Twin Flames

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Mine 'ended' bad too, I found out he was married.

I met him in person in 2003, but I already knew his name because of a dream I had in 2000. He dialed my phone number by mistake, he meant to call his friend & this friend's number was exactly like mine except in the end. Mine ended with 32, his with 23. When he called me he realised it was a wrong #, but the call was nice (I'm usually annoyed by wrong numbers, but not that day lol) & it ended with a SHOCKER..he told me his name! His name is very unusual for it to be a coincident.

Wks later he called me again, saying he had something to tell me & that I must not think he is crazy for what he was about to say. He told me that he 'recognised' my voice when we talked last time & that the whole thing freaked him out & it has been on his mind for wks. We talked daily on the phone after that for about 6 mnths.

At last we decided to meet, I brought a friend along incase he was a psycho. Seeing him for the 1st time was amazing! While he was walking towards us, I told my friend that I feel like I know him, facially. He said 'hello', we walked to a restaurant & when we sat down he told me that he feels like he has seen me before! Remember the dream I had? We must have 'met' then.

The feeling while we sat there was too much for me, so I excused myself & went to the loo. When I returned he asked me to sit next to him, I did & he held my hand under the table..it felt electric lol. Long story short, we ended up making out in the men's loo & were kicked out of the restaurant lol.

We dated for 2 years 9 mnths until I discovered that he was married. We still meet though, as friends. I met him as recent as this past sunday. The End.
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Posted by Loveorlust
Twin flame isn't neccisarily about true love in the way maybe you are thinking... It's finding your other half .. Making you higher evolved on the spiritual path.. This is why it's rare, more rare than true love....does that make any sense?



It takes a while to realize that though through the pain & longing. It feels SO obsessive. Too many people are in agony over this & just want to be in a relationship with that person, until they reach that stage, you can't convince them otherwise. Some even take meds just to deal because it's that intense.
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Posted by Impulsv
It's a path to real unconditional love, it's no walk on the park as it it leads you to tearing down belief systems as they mirror you n building self back beautifully. It is a tough journey n even though we are not together I'm blessed to have met him. He brought me back to my true self.
We are friends but not talking now respecting his space. All I can say is at each reunion we both grew n shared lessons learned of self love, acceptance, meaning of life ect. We don't talk about it openly but last dec he hinted at knowing tf giving he cake ledges we were soul connection n emailed that acknowledgement dec 24 th at 1111 pm.
He is the most beautiful soul I've known even though I see his shadows.



I've seen your posts elsewhere, you know which place I'm talking about 😉 I've been lurking there for years, never posted. Your friend is a taurus, right? 🙂
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Posted by Impulsv
Yes that's it. Who are u lol. Then again you haven't posted😉



It was the 1st place I found while I was searching for the meaning of the scary things I was experiencing, I related so much so I stuck around, but without posting. This thing can make you doubt your sanity sometimes, so it's nice to have places like that to help you know that you aren't crazy.

Your story is so similar to mine, I also didn't know the details of my dream until I met him in person..the way he walked towards me gave it away & I remembered where I 'met' him before. I didn't tell him that though lol. He has no recollection of the dream, unless he is not telling me.
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I've known this guy for a while, but I never really interacted with him because I felt that he was to arrogant. Never payed to much time to him. A year later a circumstance happened where we both had to work together and finally spoke to him. After that day that we spoke weird things have been happening. I one day woke up in the middle of the night with throbbing chest pains and the first person that came into my mind was him, it was really odd. I kept getting these chest pains, but something kept telling me it was a spiritual connection and I never knew anything about this twin flame thing. I researched chest pain spiritual connection and thats when I found Twin Flame forums. Long story short I think we both had a hard time approaching each other because we both worked together. Since we stopped working together I have not felt the chest pains and the random sense of euphorias. So the other day I decided to email him and tell him how i felt. Since that day all I keep seeing is 11:11 on my clock, which i heard is another sign of twin flames. I emailed him Tuesday he hasn't responded so i'll give him till the end of the week, but if he doesn't respond then this will conclude that I'm just crazy and that he really isn't my twin flame.
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Posted by WaterCup
Mine 'ended' bad too, I found out he was married.

