Scorpio Femme/Libra Homme

Ok, so this isn't the best of situations, I know, but I need to understand some things??_first of all, I am a Scorpio woman and he is a Libra man. I??ve known him since March 2009. I am starting to fall for him, but he doesn't know. I??ve told him I like him and he's said that he likes me back. The f**ked up part is that he lives with his girlfriend (no idea what her sign is) and they are in the process of breaking up. He's told me that he's moving out soon and that he doesn't have a set date, but soon. ok. Then he says that he doesn't sleep with her anymore and he sleeps on the floor in the living room. Ok, whatever. As far as I am concerned, they are still under the same roof, so you do the math. Another crazy thing??_we live in the same neighborhood. Sooo bad. We've slept together a few times (omg! Super Intense) but he doesn't really call me all that often. I know the situation and all, but after reading all of these posts I am starting to wonder if he really likes me like that. I asked him why he was avoiding me and he says that he isn't. He just wants to get this issue out of the way first. I plan on moving soon and I am hoping that at least with one of us out of the n??hood, that this could flourish. What can I really do? I can't think straight. I see his house from the back of mine and I think about him a lot! Despite the contrary, I am not the crazy Scorpio type. I'm not knocking on his door or giving his girl nasty looks when she drives by my house. None of the above. Its a discreet thing. If he denied me, I??d just be heartbroken and move on (after a few mean thoughts though! lol). How can I get him to stay interested in me until the move is made? What am I to do? I need to know how he feels other than he likes me. But I guess that's all I'm gonna get for now??_I'm sooo sick!!! I just wish I knew how he really felt about me. I'm not expecting ANYTHING (especially after reading these posts), but I just wish I knew what could be going on in his head. I think we'd be good together.

Yeah, I know this already. Thanks for your post, however. Even though there's a lot more to this than I can write, I focused on the key points. Damn, I hate to give up the sex though. It.was.amazing.period. But, I know that I can't do it again for those very reasons you mentioned. If and when he moves, I planned to do just that: make his butt work...even though he's had me already, he's still interested from what I can gather. But, what you described could be any man in this situation. I just wanted a Libra perspective on what he could possibly be going through mentally on the zodiac aspect, not something that can be generalized for any guy...still, much appreciation though.

i'm not a libra, but my man is. if he were going to leave her, he would've done that and moved in with you already.

I don't want him to move in with me...but I agree that he would have left already. Anyone who is really that unhappy in a relationship shouldn't stay and suffer. But, isn't that what Libras do? Agonize and mull over something for so long that you trick yourself into thinking you are trying to achieve balance? I just wanted some clarity on that side of things, like I said before. I know he lives with his girl and that the whole situation is wrong...but it's not like he or I are married or anything...or even trying to take it that far. He's just a guy I met FOUR MONTHS ago and I don't think I'm in the frame of mind of marriage or even co-habitation. Who the hell does that in four months? Now that would be stupid...

I'm dating a Libra and have many Libran male friends.... If that man is not all about you despite that other woman, he not going to be later. They are funny like that, Libras are all about the BIG love, so if they see someone that appeals to them (at the time) they will not hesitate to jump on it. Doesn't mean that he wants to be with you, if anything it strengthens their bond with the other woman. Libra is the sign of partnerships, and they don't give them up that easily, especially for someone willing to fall down legs open while they're already in one. I agree, sex with Libras is amazing...go find another one!

Posted by Scorpiana
Anyone who is really that unhappy in a relationship shouldn't stay and suffer. But, isn't that what Libras do?

Pretty much. 🙂
They definately don't give up easily. He's obviously in love with her and doesn't want to let go, or he would have done so already. They tend to hang on to the idea of things...like the idea of a relationship and how it *could* be...
I wouldn't wait around for him, to be honest.

Here's my take on that scenario....Leave him the hell alone....and this is for your benefit. Based on my personal experience, libra men cannot make decisions, he will think about it, talk about it, weigh the pros and cons, go arund in circles, tell u what u want to hear etc, but at the end of the day, he does not have the guts to leave. He may also passively/agressively torture the woman at home, but like i said he CANNOT make the decision to get up and leave. His current spouse would have to make the decision to leave, and even then he will try his best to get her back. These folks are total flip flops so DON'T waste your time. If sex is what you want, then use him for that until better comes along. All the best to you.