and what you want to offer, then at least you TRIED right??

because if you never tried, and known either victory OR defeat, then you'll never know what would have happened.

Posted by harryn
so im a sagi and in relationship with a cancerain, now all the astro and zodiac says we would never work out (which is scaring me). although now as a sagi i myself am serious for her and want this relationship to work from my heart. now i thought probably in palmistry there would be something different, but our hands dont match and my hand has a early break in the emotional or heart line (dont remember what its called) so now thats disturbing me to my core. the one that i love and want to be with all my life will not work out? so the stars and all these stuff are actually true and will happen and get the best of us?? so yea she says she aint a keeper or practical at times so i should be worried about that and live with a constant fear that she might leave or it wont work out throughout this relationship? I dont want to believe all this afterall we make our own fate but still its worrying me way a lot than it should!

Nah, you are more then just your Zodiac aka sun sign...You have to look at the Rising, Moon, Venus, Mars, Mercury For both people and then you can see the connection/misunderstandings. Heck, I'm a Cancer sun but my best relationships have been with Geminis which is like not a match at all! So find out each other's other aspects ans then you will see.

I pretty much agree with the rest. I'd say there's definitely something there or you wouldn't have wanted it to work so badly right? You're a Sag, where's your optimism?? 😉

Posted by hoolahoopsy
I pretty much agree with the rest. I'd say there's definitely something there or you wouldn't have wanted it to work so badly right? You're a Sag, where's your optimism?? 😉

First off, thank you all.. you all have some really valid strong points and im going to keep working on it and put what horoscopes and astro says aside and out of the equation.

and hoolahoopsy, i saw what you did there, and trust me thats the only thing thats keeping my moods up!

OP I'm curious about what it is you like so much about your cancer. I'm a cancer dating a sag and it hasn't been easy. He's so indecisive and I view many things as black and white with very little gray.

Posted by harryn
so im a sagi and in relationship with a cancerain, [...] astro [...] palmistry [...] i should be worried about that and live with a constant fear that she might leave or it wont work out throughout this relationship? [...]

1. Neither Astrology nor Palmistry are acknowledged by scientists (or religious leaders if you like) to be true.

2. Nobody knows what that would mean for our lives if it were true.

3. Under this circumstances Astrology can only be a warning to the potential conflicts.

4. Once you are warned, you better be more careful.

5. What if more compatibility brings more boredom?

6. Be just loyal. Or don't settle if you think you have not seen enough.

7. It would be helpful if you have Cancer, Capricorn or Scorpio in your own chart.

Posted by kittyruns956
OP I'm curious about what it is you like so much about your cancer. I'm a cancer dating a sag and it hasn't been easy. He's so indecisive and I view many things as black and white with very little gray.

There are just so many things that i like about her, especially the little things she says and does..
yea there are always some positive and negative but for me being with her is more important than those little negetives, and tbh i kinda like those (dont know why though)..
personally i dont know how to describe it especially why i love her, and plus how can one describe what they mean to them when they have done so much for you without even knowing what they have done for you.
she means the world to me and i love her for thats the only thing that matters, and thats what i got to know here too from all you guys as in above statement astro and all is just a warning not a prediction.