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I can't tell if this woman likes me or if she's just being nice she works at a store that I go to. And it seems like she's always flirting with me but I can't really tell if it's just her being nice.

It started when she told me she liked my smile I didn't really pay any attention to it. But then I noticed that every time she saw me she would be so excited. I overheard her tell other employees how she thought I was cute and that seeing her makes her happy.

Every time I see her she calls me pet names like Hunny bun and boo:unsure:. So yesterday I went to the store and we talked a little. She asked me if I had any kids and asked me how old I was. I told her that I liked her personality and that I wanted to be friends and I gave her my number.





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Posted by Undine

If you can't tell, who can?

As for your synastry, the nice contacts are Moon-Jupiter and Venus-Moon. They are true ONLY if you have an accurate time of birth!

The rest is pretty meh...little contact between personal planets, with two squares (sun-Venus, Mars-sun) and the Venus-Moon conjunction mentioned above (if true).

Pluto square Venus is unpleasant.


We also have Mercury trine Mercury, Venus trine Venus. Her Mercury and Mars also conjuncts my Ascendant.
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If you can't tell, who can?

Some women are just overly friendly.
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I know some people are just really friendly but when she started calling me Hunny Bun and Boo. I started thinking like what's going on? And then she's saying how much she likes my smile and telling other people. But maybe I'm just reading too much into it. I don't know but I do like her personality and want to be friends.
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Posted by saggurl88

You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

I think she's nice and I want to be friends with her I don't want to date her. We don't work together I'm just a customer who comes to the store to shop. I usually just smile and don't say anything but I decided to actually talk.
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If you can't tell, who can?

As for your synastry, the nice contacts are Moon-Jupiter and Venus-Moon. They are true ONLY if you have an accurate time of birth!

The rest is pretty meh...little contact between personal planets, with two squares (sun-Venus, Mars-sun) and the Venus-Moon conjunction mentioned above (if true).

Pluto square Venus is unpleasant.

We also have Mercury trine Mercury, Venus trine Venus. Her Mercury and Mars also conjuncts my Ascendant.
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Not on that chart, so trines out of orb.

"Her Mercury and Mars also conjuncts my Ascendant".....maybe she feels like chatting energetically with your "superficial" self and that's all about it? 😄
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If you can't tell, who can?

As for your synastry, the nice contacts are Moon-Jupiter and Venus-Moon. They are true ONLY if you have an accurate time of birth!

The rest is pretty meh...little contact between personal planets, with two squares (sun-Venus, Mars-sun) and the Venus-Moon conjunction mentioned above (if true).

Pluto square Venus is unpleasant.

We also have Mercury trine Mercury, Venus trine Venus. Her Mercury and Mars also conjuncts my Ascendant.

Not on that chart, so trines out of orb.

"Her Mercury and Mars also conjuncts my Ascendant".....maybe she feels like chatting energetically with your "superficial" self and that's all about it? 😄
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Both trines are a 5-degree orb so it's not an out of degree orb. And I'm not superficial at all you are obviously just a troll. Bye
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If you can't tell, who can?

As for your synastry, the nice contacts are Moon-Jupiter and Venus-Moon. They are true ONLY if you have an accurate time of birth!

The rest is pretty meh...little contact between personal planets, with two squares (sun-Venus, Mars-sun) and the Venus-Moon conjunction mentioned above (if true).

Pluto square Venus is unpleasant.

We also have Mercury trine Mercury, Venus trine Venus. Her Mercury and Mars also conjuncts my Ascendant.

Not on that chart, so trines out of orb.

"Her Mercury and Mars also conjuncts my Ascendant".....maybe she feels like chatting energetically with your "superficial" self and that's all about it? 😄

Both trines are a 5-degree orb so it's not an out of degree orb. And I'm not superficial at all you are obviously just a troll. Bye
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They are not on your synastry chart. Your rising is your superficial self aka the first impressions you are making on others, "troll"
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No. Just go with that.

Go with what?

That she is not interested in you.

Odd, the way she flirts with me makes it seem like it.

Make her come out and say it then. Otherwise, treat it and her as if she is not interested.
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Yeah, I'm just going to ask her if she's into women.
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No. Just go with that.

Go with what?

That she is not interested in you.

Odd, the way she flirts with me makes it seem like it.

Make her come out and say it then. Otherwise, treat it and her as if she is not interested.

Yeah, I'm just going to ask her if she's into women.
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I'm not sure why you're really concerned? Are you into women and just need approval or something? Just Go for it if your curious.
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No. Just go with that.

Go with what?

That she is not interested in you.

Odd, the way she flirts with me makes it seem like it.

Make her come out and say it then. Otherwise, treat it and her as if she is not interested.

Yeah, I'm just going to ask her if she's into women.

I'm not sure why you're really concerned? Are you into women and just need approval or something? Just Go for it if your curious.
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I have never been in a relationship with a woman and generally, I'm not romantically or physically attracted to them. There has only been one woman that I've ever been attracted to but I didn't want to date her. With this woman, I do think she's pretty and I like her personality. But I wouldn't want to have a relationship with her I'd experiment with her.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣
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Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.
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It's a grocery store I'm just going to ask her if she's attracted to women.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

It's a grocery store I'm just going to ask her if she's attracted to women.
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Why though? You can just make friendly conversation like she's doing.