I met him in person in 2003, but I already knew his name because of a dream I had in 2000. He dialed my phone number by mistake, he meant to call his friend & this friend's number was exactly like mine except in the end. Mine ended with 32, his with 23. When he called me he realised it was a wrong #, but the call was nice (I'm usually annoyed by wrong numbers, but not that day lol) & it ended with a SHOCKER..he told me his name! His name is very unusual for it to be a coincident.

Wks later he called me again, saying he had something to tell me & that I must not think he is crazy for what he was about to say. He told me that he 'recognised' my voice when we talked last time & that the whole thing freaked him out & it has been on his mind for wks. We talked daily on the phone after that for about 6 mnths.

At last we decided to meet, I brought a friend along incase he was a psycho. Seeing him for the 1st time was amazing! While he was walking towards us, I told my friend that I feel like I know him, facially. He said 'hello', we walked to a restaurant & when we sat down he told me that he feels like he has seen me before! Remember the dream I had? We must have 'met' then.

The feeling while we sat there was too much for me, so I excused myself & went to the loo. When I returned he asked me to sit next to him, I did & he held my hand under the table..it felt electric lol. Long story short, we ended up making out in the men's loo & were kicked out of the restaurant lol.

We dated for 2 years 9 mnths until I discovered that he was married. We still meet though, as friends. I met him as recent as this past sunday. The End.



😕

That's a pretty amazing story-- even if he was an ass and didn't tell you he was married.

My eyes are like saucers.
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Posted by CrabPrincess
I've known this guy for a while, but I never really interacted with him because I felt that he was to arrogant. Never payed to much time to him. A year later a circumstance happened where we both had to work together and finally spoke to him. After that day that we spoke weird things have been happening. I one day woke up in the middle of the night with throbbing chest pains and the first person that came into my mind was him, it was really odd. I kept getting these chest pains, but something kept telling me it was a spiritual connection and I never knew anything about this twin flame thing. I researched chest pain spiritual connection and thats when I found Twin Flame forums. Long story short I think we both had a hard time approaching each other because we both worked together. Since we stopped working together I have not felt the chest pains and the random sense of euphorias. So the other day I decided to email him and tell him how i felt. Since that day all I keep seeing is 11:11 on my clock, which i heard is another sign of twin flames. I emailed him Tuesday he hasn't responded so i'll give him till the end of the week, but if he doesn't respond then this will conclude that I'm just crazy and that he really isn't my twin flame.



You just-- out of the blue emailed this guy about how you thought he was your Twin Flame?


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Posted by CrabPrincess
I've known this guy for a while, but I never really interacted with him because I felt that he was to arrogant. Never payed to much time to him. A year later a circumstance happened where we both had to work together and finally spoke to him. After that day that we spoke weird things have been happening. I one day woke up in the middle of the night with throbbing chest pains and the first person that came into my mind was him, it was really odd. I kept getting these chest pains, but something kept telling me it was a spiritual connection and I never knew anything about this twin flame thing. I researched chest pain spiritual connection and thats when I found Twin Flame forums. Long story short I think we both had a hard time approaching each other because we both worked together. Since we stopped working together I have not felt the chest pains and the random sense of euphorias. So the other day I decided to email him and tell him how i felt. Since that day all I keep seeing is 11:11 on my clock, which i heard is another sign of twin flames. I emailed him Tuesday he hasn't responded so i'll give him till the end of the week, but if he doesn't respond then this will conclude that I'm just crazy and that he really isn't my twin flame.

You just-- out of the blue emailed this guy about how you thought he was your Twin Flame?



No way! haha I just told him that I found him interesting and that I wanted to get to know him more.



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Rae are you still bothering with that Aries man?

Are you a masochist or what?

Maybe you need some kind of exorcism from him??


Based on my limited experience of Aquas, I think they secretly get kicks out of such dilemmas...
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Doesn't Rae have a Cancer Moon/Mars? It might be a combination of everything in her chart. She's more feminine, so i'm guessing that's why she loves her Aries/more macho man?
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Posted by RaeofSun
Yes, I have a Cancer Moon, which I hate, I wish I were/behaved more like an Aqua, but find myself to be more sensitive, giving a shit and moody! Hahaha

No, not still bothering with the Aries ma to that extent. Still friends though, but found that to be interesting. I've never heard of twin flames before.



my husband is my soulmate. that's all i know. LOL awww why don't you love all of you?

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Posted by CrabPrincess
I've been reading about this topic for sometime now and usually every story I've read about twin flames usually end bad.


