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brianafay
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Is clinginess really a Scorpio rising trait? Or an insecurity trait?
I have a Scorpio/Sag rising and I'm not clingy at all. I would rather not see my boyfriend everyday, and I'm far from over-affectionate...I'm not into PDA either, besides maybe hand-holding. Oh & I don't do the adoring - I expect to be adored. 🙂


But as for a good sign for you, I'd say they're right about Taurus. Or maybe a more sensitive Aries type.
I would say probably no way to a Sagittarius - even the males like their space.
& definately no to another Libra.
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Cling towards Scorpio & Taurus men. They are very possessive, clingy & somewhat unbothered by the return on these 2 things. There is nothing better to a Scorpio than a woman who clings to him just the same as he clings to her (a Scorpio's biggest fear in relationships is losing control and/or giving 100% while only getting 80% ).

Stay away from Aquarius, Sagg. & Aries. Clingyness & possessiveness are the biggest turn offs & normally, as soon as we spot those signs, we run for the hill, no matter how much love we have that person. These 3 signs care foremost about their own happiness & security they feel with you more in the beginning than they do how you feel or how you can't let go.
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""Is clinginess really a Scorpio rising trait? Or an insecurity trait? ""


Well that's the beauty of difference between each sign. To a Scorpio, his constant battle to feel the need to hold on to what he's earned & what he considers his is not what he considers "insecurity." To a Scorpio, clinging on to his woman is no different (in his mind) than locking your doors at night because you don't want any burglars to have access to what you worked hard for, I.E. your home. So it all depends, what one person considers bad, another person might consider good.

And because most Scorpios tend to show this "clingy" trait eventually throughout their lives, I'd say that it is more of a trait, rather than an insecurity because most Scorpion men & women are very clingy with EVERYTHING they've earned, not just in relationships. But they're not insecure about everything they own; they become insecure when a certain circumstance arrises. So it's 50/50. Most Scorpios exhibit their "SCorpion" behavior BEFORE they've even entered into their first relationship, thus their behaviors seem to be more traits than insecurities
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scorpio rising, huh? any fixed sign (taurus, leo, scorpio, aqua) should do...tread carefully with the aquas though, they usually don't appreciate clingyness too much. leos and tauruses don't mind too much, at least the ones i've come across. as for scorpios, not sure, but according to my friends, they don't mind it much either.

"Is clinginess really a Scorpio rising trait? Or an insecurity trait?"

i'm a scorp ascendant, a rather 'early' one with pluto conjunct from the 12th (double-triple whammy if you will), and i'm not clingy at all. in fact, i've recently been dubbed an honorary aqua because i run for the hills when someone starts sticking to me like glue, or a relationship gets way too serious. hmmm, come to think of it, i'm rather aloof as well, lol.