It's a grocery store. Most people are friendly at checkout. She may just see you a lot there and wonder if you live in the area. This is common at a grocery store.

I learned some sign language and always go into a deaf checkers lane, so I can be friendly and chat with her because of how I've seen people act towards her.

Ask her the same questions if you want to be friendly back. She might just want to make a new friend. The liking girls thing will come out later.

If you don't want to be friends, then keep the chat surface level.
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No. Just go with that.

Go with what?

That she is not interested in you.

Odd, the way she flirts with me makes it seem like it.

Make her come out and say it then. Otherwise, treat it and her as if she is not interested.

Yeah, I'm just going to ask her if she's into women.

I'm not sure why you're really concerned? Are you into women and just need approval or something? Just Go for it if your curious.

I have never been in a relationship with a woman and generally, I'm not romantically or physically attracted to them. There has only been one woman that I've ever been attracted to but I didn't want to date her. With this woman, I do think she's pretty and I like her personality. But I wouldn't want to have a relationship with her I'd experiment with her.
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then tell her that just like you told me 😉 no biggie
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

It's a grocery store I'm just going to ask her if she's attracted to women.

Why though? You can just make friendly conversation like she's doing.

It's a grocery store. Most people are friendly at checkout. She may just see you a lot there and wonder if you live in the area. This is common at a grocery store.

I learned some sign language and always go into a deaf checkers lane, so I can be friendly and chat with her because of how I've seen people act towards her.

Ask her the same questions if you want to be friendly back. She might just want to make a new friend. The liking girls thing will come out later.

If you don't want to be friends, then keep the chat surface level.
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Honestly, I've never had a woman call me pet names and be nice to me like she's doing. And yes you are right most people are friendly at check out.

I do want to be friends with her and that's what I said hence the reason why I gave her my number. I'll ask her questions though when I see her I'm not usually friendly but I'm trying. I did ask her where she lived and she told me she's trying to move and I told her I stayed close by. I'll just keep being friendly and see where things go I just like her vibe and she makes me feel good.
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No. Just go with that.

Go with what?

That she is not interested in you.

Odd, the way she flirts with me makes it seem like it.

Make her come out and say it then. Otherwise, treat it and her as if she is not interested.

Yeah, I'm just going to ask her if she's into women.

I'm not sure why you're really concerned? Are you into women and just need approval or something? Just Go for it if your curious.

I have never been in a relationship with a woman and generally, I'm not romantically or physically attracted to them. There has only been one woman that I've ever been attracted to but I didn't want to date her. With this woman, I do think she's pretty and I like her personality. But I wouldn't want to have a relationship with her I'd experiment with her.

then tell her that just like you told me 😉 no biggie
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Tell her I want to experiment with her? Lol yeah nobody does that.
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oh you just want to experiment ?

No problem

Next time she comes in the store just tell her jokingly

“Hey I get a feeling you think I’m cuteee , we can meet after I’m done here for drinks if you want “

It’s not technically a rejection if she says no. She’s probably gonna be embarrassed and laugh it off. Or say ok

What’s the worst that can happen ?

The next time she comes in store she’ll curve your aisle ., less work to do. Win win .


She works at the store and I'm the customer. So you mean the next time I go to the store? Ok.
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oh you just want to experiment ?

No problem

Next time she comes in the store just tell her jokingly

“Hey I get a feeling you think I’m cuteee , we can meet after I’m done here for drinks if you want “

It’s not technically a rejection if she says no. She’s probably gonna be embarrassed and laugh it off. Or say ok

What’s the worst that can happen ?

The next time she comes in store she’ll curve your aisle ., less work to do. Win win .

She works at the store and I'm the customer. So you mean the next time I go to the store? Ok.

yes and in that case it’s even easier to curve her if it gets awkward lmao
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I don't know why I can't just ask her if she's into women lol.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

It's a grocery store I'm just going to ask her if she's attracted to women.

Why though? You can just make friendly conversation like she's doing.

It's a grocery store. Most people are friendly at checkout. She may just see you a lot there and wonder if you live in the area. This is common at a grocery store.

I learned some sign language and always go into a deaf checkers lane, so I can be friendly and chat with her because of how I've seen people act towards her.

Ask her the same questions if you want to be friendly back. She might just want to make a new friend. The liking girls thing will come out later.

If you don't want to be friends, then keep the chat surface level.

Honestly, I've never had a woman call me pet names and be nice to me like she's doing. And yes you are right most people are friendly at check out.

I do want to be friends with her and that's what I said hence the reason why I gave her my number. I'll ask her questions though when I see her I'm not usually friendly but I'm trying. I did ask her where she lived and she told me she's trying to move and I told her I stayed close by. I'll just keep being friendly and see where things go I just like her vibe and she makes me feel good.
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Well at least you will make a new friend. I don't think you should assume much, if you aren't a lesbian yourself. When I read the initial post, I thought you were into girls. But it's iffy to wonder this type of thing if you aren't even attracted to them or have had experiences with them.