I know this only too well. Just ask my twin sister...
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LOL i may have scuffles with you but damn you make me LOL at times.
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LonelyVirgo - This sounds a lot like my Scorpio. But he wouldnt dare use FB! Thats too public and omg looking into his life! Totally blew it with me but I feel he's constantly setting up "traps" for me to come and talk to him, and I won't do it. Like strategically placing himself in areas or just for me to catch a glimpse or something that reminds me of him because he is so socially awkward (or maybe a sociopath) and can never really initiate. Like he wants me to chase him and come talk to him, but I won't do it. He blew his chances. But the feelings I felt for him since I met him in 2010 was like something I will never be able to explain. It was maddening, crazy even. I swear I might have gone mad before over a few things when he vanished leaving me high and dry. But it was super intense. I dont think ill ever feel for someone like that again which is upsetting. I kind of hope I do though. Id like to feel that way about someone again.
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Posted by kalin
@LostinmyMind: your story gave me chills on my spine... what did you do to keep your life moving forward? my ex and i kept coming back to each other, but we brought out the worst in each other. every time we ended things terribly. i knew if we kept each other in our lives (even as friends), either i'd kill myself, or i'd kill him. i moved 1,000 miles away from him to end this. the physical distance helps, but the emotional pain just doesn't go away 😢



Honestly the year after it happened....is a total blur but Idk I just had to push forward...he wouldnt want me to be sad..plus my dream helped a lot looking back...it was like someone was helping me with what was gonna happen.

Wow..sounds like a very intense relationship! Sometimes you just have to break the cycle no matter how much it hurts!
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Posted by feby16aqua
My heart goes out to you limm. Wow it's a very touching story, this what happened in your life. How are you doing now with it?




thank you 🙂. Just taking it one day at a time really. Time really does heal...or makes it better to cope with...I think about him everyday still but I know that he isnt coming back :/

Im kinda numb to death now...a year later my grandmother died..who raised me. and then this year in may my dad died...so basically all the people I was close with are gone now :/
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I am an Aries and my Twin Flame is my Aqua Ex. We have known one another since 1994. We have been friends, engaged, enemies, and now we are on the road to being long distance friends. Our connection is intensely platonic with flames of sexual passion shooting through it. He hurt me pretty badly and though I have gotten over it...he is still carrying the pain around.

He is not as emotionally evolved as I am in a lot of ways and yet he is always teaching me about new cutting edge ideas and technology. We just seem to know what the other needs.

I think that we would be able to work as a couple if I were the man and he were the woman.

Either way, I believe that twin flames exist but, I don't necessarily think that we need to marry them. Sometimes, just talking to them a few times a year, being a docile Facebook friend and sending them good vibes is enough.

I have a Scorpio soul mate. I had to marry him off. He was too draining. lol. 🙂
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Mine 'ended' bad too, I found out he was married.

I met him in person in 2003, but I already knew his name because of a dream I had in 2000. He dialed my phone number by mistake, he meant to call his friend & this friend's number was exactly like mine except in the end. Mine ended with 32, his with 23. When he called me he realised it was a wrong #, but the call was nice (I'm usually annoyed by wrong numbers, but not that day lol) & it ended with a SHOCKER..he told me his name! His name is very unusual for it to be a coincident.

Wks later he called me again, saying he had something to tell me & that I must not think he is crazy for what he was about to say. He told me that he 'recognised' my voice when we talked last time & that the whole thing freaked him out & it has been on his mind for wks. We talked daily on the phone after that for about 6 mnths.

At last we decided to meet, I brought a friend along incase he was a psycho. Seeing him for the 1st time was amazing! While he was walking towards us, I told my friend that I feel like I know him, facially. He said 'hello', we walked to a restaurant & when we sat down he told me that he feels like he has seen me before! Remember the dream I had? We must have 'met' then.

The feeling while we sat there was too much for me, so I excused myself & went to the loo. When I returned he asked me to sit next to him, I did & he held my hand under the table..it felt electric lol. Long story short, we ended up making out in the men's loo & were kicked out of the restaurant lol.

We dated for 2 years 9 mnths until I discovered that he was married. We still meet though, as friends. I met him as recent as this past sunday. The End.


Nearly THREE YEARS before you found out he was married?!

What gives?
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His wife lives in another continent. Even when he did speak to her when I was around I couldn't add 1 + 1 due to the language difference.