I'm torn between an Aries and Gemini

So long story short I met an Aries man long distance on line and we fell in love like right away and I am all about him. But being a Virgo I tend to be very needy and insecure and just a mess when it comes to relationships especially LDR... Well there's also a Gemini man who I am not as interested in that can deal with all I have to dish out he's so patient and just willing to do everything it takes to make me his.. Aries made it clear he loves me and all but when I get those negative feelings, he just can't handle it but I want the Aries man... But the Gemini is just so sweet and would do anything for me idk what to do the Aries and I haven't spoke since Friday when I basically said I'll be here when you want to treat me the way you want to be treated.. Not even a message on V day.. What should I do.? Pursue the one I want just to keep becoming disappointed or just try with the Gemini that would do anything for me but am not that into as of now....

Posted by Zetarose
So long story short I met an Aries man long distance on line and we fell in love like right away and I am all about him. But being a Virgo I tend to be very needy and insecure and just a mess when it comes to relationships especially LDR... Well there's also a Gemini man who I am not as interested in that can deal with all I have to dish out he's so patient and just willing to do everything it takes to make me his.. Aries made it clear he loves me and all but when I get those negative feelings, he just can't handle it but I want the Aries man... But the Gemini is just so sweet and would do anything for me idk what to do the Aries and I haven't spoke since Friday when I basically said I'll be here when you want to treat me the way you want to be treated.. Not even a message on V day.. What should I do.? Pursue the one I want just to keep becoming disappointed or just try with the Gemini that would do anything for me but am not that into as of now....

I meant when HE said - he'll be there for me when I can Treat him differently

So, you're upset and pissed off because you're long distance relationship with the Aries and insecure, hoping he's true to his word, all the while you're thinking about a Gemini?

You should only be disappointed in yourself.

For the love $ ✨!#/ - do you have to lead into every post with how you're a Virgo and then state how whatever you're doing is "typical"?

I see you finally updated your side bar from "Aquarius" to "Aries".. smh.

Posted by Zetarose
So long story short I met an Aries man long distance on line and we fell in love like right away and I am all about him. But being a Virgo I tend to be very needy and insecure and just a mess when it comes to relationships especially LDR... Well there's also a Gemini man who I am not as interested in that can deal with all I have to dish out he's so patient and just willing to do everything it takes to make me his.. Aries made it clear he loves me and all but when I get those negative feelings, he just can't handle it but I want the Aries man... But the Gemini is just so sweet and would do anything for me idk what to do the Aries and I haven't spoke since Friday when I basically said I'll be here when you want to treat me the way you want to be treated.. Not even a message on V day.. What should I do.? Pursue the one I want just to keep becoming disappointed or just try with the Gemini that would do anything for me but am not that into as of now....

I swear virgos are the source of their own problems.

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Wow...this is funny. Didn't you post just the other day about how you're insecurities were affecting your relationship with the Aries man? Yet YOU'RE the one who's got the wandering eyes. They say that when people are constantly accusing you of cheating it's usually them who are guilty of it. You're pretty much proving that right now....Anyway, I say let the Aries go and go fulfill your wandering eye. If you really cared about him or loved him this wouldn't even be an issue. Let him go so he can find a woman who doesn't struggle with being faithful.

The thing is I'm not even into the Gemini I just know he would do all he could to make me happy- he can tolerate my craziness cuz he's crazy too lol

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
So, you're upset and pissed off because you're long distance relationship with the Aries and insecure, hoping he's true to his word, all the while you're thinking about a Gemini?

You should only be disappointed in yourself.

I'm not even into the Gemini he's nice that's it I am not attracted to him though.. I just feel we are more compatible: please no judging really I just came here for advice

Well I think the Aries is done anyways