Then it doesn't matter much.

Pet names don't mean a lot when they come from a stranger. It's just a way of them showing you how nice or sweet they think you are.

You'll find out if she calls.
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oh you just want to experiment ?

No problem

Next time she comes in the store just tell her jokingly

“Hey I get a feeling you think I’m cuteee , we can meet after I’m done here for drinks if you want “

It’s not technically a rejection if she says no. She’s probably gonna be embarrassed and laugh it off. Or say ok

What’s the worst that can happen ?

The next time she comes in store she’ll curve your aisle ., less work to do. Win win .

She works at the store and I'm the customer. So you mean the next time I go to the store? Ok.

yes and in that case it’s even easier to curve her if it gets awkward lmao

I don't know why I can't just ask her if she's into women lol.

I know I’m wondering same .

Just ask her.

I would
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I am when I go to the store next week.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

Hahahhahaa i think she assumed things when you said you only date women 🤣🤣🤣

But thats the thing though, I have few shops and I'd visit them at least once a week. And these are the things I do 😅 I would even sit at their tables sometimes. I have their numbers and i've hung out with them too 😅

I think OP is mistaking customer relationship management with a sign of interest?

If that lady in her grocery store is in my area, i would definitely hire her 🤣🤣
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That's why I had to ask and let her know I did that because I was trying to get the guy to leave me alone.

I felt bad about it though, cause I didn't know she was into girls, since we were talking about guys.

She stopped contacting me and sending pics after that convo 😆

I shy away from women who talk to me and get my number. It's always weird to me. But I'm an introvert, so it's different. I have like 3 friends. Hahaha.

I think the same way with anyone who has great customer service, that the company is lucky to have them. It does seem to be great customer service.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

Hahahhahaa i think she assumed things when you said you only date women 🤣🤣🤣

But thats the thing though, I have few shops and I'd visit them at least once a week. And these are the things I do 😅 I would even sit at their tables sometimes. I have their numbers and i've hung out with them too 😅

I think OP is mistaking customer relationship management with a sign of interest?

If that lady in her grocery store is in my area, i would definitely hire her 🤣🤣

That's why I had to ask and let her know I did that because I was trying to get the guy to leave me alone.

I felt bad about it though, cause I didn't know she was into girls, since we were talking about guys.

She stopped contacting me and sending pics after that convo 😆

I shy away from women who talk to me and get my number. It's always weird to me. But I'm an introvert, so it's different. I have like 3 friends. Hahaha.

I think the same way with anyone who has great customer service, that the company is lucky to have them. It does seem to be great customer service.

She mustve been extremely embarassed after sending you those pics tho 😅 All those for nothing lmao 😄

I'm an introvert too.. sometimes. If I am super social today, tomorrow i'll be drained and just stay at home doing my other work 🤣
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I know. I was embarrassed for bringing it up. But I was tired of seeing her ass shaking pics and bras and underwear, and she is younger then me. I felt like I was a pedophile lol

I thought it would stop with my shitty comments on the pics. Lot's of lol's 😆

She didn't get the hint and just kept sending them, so I had to say something.
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oh you just want to experiment ?

No problem

Next time she comes in the store just tell her jokingly

“Hey I get a feeling you think I’m cuteee , we can meet after I’m done here for drinks if you want “

It’s not technically a rejection if she says no. She’s probably gonna be embarrassed and laugh it off. Or say ok

What’s the worst that can happen ?

The next time she comes in store she’ll curve your aisle ., less work to do. Win win .

She works at the store and I'm the customer. So you mean the next time I go to the store? Ok.

yes and in that case it’s even easier to curve her if it gets awkward lmao

I don't know why I can't just ask her if she's into women lol.

I know I’m wondering same .

Just ask her.

I would

I am when I go to the store next week.
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I don't understand why you would ask her that if you haven't been with women either. What is the point in it?

It's an odd conversation to have and may come off the wrong way, if she is just friendly.

Are you going to admit that you were trying to see if she wanted to experiment, if she says she's straight?

If you're already a lesbian, then I could see you're interest. But you can't tell with her and you're willing to risk coming on to her?

Are you actually serious about the sexual aspect of it? If not, it's a weird way to approach a friend. This will make it seem like you're attracted to her and are a lesbian, not like you just wanted to know.
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oh you just want to experiment ?

No problem

Next time she comes in the store just tell her jokingly

“Hey I get a feeling you think I’m cuteee , we can meet after I’m done here for drinks if you want “

It’s not technically a rejection if she says no. She’s probably gonna be embarrassed and laugh it off. Or say ok

What’s the worst that can happen ?

The next time she comes in store she’ll curve your aisle ., less work to do. Win win .

She works at the store and I'm the customer. So you mean the next time I go to the store? Ok.

yes and in that case it’s even easier to curve her if it gets awkward lmao

I don't know why I can't just ask her if she's into women lol.

I know I’m wondering same .

Just ask her.

I would

I am when I go to the store next week.

