The man I could marry? How did you KNOW.

It seems like when you aren't looking and the least expecting, you find someone. I know I crush easily, but I truly feel at ease with this person! I fell hard for an unstable Leo over the summer, it didnt last long. Since then, I've not really done more than a date here and there...my mood has been rather apathetic and bored but I've been keeping busy with my own life and friends.

A few weeks ago, an old high school crush came into the picture. Someone who I liked 9 years ago but didn't think they felt the same. He admitted he too crushed, but at 16-17, was too immature to handle his feelings. I just feel like I could truly be myself around him and love his company. Usually after a few weeks, I can easily grow cold and "um don't touch me" when I have no chemistry or the physical chemistry wears off. He and I have barely been physical however. I just feel like he gets me and I don't have to get onto him about giving me what I need to be happy or bicker like I've done in the past, he just knows. He hasn't been in a relationship for a few years and hasn't really been trying hard, we just got in contact and clicked instantly. He even remembered the first time he ever saw me etc.
My question to you guys is (yes I'm a sucker for romance!) how did YOU know that you found the one? What was so different from the others you liked/loved, what made you think, "I could truly marry this person." And go!

Our details incase any were curious:

Me:
Sun-Gemini
Rising-Aquarius
Moon-Libra
Mercury-Gemini
Venus-Cancer
Mars-Cancer

Him:
Sun-Aquarius
Rising-Sag
Moon-Libra
Mercury-Aquarius
Venus-Capricorn
Mars-Taurus

when that shit is real you just know.


lol sorry don't have much to say because I'm single living the Carrie Bradshaw Sex and the City life. Just wanted to say you are gorgeous

and just spotted you live in Dallas whoop whoop me too! 🙂

Aw well thanks so much! And yay fellow Dallas person, how old are you?

Nothing wrong with sex and the city life!

Wow that's fantastic! He's Pisces but he has so much air in him I see that matters little. It's great you found that in someone and I wish you the best! How long has it been? He seems like a good catch.

What you are describing is exactly how I felt with the Aqua I'm seeing. First night was amazing and ever since. He says he usually likes to have a mystery about him but he wants to show me everything, nothing I do or little weird quirk offsets him and he finds it adorable. We agreed most people really annoy us (being a Gemini I'm sure you get that too) but we don't feel that way with eachother.


It's so nice to hear successful love stories 🙂)

Your posts are mentally exhausting.

I'm sorry that your mental state is easily exhausted.

I'm just happy and I'll post as I please k thanks 🙂

Posted by AirMan
never mind her. she's just a lonely single ram without an ounce of an intrest in life. so she's projecting her deadly horns on to anybody's innocent threads.

She's always so rude. But it's whatever, I'm happy 🙂

Anyone else with a cute love story?

You're both libra moons? None of you knows for sure.

I have cute love stories but none everlasting yet.

Best of luck. Take it one step at a time.

Your antics with men are usually annoying but gotta love the optimism.

They can usually be annoying sure, but Im very comfortable with him. Other than some usual fear I don't have doubts. I will for sure take it slow though

Cute can be fun though, share a cute one? If one has a story that may not be everlasting but still had a great deal of love, feel free to share.

That's true, and it's because I guess I can easily fall. But after the last one I learned and dating was not a priority. For once I was the hesitant one to commit and didnt want to rush anything.

With this guy, well those same sparks I felt for him 9 years ago came back full force and I truly feel at ease with him. I haven't been with him long but I have known him a long time. However, I am still taking things slow and do not want to jump into it right away either.

I for sure am taking a step back from the trying so hard, and just being me and see what happens.

It's like you forget the part I've known him over 9 years? I didn't just meet him. Far from it.

We used to be very close

When you feel it you feel it. Only time will tell.

Posted by Agentgem24
Aw well thanks so much! And yay fellow Dallas person, how old are you?

Nothing wrong with sex and the city life!

