Leo woman very fond of a scorpion man.

About two months ago I met a man through an Internet dating site and
him and I spoke on the phone day and night for about two weeks before deciding to meet each other out in public.
When we met we just hit it off - we found that we have a lot in common and our family situations are almost alike.
We have both been hurt from past relationships and we both have moved very fast in the past and we both have the children to prove it.
My friend wants to build something that is based from a friendship first and I respect him for that and for his honesty.
Every time we Are together he tells me that he feels like his search is over with me and take things day by day.
He has all of the qualities I have always wanted in a man. He has Been greatly hurt and I know that I have to be patient and wait for him to be ready on his time. I know that once I gain his trust and heart I will be greatly rewarded for it. He has told me what he wants for the future. It's just hard for me to wait. I don't want to push him or pressure him into something that he Is not ready for.
We have been intimate - we have a strong attraction to each other and it is more than just the physical part but the emotional things as well that makes us that more attracted to each other and the relations we have is out of this world. We have tried not to be together physically because he is concerned that if things don't work out between us which he keeps saying that he thinks things will if I relax and give him time that he doesn't want for me to feel like he used me for sex which I don't feel like that at all- I have no regrets - I just want to know how to wi
and keep his heart forever.

Wow no comments yet? Hopefully over the weekend!

he's telling you that he would like to move slowly...something that's not easy for fire signs. leo falls head over heels quickly and often only to realize that the love they thought they felt was nothing more than lust. he's telling you exactly what you need to do in this situation. take it slow. i mean if it's to last forever, what's the rush?

Thanks but he is confused and is confusing me. I am just going to leave him alone. We talked tonight and he doesn't know what he wants - he says one thing with his mouth but yet he is Afraid of the one thing he wants the most and he is afraid of me and pushs me away.

I am just tired of putting my heart on the line for love and always getting hurt!

Ok this morning I got into a fight with my guy over how he feels or ? Since we met on an Internet web site before me he had met other women who I guess have fallen in love with him or whatever - I tried to explain to him because you say one thing like he has to me I really feel like my search is over etc can give a woman hope for a future - we really had it out and I guess are going to give each other space and time - he called me a slut even though it was out of anger because I told him that him leading women on was wrong and he did say that he was sorry - believe me now that is in my head and it will be s cold very cold day before we sleep together again because that hurt me. I told him that I didn't believe that he wax trying to hurt me maybe push me off of him but that was not the way to do it. Things come out of your mouth that are already In your heart. I also know that he had to have some kind of feelings for me and is scared to death of having feelings for me and he might not admit it right away but even after he said that he was done talking to me he called and texted me. he has been so hurt because his ex the mother of his kids cheated on him with a woman not
man so I know that really killed him inside and shot his ego to hell so why should I have to pay for this womans' sins?
Getting past the slut thing is going to be hard to forget even though he said he was sorry- If and when I see him I will now be afraid to do anything with him because if what he said.

ok, what's with all the "leolady's"? ha!

anyway, u need to get in touch with urself and view things from another perspective. he's teaching u a good lesson here. we leos DO need to learn the art of patience. go with the flow. take things day by day, one moment at a time. just relax and enjoy the time ur spending with him now. stop worrying about the future cuz what will happen will happen. u can try to forge a path but u should know by now that life doesn't always follow our plans. all we have is right now.

Thanks!

I am back - things are going well. I see my guy once a week which kinda sticks but we both work, have kids, and things to do and take care of. He tells me last week that he has alot of things in his head about me so I said I hope good things and asked if he wanted to share and he said when I am ready I will tell you. ok that's cool! We both have said that we are going to keep our hands off of each other and that hasn't worked out to well- last week we went for a record! I gotta say I think this is the best relations that I have had with a man in years! Lord I gotta keep this one! He tells me how he feels and the sex is mind blowing!

Scorpio male=mindfuck...get ready for the worse mindfuck you ever experienced....go over to the scorpio board. learn as much as you possibly can, very complex sign. Calling you a slut is enough to back off, he most likely meant it.

We were mad at each other and he said that to hurt me because I said something to hurt him - we talked about it and he said he was sorry a million times and everything is good. We both agreed that we both made the choice to sleep with each other - no one forced us to do anything.

People say things that they may not mean at the time and I believe that he was sincere in saying he was sorry. I have really fallen head over heels in love with this guy and I am just trying my best to hear those words from him first.