I don't understand why you would ask her that if you haven't been with women either. What is the point in it?

It's an odd conversation to have and may come off the wrong way, if she is just friendly.

Are you going to admit that you were trying to see if she wanted to experiment, if she says she's straight?

If you're already a lesbian, then I could see you're interest. But you can't tell with her and you're willing to risk coming on to her?

Are you actually serious about the sexual aspect of it? If not, it's a weird way to approach a friend. This will make it seem like you're attracted to her and are a lesbian, not like you just wanted to know.
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Yes, I'm serious about the sexual aspect of it that's not a lie. If she says she's straight I'll tell her that I think she's attractive and that I wanted to experiment. I've always found her physically attractive ever since the first time I saw her.
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oh you just want to experiment ?

No problem

Next time she comes in the store just tell her jokingly

“Hey I get a feeling you think I’m cuteee , we can meet after I’m done here for drinks if you want “

It’s not technically a rejection if she says no. She’s probably gonna be embarrassed and laugh it off. Or say ok

What’s the worst that can happen ?

The next time she comes in store she’ll curve your aisle ., less work to do. Win win .

She works at the store and I'm the customer. So you mean the next time I go to the store? Ok.

yes and in that case it’s even easier to curve her if it gets awkward lmao

I don't know why I can't just ask her if she's into women lol.

I know I’m wondering same .

Just ask her.

I would

I am when I go to the store next week.

I don't understand why you would ask her that if you haven't been with women either. What is the point in it?

It's an odd conversation to have and may come off the wrong way, if she is just friendly.

Are you going to admit that you were trying to see if she wanted to experiment, if she says she's straight?

If you're already a lesbian, then I could see you're interest. But you can't tell with her and you're willing to risk coming on to her?

Are you actually serious about the sexual aspect of it? If not, it's a weird way to approach a friend. This will make it seem like you're attracted to her and are a lesbian, not like you just wanted to know.

Yes, I'm serious about the sexual aspect of it that's not a lie. If she says she's straight I'll tell her that I think she's attractive and that I wanted to experiment. I've always found her physically attractive ever since the first time I saw her.
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Oh ok, as long as you know what you want. Hopefully it goes well and she's feeling you the same way you're feeling her.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

Hahahhahaa i think she assumed things when you said you only date women 🤣🤣🤣

But thats the thing though, I have few shops and I'd visit them at least once a week. And these are the things I do 😅 I would even sit at their tables sometimes. I have their numbers and i've hung out with them too 😅

I think OP is mistaking customer relationship management with a sign of interest?

If that lady in her grocery store is in my area, i would definitely hire her 🤣🤣

That's why I had to ask and let her know I did that because I was trying to get the guy to leave me alone.

I felt bad about it though, cause I didn't know she was into girls, since we were talking about guys.

She stopped contacting me and sending pics after that convo 😆

I shy away from women who talk to me and get my number. It's always weird to me. But I'm an introvert, so it's different. I have like 3 friends. Hahaha.

I think the same way with anyone who has great customer service, that the company is lucky to have them. It does seem to be great customer service.

She mustve been extremely embarassed after sending you those pics tho 😅 All those for nothing lmao 😄

I'm an introvert too.. sometimes. If I am super social today, tomorrow i'll be drained and just stay at home doing my other work 🤣

I know. I was embarrassed for bringing it up. But I was tired of seeing her ass shaking pics and bras and underwear, and she is younger then me. I felt like I was a pedophile lol

I thought it would stop with my shitty comments on the pics. Lot's of lol's 😆

She didn't get the hint and just kept sending them, so I had to say something.

HAHAHHAA 🤣 That's awkward 🤣🤣

You're so nice though!! You didnt want to hurt her feelings.

I wouldve responded with "err.. wtf? You're ruining my eyes" from the very beginning 🤣🤣
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Hahahahaha! I could never lol I knew she would be embarrassed, I hate that feeling, so I try not to do it to others. That is a funny ass response though! 😆 The pic confused me at first and I thought it was an accident lol
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I honestly dont know how you call this flirting. I do this a lot to my female customers 🤷‍♀️

What do you consider flirting?

She told me she's only excited when she sees me and that seeing me makes her day. And then I heard her telling everyone how she thought I was so cute If that's not flirting then what is?

How did you find out her birthday to run her chart? Did it come up in conversation?
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She told me she was a Virgo and yesterday she told me her age and where she lived. I looked her up on google that's how I found her birthday.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

Hahahhahaa i think she assumed things when you said you only date women 🤣🤣🤣

But thats the thing though, I have few shops and I'd visit them at least once a week. And these are the things I do 😅 I would even sit at their tables sometimes. I have their numbers and i've hung out with them too 😅

I think OP is mistaking customer relationship management with a sign of interest?

If that lady in her grocery store is in my area, i would definitely hire her 🤣🤣

That's why I had to ask and let her know I did that because I was trying to get the guy to leave me alone.

I felt bad about it though, cause I didn't know she was into girls, since we were talking about guys.

