annakins6882
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Oh those libra males
Honey, there's a Libra forum you could post this in to get better feedback.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/
Why do people have such a hard time navigating internet forums? It's not rocket science. :/
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/
Why do people have such a hard time navigating internet forums? It's not rocket science. :/
In regard to your situation, you need to end it. You got caught in the notorious Libra bullshit trap. They jump in stupidly fast like morons, and then back out equally as fast. He hasn't said he loves you because he doesn't. This sign is famous for obsessing about being in relationships and some tend to keep a relationship for the sake of keeping it until something better comes around.
The only typical female thing you've done here is allow yourself to be suckered by the flowery words Libra men so intricately produce without paying attention to the actual actions behind those words.
Go check out that Libra forum and you'll see how many topics are just like yours. You're not alone and you're just another sad statistic who fell for a con artist.
Assholes like him have no idea what they want and they will drag you down with them as they learn. If you want something serious without being jerked around, hold him accountable for his shit or move on because it's just a vicious cycle after you get sucked in.
The immature ones, like this guy, aren't worth dating.
The only typical female thing you've done here is allow yourself to be suckered by the flowery words Libra men so intricately produce without paying attention to the actual actions behind those words.
Go check out that Libra forum and you'll see how many topics are just like yours. You're not alone and you're just another sad statistic who fell for a con artist.
Assholes like him have no idea what they want and they will drag you down with them as they learn. If you want something serious without being jerked around, hold him accountable for his shit or move on because it's just a vicious cycle after you get sucked in.
The immature ones, like this guy, aren't worth dating.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamWow! It was like you were describing the Scorp. He has Moon, Pluto & 11th house in Libra.
In regard to your situation, you need to end it. You got caught in the notorious Libra bullshit trap. They jump in stupidly fast like morons, and then back out equally as fast. He hasn't said he loves you because he doesn't. This sign is famous for obsessing about being in relationships and some tend to keep a relationship for the sake of keeping it until something better comes around.
The only typical female thing you've done here is allow yourself to be suckered by the flowery words Libra men so intricately produce without paying attention to the actual actions behind those words.
Go check out that Libra forum and you'll see how many topics are just like yours. You're not alone and you're just another sad statistic who fell for a con artist.
Assholes like him have no idea what they want and they will drag you down with them as they learn. If you want something serious without being jerked around, hold him accountable for his shit or move on because it's just a vicious cycle after you get sucked in.
The immature ones, like this guy, aren't worth dating.
Posted by WalkergrlSigns aside, it's an immature dude thing, tbh. Guys who jump in too fast are ones to run away from.Posted by rockyroadicecreamWow! It was like you were describing the Scorp. He has Moon, Pluto & 11th house in Libra.
In regard to your situation, you need to end it. You got caught in the notorious Libra bullshit trap. They jump in stupidly fast like morons, and then back out equally as fast. He hasn't said he loves you because he doesn't. This sign is famous for obsessing about being in relationships and some tend to keep a relationship for the sake of keeping it until something better comes around.
The only typical female thing you've done here is allow yourself to be suckered by the flowery words Libra men so intricately produce without paying attention to the actual actions behind those words.
Go check out that Libra forum and you'll see how many topics are just like yours. You're not alone and you're just another sad statistic who fell for a con artist.
Assholes like him have no idea what they want and they will drag you down with them as they learn. If you want something serious without being jerked around, hold him accountable for his shit or move on because it's just a vicious cycle after you get sucked in.
The immature ones, like this guy, aren't worth dating.click to expand
OP what sign are you? Sounds like he has a lot of Virgo in his chart.
I don't know where you read about a Libra not able to let go, as I let go quite quickly and efficiently. I have never read that however if you have the internet link can you post it please?
I agree with Rocky on this one, you got the immature one.. dont ask him if he wants to end it, be cold.. tell him you are not happy and that you deserve a man who will shower you with love..
Libras are hard to understand, we dont understand ourselves most of the times.. when i say that i love someone i really mesn it, so i dont say that too often, only when im really sure about my feelings..
maybe the reason he didnt say that is cause he is not ready ...