What did you say so hurtful that he would call you a slut and even so isn't that quite immature on his part.

I'm curious....has he taken his profile off of the dating site? What exactly do you expect from him? He's already tasted the cow before he bought the milk so were do you expect this to exactly go with him, meaning you had sex with him and didn't get clarity on a monogamous commitment. Seems to me he's dating you and he's going to date other women as well and if he has his online profile up and active you can bet your not going to be the only woman he's sleeping with as well as dating.

Red flag...If you have to explain to a grown man that he's being inappropriate and/or misleading and he's arguing about with you about it, he's not ready for something consistent and just wants to date.

Your okay now but whatever isn't resolved will create more conflict. You need to be honest with this guy, tell him how you feel (if you love him or feel your falling in love with him)he may not give you clarity right away but it's best to let him leave, go live his life, give him some time to think about what he wants and allow him the space to come back to you.

Never try to convince a man via explaining *explaining equals nag* that he's wrong for making himself happy, he's simply DOING WHAT HE WANTS TO DO despite his connection with you...mixed messages...he's making it seem there is a WE but he's most likely not saying this about YOU, men can mislead in terms of he's feeling something right now at the moment with you and when your gone, out of sight out of mind but the woman ends up holding onto those words.

calling him out made him feel defensive, as though he had to protect his right to be single and do what he wants, a man that isn't ready to move forward will defend his freedom. If you want a relationship it's best to not pretend to be patient if you really can't be, either you can wait or you can't and if you can't it's best to move on until you learn how....this relationship will be a struggle.

There are other men that would love to date a lovely leo, maybe this one can't fully appreciate you yet. He wants the benefits of having you and all the other women that love him around but offers nothing to anyone but himself.

me neither tauruswomanwtf...It gets under my skin, I would dump his ass.

I hope this thing is working today

Is this thing working today?

He deleted his profile from the site- I signed back up under another name since I deleted my profile as well and his profile is gone! So I know that he is serious about me.

I thank you all for your concern.

I thank you all for your concern.

Is he "your" guy?

I don't know - I know he is only seeing me because he said so to me and I believe him. I am waiting on him to tell me how he feels about me first. He got pissed off at me for calling him out on facebook yes I was wrong to do that on his own page - I took it down and like I said before we talked and he said he was sorry for what he said. I probably should not have come on this site to talk. None of you know me or him

Leolady why are you defensive? We are not attacking you, you have to recognize that being called a slut is not something most women should take lightly apology or no apology, for me it's a deal breaker and for you it's not but no one here is attacking you or your relationship. Most of the women here on DXP support other women despite what we personally feel about a persons relationship. If your on Facebook checking behind him and calling him out which led to an argument then you don't trust him, how you feel is a normal insecurity most women deal with. You hardly know the man, you met him online and if your smart you wouldn't put all your eggs in his basket because you really don't know the guy. You may not like everything we have to say but most of us here care and don't mean any harm to anyone.

Thanks.

I know he cares - he has been supportive. Yes I bothered me at first about him calling me what he called me but we are pasted that. I do trust him and he trusts me. Yes we did sleep together way too soon and every little disagreement that we have had has been worked out through us talking to each other. Yes he does tell me how he feels. I want him to be honest with me. I want him to trust me.

We all wish you the best, Leolady. Just take it slow and let things flow naturally. If he is really into you, he will respect you and go with your flow. Scorpio men like to pursue their women. Give him something to pursue you for, something for him to want to "possess" you for. Scorpio men (whether grey lizards, eagles or doves) appreciate and respect confident women. If you can gain his respect and appreciation, you are well on your way to a great relationship with him -- be it romantic or platonic.

I know you can be that woman once you "land". 😉

Thank you pathfinder - I know the others mean well. I really care about this guy and really feel like this thing could work. We just need time to get to know each other. It might sound crazy but like I said in an earlier post he must care enough about me to have taken down his profile from the dating site we met at - that means all to me. He is always telling me that he thinks he might have found what he has always looked for in a woman.

Posted by tiki33
Scorpio male=mindfuck...get ready for the worse mindfuck you ever experienced....go over to the scorpio board. learn as much as you possibly can, very complex sign. Calling you a slut is enough to back off, he most likely meant it.

COSIGN!! RUN!!!