She stopped contacting me and sending pics after that convo 😆

I shy away from women who talk to me and get my number. It's always weird to me. But I'm an introvert, so it's different. I have like 3 friends. Hahaha.

I think the same way with anyone who has great customer service, that the company is lucky to have them. It does seem to be great customer service.

She mustve been extremely embarassed after sending you those pics tho 😅 All those for nothing lmao 😄

I'm an introvert too.. sometimes. If I am super social today, tomorrow i'll be drained and just stay at home doing my other work 🤣

I know. I was embarrassed for bringing it up. But I was tired of seeing her ass shaking pics and bras and underwear, and she is younger then me. I felt like I was a pedophile lol

I thought it would stop with my shitty comments on the pics. Lot's of lol's 😆

She didn't get the hint and just kept sending them, so I had to say something.

HAHAHHAA 🤣 That's awkward 🤣🤣

You're so nice though!! You didnt want to hurt her feelings.

I wouldve responded with "err.. wtf? You're ruining my eyes" from the very beginning 🤣🤣

Hahahahaha! I could never lol I knew she would be embarrassed, I hate that feeling, so I try not to do it to others. That is a funny ass response though! 😆 The pic confused me at first and I thought it was an accident lol

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#CancerMoon problems. 👰‍♀️
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I honestly dont know how you call this flirting. I do this a lot to my female customers 🤷‍♀️

What do you consider flirting?

She told me she's only excited when she sees me and that seeing me makes her day. And then I heard her telling everyone how she thought I was so cute If that's not flirting then what is?

if it turns out that she’s not flirting then she’s a dick. Because to me all this sounds mega inappropriate to be saying to a customer. Hence I initially thought she was the customer .

Is she on commission?

Regardless . I’d find out what her deal is w/o being full on

It’s better to ask than to assume shit and end up putting your foot in your mouth by doing/saying something inappropriate.

If she was doing that to me as a customer when I go in the shop right before I leave I’ll pull her aside and be like so are you into girls? Point blank. If she’s shocked I’d say well I’m shocked your shocked cos I thought you were flirting with me. That’ll teach her boundaries.
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I'm not sure if she's on commission or not. But I noticed this guy gave her a tip. She works as a chef in the cafe department. I told her I didn't know she could get tips. And she said people tip her every so often she told me she's trying to move. And that she has to pay for a lot of stuff. I'm going to tip her the next time I go since she made me a good vegan burger lol. You are right though I'm going to ask so I can stop thinking about it. I don't think she'll get upset she seems ok with sharing things with me.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

Hahahhahaa i think she assumed things when you said you only date women 🤣🤣🤣

But thats the thing though, I have few shops and I'd visit them at least once a week. And these are the things I do 😅 I would even sit at their tables sometimes. I have their numbers and i've hung out with them too 😅

I think OP is mistaking customer relationship management with a sign of interest?

If that lady in her grocery store is in my area, i would definitely hire her 🤣🤣

That's why I had to ask and let her know I did that because I was trying to get the guy to leave me alone.

I felt bad about it though, cause I didn't know she was into girls, since we were talking about guys.

She stopped contacting me and sending pics after that convo 😆

I shy away from women who talk to me and get my number. It's always weird to me. But I'm an introvert, so it's different. I have like 3 friends. Hahaha.

I think the same way with anyone who has great customer service, that the company is lucky to have them. It does seem to be great customer service.

She mustve been extremely embarassed after sending you those pics tho 😅 All those for nothing lmao 😄

I'm an introvert too.. sometimes. If I am super social today, tomorrow i'll be drained and just stay at home doing my other work 🤣

I know. I was embarrassed for bringing it up. But I was tired of seeing her ass shaking pics and bras and underwear, and she is younger then me. I felt like I was a pedophile lol

I thought it would stop with my shitty comments on the pics. Lot's of lol's 😆

She didn't get the hint and just kept sending them, so I had to say something.

HAHAHHAA 🤣 That's awkward 🤣🤣

You're so nice though!! You didnt want to hurt her feelings.

I wouldve responded with "err.. wtf? You're ruining my eyes" from the very beginning 🤣🤣

Hahahahaha! I could never lol I knew she would be embarrassed, I hate that feeling, so I try not to do it to others. That is a funny ass response though! 😆 The pic confused me at first and I thought it was an accident lol

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Are you just being nice or are you hitting on me? Cause I think I’m falling in love 🥰 😝

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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

Hahahhahaa i think she assumed things when you said you only date women 🤣🤣🤣

But thats the thing though, I have few shops and I'd visit them at least once a week. And these are the things I do 😅 I would even sit at their tables sometimes. I have their numbers and i've hung out with them too 😅

I think OP is mistaking customer relationship management with a sign of interest?

If that lady in her grocery store is in my area, i would definitely hire her 🤣🤣

That's why I had to ask and let her know I did that because I was trying to get the guy to leave me alone.

I felt bad about it though, cause I didn't know she was into girls, since we were talking about guys.

She stopped contacting me and sending pics after that convo 😆

I shy away from women who talk to me and get my number. It's always weird to me. But I'm an introvert, so it's different. I have like 3 friends. Hahaha.