23 🙂

Well message me, maybe we could get coffee sometime 🙂

Posted by Arielle83

I think Rocky means your stories get annoying because you keep believing so and so is the one for you or you're in love/lust etc. Maybe it's the fact you feel so much for so many people easily. Well from what I've read since you've been here. Some people might not get why you put that much energy into feelings for someone you haven't been with long.

I love you because you're smart.

Also, I can't help but imagine what it's like for the guys you find. If you flit from guy to guy at this frequency, imagine how they feel being one of many on your list of "loves."

Whatever floats your boat, but like I said, your posts are exhausting in that respect. You keep saying the same thing about each guy too- "Oh I learned my lesson this time.." *starts dating a new guy and says the same things all over again*

Have you considered keeping a journal about all these emotions? It'd probably help you to have something like that so you can jog your memory when the estrogen takes over and you decide you're going to get married to the flavor of the week again. Your "optimism" is borderline delusional because of the frequency in which you've been recycling guys and it's a tad concerning.

...Or just focus on having fun and lose the mindset that the flavor of the week is your new husband. *shrugs*

Posted by AirMan
never mind her. she's just a lonely single ram without an ounce of an intrest in life. so she's projecting her deadly horns on to anybody's innocent threads.

You should probably focus on getting all that sand out of your vagina.

You're in love AGAIN ??

A guy only has to notice you, or look at you ... and suddenly you're in love. The level of your delusion is astounding.

I'm still shaking my head over you coming in here and complaining because your roommate dared to want you to pick up after yourself. The concept that you're SUPPOSE to pick up after yourself flies right over your head, and when you came in here to bitch about it, you were absolutely clueless when people told you the same thing as your roommate = take responsibility for yourself.


Anyway ... back to your emotional weakness, in where you can't help yourself in having any self control, AT ALL.

So, a guy noticed you and so that MUST be love.

Don't use the word "love," that's far too strong. I have not been in love 50+ times. Twice...only twice. One of which was over 4 years with that person.

It's extreme infatuation and feeling comfortable at this point, I do not jump to the "L" word.

You seem to not remember things at all. I didnt have an issue to pick up after myself with my old roommate, it was all of the extra abuse and being talked down to that went along with it. Putting me on blast on Facebook immaturely etc.

And I wasnt actually looking for anyone. I had been on a few dates with people before this guy and I cut it off because I didnt feel for them like I wanted. No sparks.

This was someone I've known for over 9 years coming back into my life and clicking.

There was almost going to be a situation where my roommate couldn't afford her rent and she was needing to sublease because she couldn't afford her end and I couldn't do it all. The only possible person looking for a place that I trusted besides a random Craigslist was this guy. And he was actually open to the idea! I on the other hand was very nervous at the idea, I've never lived with a guy and didnt want to jump start it too fast and set us up for failure. It wouid have been a last resort if I couldn't find anyone. I'm just glad it didnt come to that because I'm extremely hesitant with living with a guy unless it's been a year or just under. I've never lived with a boyfriend, only one platonic brother like friend.

Posted by feby
I think you could really gel well with an aqua with a libra moon. I am one as well, you know.
I think you like to be active and communicate, that's cool. He might need some down time from the intensity though so just note that if you see something like that come up 🙂

Thanks for the tip 🙂

Hmm I'm not sure. I wouid have to look?

I know me and my first ex both fell in love super fast. He was Leo sun, Gemini rising, Taurus moon, and Virgo Venus with Leo mars.

The one over the summer I loved the idea of. But it was because he was being exactly what I wanted at the beginning then completly flipped and went psycho. Which is exactly why I didnt get gaga dating other guys after or if I wasnt feeling it, had no issue dropping them. I really wanted to click with someone before I did anything remotely serious again and I refused to settle, I was willing to wait awhile and just go about my life like I was too. Just reconnecting with aqua happened much sooner than expected and caught me off guard. I'm just taking it slow.

