Is the Scorpio interest in the Leo?

Evening, I'm a Leo female. I've recently met a Scorpio male. He's in the Navy and will be attending the Naval Academy which is twenty minutes from my house. That being said I've known him for about two weeks. I had an attraction from the start. We talk most everyday for 2-5 hours on the phone, staying up late and talking about everything. At first he wasn't very open to me, but he's beginning to tell me more and more about himself and his family. He's Italian and seems very confident. He's has his adventures, but he's been very sweet to me.

I'm attracted to him, however he told me at the beginning of us conversing that he didn't want a girlfriend. He's not overly flirtatious, but as time goes on he has begun to compliment me more and more. He even apologizes when he is unable to call me. I think he's been hurt a lot in the past. I've heard tid bits of his past relationships.

Is he interested? I can't tell. I've heard stories that this can't work, but I'm willing to make try. I'm fairly docile and I can handle his anger very well.

Actually, I'm still a virgin and won't be giving anything up. Second he's also told me that he likes long lasting relationships, but they never work out because he's in the Navy. I think it has to do with the jealousy and the possessiveness of the Scorpio. He needs someone very devoted.

As for his anger there was another female friend of his that is a female friend of mine. She attacked him about his intentions with me after the first day we started talking. He came to me and asked me very curt questions about the situation which I answered calmly. He was very angry about her trying to pry. However, he won't talk to the mutual friend anymore, but seem concerned of what I think of him for that.

I'm docile when it comes to arguments. I don't raise my voice or anything of the sort- that's what I mean.

I am listening to him, but a lot of people have said they don't want a relationship when they are merely scared of being hurt, correct?

Probably no where. So then, why is he investing so much time?

Indeed. I've been involved with men in the Military before. I was recently involved with a Libra in the Marines who cheated on me and then admitted to using me. Tsk- silly men.

That was suppose to be a good match, now wasn't it?

It seems that a lot of our values are the same. For instance, we've talked about affairs and so on- he doesn't believe in divorces (He's very religious) nor does he believe in cheating and so on.

I have no doubt that he would be very faithful.

She has known him since 'sea cadets' and approves immensly. But, because of my past experience with a male recently decided to warn him. She had good intentions, but it seemed to frustrate him. She was trying to pry into what was being said between the Scorpio and I.

So, you're advice is that he's not interested at all?

I thought the other guy had tendencies towards other woman. But, he told me I was different and told me every day that he was a good guy.

Whereas the Scorpio admits to not being perfect.

I believe there are a lot of faithful men and women in the military.

Nope.

I don't have any plan. I'm not going to convince him of anything. I was merely inquiring if there was some sort of interest there. I can't imagine someone wanting to talk that often and for that long without having some sort of interest.

If he doesn't want a relationship he isn't going to get anything from me, nor will I pressure him into one.

And any other sign is especially honest? It could vary from sign to sign.

It's been since last Thursday. February 22nd until now.

I just want the facts to be straight ^_^ I'm not denying what you're saying. But, you never answered the question directly. 'No he's not interested because...'

So, from what we've discussed I'd guess you think he isn't interested, or if he is- that I shouldn't be interested anyway.

Correct?

Then I won't be with him as anything more than a casual friend.

I don't know why I have your user name. I just joined today and made it up off the top of my head.

I actually haven't talked to him since Friday night. Only because I was very busy Saturday and today, as was he. He ended up sending me a message apologizing about not being able to call me. Work and so on- so on and so forth.

As for asking him- it's far too soon. I tend to like to let things develope on their own- yet be aware of where they may lead.

It's far to early to be expecting anything serious, but I was excited about the potential of it.

He's mentioned Dinner to me.

I've mentioned how close the Academy is to me.

I'm only seventeen- actually.

He's twenty.

Yeah I know- Oh god, seventeen? Naive little girl😆

His Birthday is December 7th. According to astrology, that makes him a Scorpio.

uh..... i think that makes him a sag

Strange, my sources have told me he's a Scorpio... 😕 I feel foolish now.

a sag who has openly admitted he doesn't want a gf......

Whoops total mix up there..

little leo, you should change your name-it's too close to the real and "original" leokitten.

Oh.. I don't think I'll be on often at all... so no worries about the name thing.

My mamma is lettin' me date gentlemen she meets. He was my first boyfriend. I don't date that often because I rarely find a connection with someone. I have really high standards on what I want from a relationship and what I expect.

So It's not like she lets me go prancing around with strange older men.

Message posted by: Little leo kitten on 3/4/2007 8:26:22 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.128
Oh.. I don't think I'll be on often at all... so no worries about the name thing.

even so, don't you want a unique name that's not a near carbon copy of someone else?

It's not like I meant to copy any names 😕

Any.. name suggestions then?

It wasn't a bad temper. He wasn't yelling- he was just curt, and wanted to get the situation out of the way.

As for the relationship, I respect that he doesn't want one at this time. But he says it's mostly because of past relationships he's been in.

Message posted by: leokitten on 3/4/2007 8:33:08 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.41
ok....so think about that. how do your high standards fit this guy who

a) told you he does not want a relationship and

b) showed you temper really early on. that, in any sign, is a bad omen.

just to add to leokitten's (the original) points, his sun sign is completely irrelevant in your situation.

He's been in quite a few. He actually admitted to being a 'womanizer' in his high school days. Gee, that does sound silly when I think of it. But, at least he admitted to it. He's rather upstanding now, however- that's why I'm so quick to defend him. That, and I tend to put all my trust into someone until the betray me.

As for my standards I want, Respect, Reassurance, and Honesty. I don't need to know where he is who he's going with or what he's doing- just a message to let me know he's out and about and safe. I'm not clingy or jealous, I have my own things in life to take care of and tend to be busy with school and working anyway. I do expect attention though- compromise and understanding. So far he's given me all but physical affection.

That's my standards in a basic relationship. Communication is key for me.

Sure, I do.

I would never date in high school. High school is fickle. People change too easily- that's why I've never dated before. Not because I can't get dates, but because I don't want something irrelevant and redundant.

how are things redundant if people change to easily and you've never dated before?

the scorp errrrr sag doesn't want anything relevant

I'm very concentrated on my career. I'm a portrait artist, studying under a master artist and am already teaching drawing classes. So neener : P I'm very well accomplished.

But, I figured as I am different in my views of relationships and standards, so would someone else. They can't all be bad apples.

My mother is actually very over protective, however I tend to make good choices. I've never been a bad or rebellious child.

I'm in my last year of high school, and yes I still live at home. I also intend to stay at home until I open up my studio with the savings I acquired from working all of last year and the year before.

I do make good choices- however no one can deny that they can be tricked. However, I gave nothing up to him, and I learned a lot from him in aspects of what to expect for myself. Nor to I concern myself with him anymore, which is a very good choice.

I'm studying in advance art classes in my high school. I don't want to take art school, however I will be studying under a variety of master artists as well as taking choice classes at a local college that include a lot of business courses.

what medium do you work in?

Actually, I do a lot of commissions. People will pay up to 300 a pop for a portait at my talent. However, in greater time I will be selling things for a grand and up. The master artist I study under sells busts starting at 5 grand

Message posted by: leokitten on 3/4/2007 8:54:24 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.41
well good luck to you. running a business is very hard, and very expensive.

yes, yes it is.

I work in Charcoal, Conte, Pastel, and graphite. I've dabbling a bit in Oil painting, watercolor and acrylic.

yes, I'm well aware of the hardship of starting my own business, but I have enough ambition for my dream.

There is a large demand...

nite chocolate! 🙂

Mm. That wouldn't be why I marry.

But, fare well everyone.