What is your sign?
Libras are hard to understand, we dont understand ourselves most of the times.. when i say that i love someone i really mesn it, so i dont say that too often, only when im really sure about my feelings..
maybe the reason he didnt say that is cause he is not ready ...
What is your sign?
Im an Aquarius.... The problem that I'm having is that in the beginning, he was the one saying he couldn't believe how fast he fell for me yada yada... after we had a disagreement, which wasn't that big of one, he said he wanted to slow things down, that they were moving to fast... he says he has "feelings" for me, that I am important to him... I guess I'm wanting to hear those words again.... I have been with a libra before, he was all about our relationship, very romantic, always putting me first... he passed away, this is the first time I've opened myself to the prospect of love since then. I know no one can tell me what the outcome will be, if only things were that cut and dry... I guess I'm wanting to know if this is normal for libras... I can't make myself walk away, which isn't normal for me, lol...
Posted by annakins6882You're an Aqua & you're hung up on a Libra? I get it, Libras are magnetizing. I'm an Aqua myself. Dated several Librans. They truly are what most Aquarians want. There's a serious meeting of the minds & they're ok with most of our weird qualities.
"Im an Aquarius....
Posted by annakins6882HOWEVER, when Libras want you, they will be straight forward. About the relationship, where it's going, the future, all of that. ANY man that truly wants you, regardless of the sign, will be like this. & they will follow it up with action. There will be no room for confusion or wondering, they will clear it up. Your Libra has already told you where his head space is; he wants to slow down. Be it "slow down" to park the car or "slow down" to wait for the light to turn green is neither here nor there. He feels like things are moving quickly & he is uncomfortable. Sometimes we forget relationships are a two way street. Both parties need to feel comfortable in order for the relationship to progress. It has to progress at a speed that each party can deal with in order to deal with each other. That being said, if YOU are not comfortable with the pace then you're going to have to search inside of you for that beautiful Aqua magic, cut your losses, fix yourself & move on. (It's still a two way street, after all.) But you cannot make anyone comfortable & you cannot wait for someone else to make you comfortable, you have to be the one to take care of you, whether you're seeing someone or not. You cannot give away your power like that, & that is with ANY man. You must remain in control of you because only YOU can control YOU. You are the only person responsible for you & your happiness. Nobody else.
The problem that I'm having is that in the beginning, he was the one saying he couldn't believe how fast he fell for me yada yada... after we had a disagreement, which wasn't that big of one, he said he wanted to slow things down, that they were moving to fast..."
Posted by annakins6882Take this for what it is. But do NOT hang on to this. Libras are phenomenal with words. They know what women want, what they want to hear, they're a feminine sign, after all. ACTIONS speak louder.
"he says he has "feelings" for me, that I am important to him..."
Posted by annakins6882FULL STOP! He is not your ex. You cannot hold him in the same light. No two Libras are the same! No two people of the same sign are the same. The may share some qualities but - not the same. Different experiences and placements in charts mold people in different ways. Repeat it, as many times as you can. HE IS NOT MY EX. HE IS NOT MY EX.
"I guess I'm wanting to hear those words again.... I have been with a libra before, he was all about our relationship, very romantic, always putting me first... he passed away, this is the first time I've opened myself to the prospect of love since then."
Posted by annakins6882They are. You're forgetting that YOU have a choice here.
"I know no one can tell me what the outcome will be, if only things were that cut and dry..."
Posted by annakins6882It's normal for MEN in general to want to slow things down. It's normal for PEOPLE to want to slow down when they're feeling uncomfortable.
"I guess I'm wanting to know if this is normal for libras..."
Posted by annakins6882Yes, you can. You don't want to. But you can. You need to sit down & ask yourself: if things continue as they are now (because the only time that matters is right now) will I be happy? AM I HAPPY RIGHT NOW? Then ask yourself what will make you happy. & then go FIND that happiness. Or create it. You hold the key, love. ❤️
"I can't make myself walk away, which isn't normal for me, lol..."click to expand
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