I just feel comfortable. I'm not constantly worried if he's lost interest, or why it's taken awhile for him to respond, or freakjng out to my friends etc. I just let it be. I know he will get back to me and I know he cares and it's obvious, I don't need constant words of reassurance like I usually do when I'm dating someone.

I dated a Capricorn briefly, just a few dates before the aqua and I went from thinking he was "nice, and maybe" but never felt those sparks. He wanted me to be his gf and I told him I could not commit to that anytime soon. Capricorn sun and Scorpio moon. I grew to absolutely despise him and almost disgusted to look at (I have no idea why!) everything he did and said, no matter how innocuous, infuriated me. I couldn't wait to get rid of him.

I don't feel that way at all with aqua though. The smallest thing he says or does had me in fits of laughter. If Capricorn did the same thing, I would have given him a death state. I was pretty icy with him not even realizing. If he tried to be sentimental and sweet, I pushed him away. I'm very cuddly...IF I like you

Posted by Hotbeefy
You should check it out on natal & synastry. :\

Why are you concerned? Our natal charts are perfectly lined up and all positions get along great.

There were like 2-3 neg and 12-13 positives.

Me: June 12th 1989. Born 11:50 pm in Orlando, FL.

Him: January 27th 1989. Born 4:27 am in Elgin, Illinois.

So that's my chart then?

Yeah I like cafe stroking!

*cafe astrology

Aspect?

I'm an Aquarius ascendant. Not Virgo

I'm an Aquarius ascendant. Not Virgo

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=Meagan+&sex=f&d1day=12&d1month=6&d1year=1989&d1hour=23&d1min=50&citylist=Orlando% 2C+FL+% 2812% 29% 2C+United+States&lang=en

Those coordinates are off on yours.

Yeah and hard Saturn aspect

Posted by Agentgem24

You seem to not remember things at all. I didnt have an issue to pick up after myself with my old roommate, it was all of the extra abuse and being talked down to that went along with it.

I remember perfectly. Of course, you've closed your threads ... probably on purpose so people can't go back to read.

I remember exactly and there was no abuse involved ... except maybe on your end.

She asked you NOT to put the mail on the table. I bothered her when the mail was put on the dining room table, and you thought that was ridiculous for her to have this pet-peeve ... so you left an envelope on the table for when she got home.

That is abusive on your part. And every person who read that before you closed it, knows it to be true. Again ... since you hid your lie, I can't prove it.

I also remember that she was constantly on your back about something .. though that particular thing I don't remember exactly. But, I do believe it had something to do with dirty dishes.

The FACT that you refused to abide by your roommates request, and in FACT did it intentionally ... makes you the bad and abusive roommate.

I also remember about rental issues. Seems to me that you had the ability to live with your father. You couldn't bare living with her any longer and needed to move out. She was upset because your term wasn't over yet. But, you didn't want to live with your father. Who knows why not, you side stepped when asked.

My guess is because then you wouldn't be able to create more drama.

It happened once and not again. Why are you so confrontational and angry always? Get a grip.

I don't close my threads, I've never closed one. I think they become closed by the mods when it's been inactive awhile...I wouldn't know where to just close.

And it's not like I did those things purposely to spite her, I don't act like that.

You weren't there and don't know the full story. I never ever did anything PURPOSEFULLY. I bitched because the one time I forgot a butter knife in the sink I was blasted on Facebook instead of her just talking to me which I found not needed. Purposeful? No. Forgetful? Yes. I ended to having to set reminders and notes to make sure I didn't upset her. She says she was a bitch to live with and that's why she never had roommates. She took me in to make her more like her and teach me, her exact words. She tried to change everything.

It's like your pulling stuff out of thin air now. My father lives in Florida. My brothers dad who I'm still close with would have only been a temp thing and he just bought a new house with his gf and she didnt want anyone else living there when they just built a house from scratch and have grown children and my brother was there all summer. Also pretty common for a 25 year old to not want to live with parents regardless.

