Do harsh aspects between Mars and Venus in synastry signal lack of attraction?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by deckedandecker on Monday, January 18, 2021 and has 6 replies.

Do Harsh Mars and Venus Aspects Signal Lack of Attraction in Synastry

Harsh aspects like Mars square Venus and Mars opposite Venus can indicate tension but do not necessarily mean a lack of attraction. These aspects often suggest passionate but challenging dynamics that can either ignite or hinder romantic connection depending on other factors.

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Not really. The opposite is usually the case. A strong sexual and romantic attraction.

Although in the case that one of the two people involved is definitely NOT the other's type, there can be a strong sense of repulsion.

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Posted by deckedandecker

Likes Mars Square Venus along with Mars opposite Venus

Lack of attraction to what?? Or do you mean appearance wise? I'm not entirely sure what you talking about but my mars and venus clash I suppose, thanks for heavy water placements it's sort of balanced out, can't help being sassy tho 😄 my mouth is my weapon lol

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Posted by deckedandecker

need more help

Harsh=challenge

So it really depends. It would change the nature of the connection without supporting aspects.

If a square then, it would basically mean their wasn't a natural effortless flow there to positively stimulate the other person. On paper, a Venus mars square for instance would mean the way the mars person does things may not be pleasing or understood by the Venus person.

You would need to put in real (conscious) effort into understanding the other person in that aspect Venus represents for them and the mars person as well. Everyone has similarities true but unqiue still. You just have to keep a open mind to learn and understand the other person just like any other healthy relationship.

That is the best I can give you with such poor amount of vague generalized information.

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Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by deckedandecker

need more help

Harsh=challenge

So it really depends. It would change the nature of the connection without supporting aspects.

If a square then, it would basically mean their wasn't a natural effortless flow there to positively stimulate the other person. On paper, a Venus mars square for instance would mean the way the mars person does things may not be pleasing or understood by the Venus person.

You would need to put in real (conscious) effort into understanding the other person in that aspect Venus represents for them and the mars person as well. Everyone has similarities true but unqiue still. You just have to keep a open mind to learn and understand the other person just like any other healthy relationship.

That is the best I can give you with such poor amount of vague generalized information.

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So squares only work when both people want them to?

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Posted by deckedandecker

Posted by Lostthoughts

Posted by deckedandecker

need more help

Harsh=challenge

So it really depends. It would change the nature of the connection without supporting aspects.

If a square then, it would basically mean their wasn't a natural effortless flow there to positively stimulate the other person. On paper, a Venus mars square for instance would mean the way the mars person does things may not be pleasing or understood by the Venus person.

You would need to put in real (conscious) effort into understanding the other person in that aspect Venus represents for them and the mars person as well. Everyone has similarities true but unqiue still. You just have to keep a open mind to learn and understand the other person just like any other healthy relationship.

That is the best I can give you with such poor amount of vague generalized information.

So squares only work when both people want them to?

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can't answer that question. Seems like you are hunting for a piticular response without giving enough info.