@irah
20 Years
Hi Irah...
Me= Scorpio
Him= Leo
Leo's are VERY big flirts (but so is Scorpio)...purely innocent. Leos are very loyal to their loved ones...and they express it by actions more so than words (ego/pride).
Us scorps of course get jealous.
He is a social being, needs to be in the spotlight, so he hangs out with his friends a lot.
Space is what you need to give him. The "L" word does not come easy but analyze his actions which will tell the story...
If he hasn't said I love you in nine years ... he doesn't. I would guess he is seeing other people on the side and doesn't want to give you false hopes so he doesn't say the words.
I am sorry honey. I think you should walk. Nine years is a long time to be with someone who isn't going your way. Maybe if you walk, he will run after you.
Oooops...the part about 9 years I missed....Monday morning and no coffee yet.
LS has a point. Perhaps you have made yourself too available over the 9 years ...I would take a few steps back, if he really loves you, he'll come back to you.
But not saying it after 9 years? I'd walk away ...
my dear friend how many times i leave him... then he come back to me for my forgiveness.. then most of the time i talk to his loyal friend and he know me also.. im trying to talk to this guys for what happen between us everytime he said still you dont know him even he went to other lady after a week he will come back to you so i give funishment to my leo mate i take my bag and i'll pack all my thing for 3 month then he try to contact all my friend i dont attend to answer his call for 3 month then went i seen him that he change, i come back to him... now if he dont bring me in the party its okey but still my confuse maybe.... you know what i mean?
thank's kris",)
anyway i used to figth to all ladies, who smile to my boyfriend if im drunk so now my boyfriend dont want to bring me in the party anyway.... thank all for your answer",)
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we're been together in 9 years on and off relationship... i love him so much... he's older than me he's divorse when we got in relationship...we're fine when where together but everytime i always asking him if he love? he never tell this words.. he always says that he's not young anymore to say this such thing just to feel it that what he said to me... when he went out to his friends im not commortable.. sometimes their make a party without me, im thingthing there so many lady around him... im so afraid maybe he gonna get one lady to replace me... that's what i afraid off....pls i need your help....thanks..