The fact that P Angel took the time out her life to remember your issue with your roomate is hilarious!


Like wtf only people with no life worry about somebody else's!! I swear she act like she never been through a heartache or any confrontation with her own flaws.


Get your old ass off this thread and worry about your own life!

You seriously need a new hobby instead of judging people you could be sucking your husband penis!!


Fuck off troll police! 😉

Heh aww 🙂

Curious, but what happened to the Leo you were practically jerking off to after a week?

Posted by Agentgem24

She says she really doesn't want to kick me out and does care about me...

We had agreed on a year, feb to feb. there was no written agreement etc and they don't need the money. But there was so much tension I thought it would be better to leave ....

That ^^^^ is what you said in the original post ... then below you talk out of the other side of your mouth.

Posted by Agentgem24

.... my roommate couldn't afford her rent and she was needing to sublease because she couldn't afford her end and I couldn't do it all.

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Looks like you can't seem to remember what comes out of your mouth.

Posted by Agentgem24

But there was so much tension I thought it would be better to leave, plus if I didn't move with my soon to be roomie in sept then I wouldn't be able to in feb, and I would have nobody.

Posted by Agentgem24

.... I have so many ppl offering to help with the month I need somewhere to be until aqua is ready.

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So, which is it?

You had nobody, or you had so many people?

You constantly double-talk, Gemini.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Agentgem24

But there was so much tension I thought it would be better to leave, plus if I didn't move with my soon to be roomie in sept then I wouldn't be able to in feb, and I would have nobody.

Posted by Agentgem24

.... I have so many ppl offering to help with the month I need somewhere to be until aqua is ready.

So, which is it?

You had nobody, or you had so many people?

You constantly double-talk, Gemini.

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You're such a piece of shit with clearly no happiness in your life. Do you not remember when I said I moved out in September? Two different roommates!! The one I mentioned about my sublease is my current aqua roommate who just turned 21 and we signed an actual apartment lease vs just me renting a room with a married couple. Jesus you're slow.

I had multiple people offering to help take me in (only the month I possibly was going to get kicked out. Stupid crap went down with Pisces in olive oil and I almost got kicked out over it so I needed somewhere to stay before aqua -current fucking roommate- was ready to move out) luckily the crisis was averted, she got over it and realized she accused me for using the $ 100 olive oil she had, but when she realized it was sealed...let me stay until the mid sept move out we agreed upon. Not to mention I gave a 4 months notice. If I couldn't move out when I did, nobody would be available as a roommate next month so this was also something I needed to do to secure living with aqua. The other people offering to help was very very temp.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Curious, but what happened to the Leo you were practically jerking off to after a week?

There was a long post about that in September. I did truly care for him but because I jumped into it too fast I ignored red flags. Like, "been on anxiety and depression meds all my life but not on them." "I'm mostly pansexual." "I don't feel like getting a job, and want to be a professional Viking" "I tried most drugs, thought about joining a cult, a few orgies etc" lying to his parents about having a job and being Christian when he quit the job he had after a week and was proud pagan etc. had issues with things I did but never mentioned them and let them build...he didnt know his own place I think. Went from saying he loved me and cooking with me, next day me being slightly moody because I switched hormones and I get a text saying "you know what I don't think I can do this. I'm not happy and haven't been for awhile." Last thing I ever heard from him. My 100% confirmation was being deleted from Facebook and a status "single again." Some of my friends think he could be gay and that's a very female thing to do. I've never had someone break things off so coldly and abruptly, not even someone I went on a few dates with vs someone that was serious and told me he loved me and wanted to get a place when my lease was up and could marry me, get a parrot together. He was clearly unstable. He apparently is also telling people I owe him $ 1000 he will never see, which is funny because he didnt even have $ 1000 to loan not to mention I never would have asked for that. I was pretty heart broken, but with time and friends, I realized I dodged several bullets. It was because of that though that made me not want to jump right into serious after a few dates! Only had to get severely beat up emotionally to take a step back