I think the same way with anyone who has great customer service, that the company is lucky to have them. It does seem to be great customer service.

She mustve been extremely embarassed after sending you those pics tho 😅 All those for nothing lmao 😄

I'm an introvert too.. sometimes. If I am super social today, tomorrow i'll be drained and just stay at home doing my other work 🤣

I know. I was embarrassed for bringing it up. But I was tired of seeing her ass shaking pics and bras and underwear, and she is younger then me. I felt like I was a pedophile lol

I thought it would stop with my shitty comments on the pics. Lot's of lol's 😆

She didn't get the hint and just kept sending them, so I had to say something.

HAHAHHAA 🤣 That's awkward 🤣🤣

You're so nice though!! You didnt want to hurt her feelings.

I wouldve responded with "err.. wtf? You're ruining my eyes" from the very beginning 🤣🤣

Hahahahaha! I could never lol I knew she would be embarrassed, I hate that feeling, so I try not to do it to others. That is a funny ass response though! 😆 The pic confused me at first and I thought it was an accident lol

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Are you just being nice or are you hitting on me? Cause I think I’m falling in love 🥰 😝

#CancerMoon problems. 👰‍♀️

I'm an Aquarius Moon lol.
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Lol. I was just playing with her but as you can see it’s pretty easy to joke around like this. 😋

I’m sure you’ll have you’re answer soon enough, if you two hang out.
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I honestly dont know how you call this flirting. I do this a lot to my female customers 🤷‍♀️

What do you consider flirting?

She told me she's only excited when she sees me and that seeing me makes her day. And then I heard her telling everyone how she thought I was so cute If that's not flirting then what is?

if it turns out that she’s not flirting then she’s a dick. Because to me all this sounds mega inappropriate to be saying to a customer. Hence I initially thought she was the customer .

Is she on commission?

Regardless . I’d find out what her deal is w/o being full on

It’s better to ask than to assume shit and end up putting your foot in your mouth by doing/saying something inappropriate.

If she was doing that to me as a customer when I go in the shop right before I leave I’ll pull her aside and be like so are you into girls? Point blank. If she’s shocked I’d say well I’m shocked your shocked cos I thought you were flirting with me. That’ll teach her boundaries.

I'm not sure if she's on commission or not. But I noticed this guy gave her a tip. She works as a chef in the cafe department. I told her I didn't know she could get tips. And she said people tip her every so often she told me she's trying to move. And that she has to pay for a lot of stuff. I'm going to tip her the next time I go since she made me a good vegan burger lol. You are right though I'm going to ask so I can stop thinking about it. I don't think she'll get upset she seems ok with sharing things with me.

Yes tip her and slip her a note with it saying I.O.U

when she asks what it’s for say “I.O.U a shag for that delicious burger “. That should do it
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I see I need to meet an Aqua moon! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I honestly dont know how you call this flirting. I do this a lot to my female customers 🤷‍♀️

What do you consider flirting?

She told me she's only excited when she sees me and that seeing me makes her day. And then I heard her telling everyone how she thought I was so cute If that's not flirting then what is?

if it turns out that she’s not flirting then she’s a dick. Because to me all this sounds mega inappropriate to be saying to a customer. Hence I initially thought she was the customer .

Is she on commission?

Regardless . I’d find out what her deal is w/o being full on

It’s better to ask than to assume shit and end up putting your foot in your mouth by doing/saying something inappropriate.

If she was doing that to me as a customer when I go in the shop right before I leave I’ll pull her aside and be like so are you into girls? Point blank. If she’s shocked I’d say well I’m shocked your shocked cos I thought you were flirting with me. That’ll teach her boundaries.

I'm not sure if she's on commission or not. But I noticed this guy gave her a tip. She works as a chef in the cafe department. I told her I didn't know she could get tips. And she said people tip her every so often she told me she's trying to move. And that she has to pay for a lot of stuff. I'm going to tip her the next time I go since she made me a good vegan burger lol. You are right though I'm going to ask so I can stop thinking about it. I don't think she'll get upset she seems ok with sharing things with me.

Yes tip her and slip her a note with it saying I.O.U

when she asks what it’s for say “I.O.U a shag for that delicious burger “. That should do it

I see I need to meet an Aqua moon! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

lmaooo u really do

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I didn’t know Aquarius moons were this forward.

I don’t think I’ve ever dated one. It would be refreshing to be able to talk to someone as direct as I am.
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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

Hahahhahaa i think she assumed things when you said you only date women 🤣🤣🤣

But thats the thing though, I have few shops and I'd visit them at least once a week. And these are the things I do 😅 I would even sit at their tables sometimes. I have their numbers and i've hung out with them too 😅

I think OP is mistaking customer relationship management with a sign of interest?

If that lady in her grocery store is in my area, i would definitely hire her 🤣🤣

That's why I had to ask and let her know I did that because I was trying to get the guy to leave me alone.

I felt bad about it though, cause I didn't know she was into girls, since we were talking about guys.

She stopped contacting me and sending pics after that convo 😆

I shy away from women who talk to me and get my number. It's always weird to me. But I'm an introvert, so it's different. I have like 3 friends. Hahaha.

