Why are bad boys attracted to good girls and vice

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by VenusStar on Sunday, August 18, 2013 and has 15 replies.

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@VenusStar
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Depending on the guy, I would like to think that he likes good girls because he has a soft spot himself and he feels like he can truly be himself with her.

I'm a romantic at heart.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by filipinoprince
bad boys want to corrupt
good girls want to be corrupted

great answer.

Good girls always want to know what's going on with the bad boys and why the bad boys want to corrupt them. They be curious and enticed!! Hubby always tries to corrupt me. It works! I'm now a defect, corrupt and loved.

/corny music in the background...

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@Este8
13 Years1,000+ Posts

The bad boy is looking for the right good girl to love. They aren't that bad. Just playing the game they think we want played to get laid. Good girls like the challenge and excitement. Opposites can attract but they don't always work out cuz when the flush of being in love wears off, as it always does, you need to have compatibility to make it work.

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13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by size zero superhero
The archetypal bad boy aims for shocked reactions while(naive)good girls tend to be impressed with & receptive to his naughty schtick because it's dramatically different from the mild, straight-laced dudes in her social circles. Basically a novelty flavor sample for both parties.

OR

One of the above is a wolf dressed as a sheep/sheep disguised as a wolf, and the bad boy/good girl are more alike than their respective outward image might suggest. I've seen this scenario reflected IRL more than the above theory; either the chick is undercover-bad, or the guy is a total softie deep down in spite of his attempt to convince the rest of the world otherwise.

I like your second explanation. 🙂

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@DAMEN VI
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Bad girls ain't no good, and the good girls ain't no fun,And the hood girls want a smart guy,college girls all want a thug,So it seems that we fiend what we don't need.

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@DAMEN VI
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by JennGem

Posted by DAMEN VI
Bad girls ain't no good, and the good girls ain't no fun,And the hood girls want a smart guy,college girls all want a thug,So it seems that we fiend what we don't need.

Love that song!! 😉

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They play it so much on the radio that i had no choice but to at least memorize it lol

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@nycancergal
13 Years

I am a good girl (I'd like to think lol)and I love good guys. I hate "bad boys." Most of them are arrogant assholes. Who likes that unless you are one yourself or are very insecure?

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Bad guys = excitement.

Good girls = stability.

They are both looking for what they need. The good girl needs more excitement. The bad boy needs more stability.

(unless the good girl is just wanting to piss off deal ole daddy by seeing the bad boy)

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@raerae2one8
13 Years

I am totally bored with good boys and love the chase. Even bad doys that are easy are boring. I am a good girl, for sure🙂 but some bad boys have a heart. And it is really the challenge of catching thier heart. Bad boys are a dime a dozen and good girls are hard to come by. Its the challenge..