Oversensitive Leo needs help with her Scorpio

My Scorpio is an assistant high school sports coach. He had an important event for his team and I mentioned I wished I could go to see it. He asked me why I couldn't go and I told him I was working. When he mentioned the start time, I said, "Hey, I'll be done by then" and the venue was literally a block away from me. He said, "Oh really, cool, it'd be great to have you there."

So I go, and he seems surprised to see me. Apparently, he has no recollection of the conversation and he was a little less than pleased I was there. He said that he was very busy and really couldn't sit with me much. I told him I understood he was working and I was just there to show my support.

It sort of hurt my feelings though and I got the sense he thought I made it up and invited myself. I am not sure whether to bring it up or not. It was awkward, since he literally left me to go running around the field, which was his job and I understood that, and am trying not to take it personally, but I really wonder if I should say something to clear the air or just plan on not going to another event of his.

See, for me, I like to show my support by being there. I just feel that if he really didn't want me there, he could say so. I wouldn't have been hurt, I understand not everyone wants their loved one at their workplace. But he invited me and I felt it was the green light. Did I miss some Scorpio signal? When he said it'd be great to have me there, was he really saying "... but please don't come because it will annoy me?"

Thanks antibling! A Scorpio (male) cousin also suggested that Scorpios don't like to mix business with pleasure and that he didn't want to be too affectionate with me in front of his team because it shows weakness(?)

my scorp doesn't like to " mix business with pleasure" either. particularly at the early stages

Yay, another firesign - at least, I assume you are 🙂

I get that, but it's been about 8 months already. Also, I know a lot of people at his job (a semi long story). One strange thing - he intro'd me to his old hs coach who was at the event and the coach said "Oh, so you're LadyLisle! ScorpioX has told me so much about you." Now, he said he doesn't remember inviting me to the meet, which, whatever. But he told me last night, coincidentally when he was inviting me, that he was looking forward to seeing Coach Y again because he hadn't seen him since high school - nearly 13 years ago! So the only time Coach Y could have heard about me was AT the meet ... the one he thought I wasn't coming to. It's very strange to me.

...and the scorp's mind games have begun😉

Yipes! I had quite enough with the guy before him - a Pisces, and you want to talk about mindgames? Wheeeeee lord!

don't let him know that it offended you and listen to anti bling advice if you can. if it'll happen again then say something. don't know anything about pisces guys. for me cancer guy was the worst!

it's like you're reading my mind antibling!!! but then again, aren't you a scorp? 😉

very true about that. we all think differently about the same thing and understand the same things differently. we all have different perceptions and emotions and don't share a mutual brain. if there was one shared brain the world would be a much simplier place. all of us would get what a scorp man wants/does/feels/behaves/etc lmao

love the jumping elephant!!!! 🙂 i guess we're totally not helpful to LadyLisle😢

oh wise jumping elephant pls share your secret for peachy fine life—? pls!!!!! 🙂

what will LadyLisle get from this? - that scorps are mind f-ers and ppl trail off to another topic on her tread? lmao

" I got a load of cheap cider earlier" ---that's the secret!!!!!!!!🙂