Some of the best couples I've seen; Air&Water

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Why do these 2 get such a bad rep?

I think astrology should be served as a guideline, not a set in stone thing. If 2 people have enough common/different ground, and care for eachother, astrology should have little to do with it.

The longest and most solid relationships in my circle are air/water!

Out of my best friends I have;

Female Pisces and Male Gemini getting married this year after 8 years together.

Female Pisces and Aquarius Male who have one of the most solid marriages I have seen, of 11 years.

My grand parents; these 2 were made for eachother! They cannot be without eachother and seriously one of the most loving marriages I have ever seen. He is Cancer, she is Libra.

From acquaintances; I know 2 gem/Scorp successful marriages. One of 18 years, the other 30.

Also, I am with a Scorp and things are going well.

What are your thoughts? These matches pretty much slap astrology in the face but they WORK. All couples are great.

Some of the best matches astrology says for me I do not do well with. I've found personally, I do best with Fire(minus Aries) and Water. But I believe every person is an individual, I never had ANY luck with scorps until my current and he is not ANYTHING like the ones I dated (in a good way!).
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I agree. I personally think Moon and Venus/Mars combos are more important than sun.

My Scorp and I are both Aquarius rising. I have Libra moon, him Leo. I have Gemini mercury, him Sag. I have Cancer/Cancer in Venus & Mars, he has Capricorn/Scorpio. His Midheaven is Sag, mine Scorpio. I was also an hour away from being a Pisces rising.

It's sooo much more than sun but people sure love to ruffle feathers, don't they?
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No I don't, but a few select people shouldn't make it "suck" for everyone under the sign.

I dated 5 scorpios prior to my current...All ended in ruins. I told myself I would NEVER date another Scorpio, I lied.

After my first disaster Aries ex, I told myself never again on that one. I lied too and went on a few dates with another douchebag Aries. Every PERSON is different.
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I think if both can rise above the basic differences it could be great.
It may require that the water sign be very emotionally and financially secure.

No man can give me the mental stimulation a Libra male can.
And then that sexy is very alluring.
Dated a double Libra, we were very sweet together.
But he would always back down from a fight between us.
I need a little drama. 😛
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Yeah my chart placements are all air/water. Minus my uranus/Neptune/saturn in Capricorn.

He is Scorpio with mostly fire placements.

He's water with fire moon, I'm air with air moon, we have the same air rising.

If we were born an hour earlier, I would have been a rising Pisces and he would have been a rising Aries.

Also, all of my love sector is water. His is earth/water. When people have a lot of fire/air in that department, that's never worked out well for me.
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I can get very emotional and hard to handle at times. Most guys get fed up and annoyed with me...I thought my ex was the only one that could handle my "crazy". Leo sun with Tauraus moon and Virgo venus and Leo mars.

He handled it well and I was the one that ended it, he kept me emotionally grounded and reassured me. He was THE stingiest man I have ever met though and he easily makes $ 80k a year now.

My bf is Scorpio sun, Leo moon, Capricorn Venus, Scorpio mars and he handles me very well too. He is loving and sweet and says the things naturally I tried to get my ex to say or get onto him for NOT saying. He senses my worry before I even say anything and has already reassured me and said the right things. He is also very generous with his money and wanting to go out with me. I'm not talking about buying me things, paying my bills, but I do like to do things on a regular basis, even if it's smaller like a movie, average eatery etc. he takes me somewhere really nice 1-2x a month, like 5 star.
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believe this:

Posted by Agentgem24


I think astrology should be served as a guideline, not a set in stone thing. If 2 people have enough common/different ground, and care for eachother, astrology should have little to do with it.

The longest and most solid relationships in my circle are air/water!





then why do you care about this:

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Why do these 2 get such a bad rep?
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I agree with the sentence in the first post btw.
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Posted by LunarMaiden
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Cancer dad and Libra mom has been married for 40 years.



I think this combination works better than the other way around.
She will get more security from her man than a Cancer would from her Libra man.
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It depends.

Matt Damon is married to a Cancer woman but if you look at his chart, it spells lots of SECURITY for her.

And they made 2nd vows.
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Cancer dad and Libra mom has been married for 40 years.



I think this combination works better than the other way around.
She will get more security from her man than a Cancer would from her Libra man.



It depends.

Matt Damon is married to a Cancer woman but if you look at his chart, it spells lots of SECURITY for her.

And they made 2nd vows.
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WOW had no idea she is a Cancer. How did you find out? I looked to see what her sign was because he seems so happy and protective of his family.

This is very interesting, what about his chart spells security?
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back. Had to start dinner.
Oh, about George Clooney, despite being Double earth with water rising. His moon is in the 11th house.
Hmmmmmm. Could it be?
lmao.

anyway it was really hard to find Damon's wife's bday but i found it once, and it is VERY VERY SECRETIVE. he's very protective of her, so we'll leave it at that to leave her out of the public's eyes, even if it's her bday.
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And no, it's not about what they do for me. I'm just comparing the differences as he wants to do things to make me happy and shows me the emotional closeness I crave unlike I never felt I had with my Leo ex of 4 years. He would pull the, "you know what I think...so I don't need to say it" his Taurus moon made him settle and not feel he had to do much, and that didn't satisfy my libra moon.

Yeah my Pisces female and Aquarius male friend are very solid. Aquarius is anti social just like my Gemini male best friend. The 2 of them have been best friends for 8 years, as well as the Pisces females. (My best male friend gem is also dating a Pisces female who is a super close friend of mine)

I met them all together and they became my regular crew fast! Hah
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I also think air signs would have to get more in touch with their emotions.



Yeah. If the air sign isn't able to learn enough about their emotional nature, it will end in disaster.
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Also to add that water signs will have to understand that tears and emotional manipulation won't work on these signs. It may work in the beginning but after that, the attraction fades for air signs. This is why I said up-thread that water signs will have to focus more on dealing with their emotions on a mental level.

I think this site has helped me realize that the other aspects of our charts have to be taken into consideration.
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And no, it's not about what they do for me. I'm just comparing the differences as he wants to do things to make me happy and shows me the emotional closeness I crave unlike I never felt I had with my Leo ex of 4 years. He would pull the, "you know what I think...so I don't need to say it" his Taurus moon made him settle and not feel he had to do much, and that didn't satisfy my libra moon.

Yeah my Pisces female and Aquarius male friend are very solid. Aquarius is anti social just like my Gemini male best friend. The 2 of them have been best friends for 8 years, as well as the Pisces females. (My best male friend gem is also dating a Pisces female who is a super close friend of mine)

I met them all together and they became my regular crew fast! Hah



I can see how your Aquarius rising FIGHTS for what you feel strongly about (maybe that's it) It's not about proving to them, but that you know deep in your heart that you're in the "right" place, and feel good about it. If it feels right, and you are harmonious, then that's all that matters in the world. You're the one "In" the relationship and he treats you good, and you treat him good, have good emotional connection, as well as physical....there you go.
Oh did i forget mental connection too? All the balances are there.