I think the same way with anyone who has great customer service, that the company is lucky to have them. It does seem to be great customer service.

She mustve been extremely embarassed after sending you those pics tho 😅 All those for nothing lmao 😄

I'm an introvert too.. sometimes. If I am super social today, tomorrow i'll be drained and just stay at home doing my other work 🤣

I know. I was embarrassed for bringing it up. But I was tired of seeing her ass shaking pics and bras and underwear, and she is younger then me. I felt like I was a pedophile lol

I thought it would stop with my shitty comments on the pics. Lot's of lol's 😆

She didn't get the hint and just kept sending them, so I had to say something.

HAHAHHAA 🤣 That's awkward 🤣🤣

You're so nice though!! You didnt want to hurt her feelings.

I wouldve responded with "err.. wtf? You're ruining my eyes" from the very beginning 🤣🤣

Hahahahaha! I could never lol I knew she would be embarrassed, I hate that feeling, so I try not to do it to others. That is a funny ass response though! 😆 The pic confused me at first and I thought it was an accident lol

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Are you just being nice or are you hitting on me? Cause I think I’m falling in love 🥰 😝

#CancerMoon problems. 👰‍♀️

Awww you're making me shy 🙈

I dont know, i'm not sure.. im scared of you now.

Are you nice with everyone or just me? I need to feel special here.. 🤪😘validate me please

Do you have unhealed wounds? Who hurt you?

Oh poor thing.. I think i can heal you..

#theRealCancerMoonProblems 🤣🤣
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Hahahaha. OMG!!! Not the validate me! Lol yes and make me a priority at all costs!!!

Better act like you’ve never met anyone better, my ego is watching 👁 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Just terrible lol.

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You wanted to be "friends"?

Are you trying to make friends or are you looking for a love interest?

Any women asking about your personal life outside of work, when you are a customer, is asking for a reason.

She seems interested in you.

Uhmm i do this a lot to women lol. Have I been sending a wrong signal? 🤣 Doesnt mean i'm interested. I just like to talk? 🤷‍♀️🤣

Well that's why I asked if it's supposed to be in a romantic way.

I accepted a girls friendship and she kept sending me half naked selfies.

I met her at a lounge and I just happened to be lying to a guy in front of her, cause he wouldn't leave me alone and I said I dated women only.

We had been talking about guys we date and dating apps when we first met. I had no clue she thought I liked girls. I forgot I even said that, until I asked her why she kept sending these types of pics 🥴

But this is a store, and I'm assuming the store isn't selling kids clothes.

The OP should ask or clarify, even going out 1 time can clear things up.

Hahahhahaa i think she assumed things when you said you only date women 🤣🤣🤣

But thats the thing though, I have few shops and I'd visit them at least once a week. And these are the things I do 😅 I would even sit at their tables sometimes. I have their numbers and i've hung out with them too 😅

I think OP is mistaking customer relationship management with a sign of interest?

If that lady in her grocery store is in my area, i would definitely hire her 🤣🤣

That's why I had to ask and let her know I did that because I was trying to get the guy to leave me alone.

I felt bad about it though, cause I didn't know she was into girls, since we were talking about guys.

She stopped contacting me and sending pics after that convo 😆

I shy away from women who talk to me and get my number. It's always weird to me. But I'm an introvert, so it's different. I have like 3 friends. Hahaha.

I think the same way with anyone who has great customer service, that the company is lucky to have them. It does seem to be great customer service.

She mustve been extremely embarassed after sending you those pics tho 😅 All those for nothing lmao 😄

I'm an introvert too.. sometimes. If I am super social today, tomorrow i'll be drained and just stay at home doing my other work 🤣

I know. I was embarrassed for bringing it up. But I was tired of seeing her ass shaking pics and bras and underwear, and she is younger then me. I felt like I was a pedophile lol

I thought it would stop with my shitty comments on the pics. Lot's of lol's 😆

She didn't get the hint and just kept sending them, so I had to say something.

HAHAHHAA 🤣 That's awkward 🤣🤣

You're so nice though!! You didnt want to hurt her feelings.

I wouldve responded with "err.. wtf? You're ruining my eyes" from the very beginning 🤣🤣

Hahahahaha! I could never lol I knew she would be embarrassed, I hate that feeling, so I try not to do it to others. That is a funny ass response though! 😆 The pic confused me at first and I thought it was an accident lol

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🤣

Are you just being nice or are you hitting on me? Cause I think I’m falling in love 🥰 😝

#CancerMoon problems. 👰‍♀️

Awww you're making me shy 🙈

I dont know, i'm not sure.. im scared of you now.

Are you nice with everyone or just me? I need to feel special here.. 🤪😘validate me please

Do you have unhealed wounds? Who hurt you?

Oh poor thing.. I think i can heal you..

#theRealCancerMoonProblems 🤣🤣

Hahahaha. OMG!!! Not the validate me! Lol yes and make me a priority at all costs!!!

Better act like you’ve never met anyone better, my ego is watching 👁 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Just terrible lol.

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Us Sag are always the one that got away or the ones they regret later when they see how normal we are lol
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I can't tell if this woman likes me or if she's just being nice she works at a store that I go to. And it seems like she's always flirting with me but I can't really tell if it's just her being nice.

It started when she told me she liked my smile I didn't really pay any attention to it. But then I noticed that every time she saw me she would be so excited. I overheard her tell other employees how she thought I was cute and that seeing her makes her happy.

Every time I see her she calls me pet names like Hunny bun and boo:unsure:. So yesterday I went to the store and we talked a little. She asked me if I had any kids and asked me how old I was. I told her that I liked her personality and that I wanted to be friends and I gave her my number.





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I really can’t say. What she has said is pretty common to say on friendly terms between women... the way I can usually tell is by THE WAY it is said rather than what is said. It’s a strong vibe that feels completely different than just being friendly.... the stare is different too. Women that are interested look at you like a wolf ready to eat you. SUPER OBVIOUS.

She sounds forward. I don’t think you need to know or take action. You’ll find out soon enough by her directly... pretty sure of it.
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I can't tell if this woman likes me or if she's just being nice she works at a store that I go to. And it seems like she's always flirting with me but I can't really tell if it's just her being nice.

It started when she told me she liked my smile I didn't really pay any attention to it. But then I noticed that every time she saw me she would be so excited. I overheard her tell other employees how she thought I was cute and that seeing her makes her happy.

Every time I see her she calls me pet names like Hunny bun and boo:unsure:. So yesterday I went to the store and we talked a little. She asked me if I had any kids and asked me how old I was. I told her that I liked her personality and that I wanted to be friends and I gave her my number.





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I really can’t say. What she has said is pretty common to say on friendly terms between women... the way I can usually tell is by THE WAY it is said rather than what is said. It’s a strong vibe that feels completely different than just being friendly.... the stare is different too. Women that are interested look at you like a wolf ready to eat you. SUPER OBVIOUS.

She sounds forward. I don’t think you need to know or take action. You’ll find out soon enough by her directly... pretty sure of it.

Venus in the 12th house synastry usually indicates that the Venus person is secretly attracted to the house person.

12th house is a tricky house. Please experience some transit there first. There can be disillusionment and confusion tied to that house.
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Everything I've ever read or watched about this placement. Says that the Venus person usually likes the house person. But the house person doesn't realize it.
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I can't tell if this woman likes me or if she's just being nice she works at a store that I go to. And it seems like she's always flirting with me but I can't really tell if it's just her being nice.

It started when she told me she liked my smile I didn't really pay any attention to it. But then I noticed that every time she saw me she would be so excited. I overheard her tell other employees how she thought I was cute and that seeing her makes her happy.

Every time I see her she calls me pet names like Hunny bun and boo:unsure:. So yesterday I went to the store and we talked a little. She asked me if I had any kids and asked me how old I was. I told her that I liked her personality and that I wanted to be friends and I gave her my number.





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I really can’t say. What she has said is pretty common to say on friendly terms between women... the way I can usually tell is by THE WAY it is said rather than what is said. It’s a strong vibe that feels completely different than just being friendly.... the stare is different too. Women that are interested look at you like a wolf ready to eat you. SUPER OBVIOUS.

She sounds forward. I don’t think you need to know or take action. You’ll find out soon enough by her directly... pretty sure of it.

Venus in the 12th house synastry usually indicates that the Venus person is secretly attracted to the house person.

12th house is a tricky house. Please experience some transit there first. There can be disillusionment and confusion tied to that house.
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I can't tell if this woman likes me or if she's just being nice she works at a store that I go to. And it seems like she's always flirting with me but I can't really tell if it's just her being nice.

It started when she told me she liked my smile I didn't really pay any attention to it. But then I noticed that every time she saw me she would be so excited. I overheard her tell other employees how she thought I was cute and that seeing her makes her happy.

Every time I see her she calls me pet names like Hunny bun and boo:unsure:. So yesterday I went to the store and we talked a little. She asked me if I had any kids and asked me how old I was. I told her that I liked her personality and that I wanted to be friends and I gave her my number.





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I really can’t say. What she has said is pretty common to say on friendly terms between women... the way I can usually tell is by THE WAY it is said rather than what is said. It’s a strong vibe that feels completely different than just being friendly.... the stare is different too. Women that are interested look at you like a wolf ready to eat you. SUPER OBVIOUS.

She sounds forward. I don’t think you need to know or take action. You’ll find out soon enough by her directly... pretty sure of it.

Venus in the 12th house synastry usually indicates that the Venus person is secretly attracted to the house person.

12th house is a tricky house. Please experience some transit there first. There can be disillusionment and confusion tied to that house.

Everything I've ever read or watched about this placement. Says that the Venus person usually likes the house person. But the house person doesn't realize it.

From Google and YouTube? I would get out of the chart and actually focus on the situation/person at hand. If she is interested, it won’t be just normal woman/woman talk, she will spit it out directly at you.
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I was just posting general information about Venus in the 12th house in synastry, not about this situation.
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