Venus in Scorpio . Do you like to annoy to upset the one you love and care for?

At first, I knew he does things purposely to annoy me or upset me but then I see it as mind game and manipulation.. now what I am seeing very very clearly the way he is towards his new baby is. He just loveeeeeeee annoying him.. like, he likes seeing him upset!! He would always annoy him when he's on my breast n stuff lol.. He puts so much effort to get an upset reaction. I feel like that's how they love?? it's so bloody weired and I can't really understand it.. he says it himself he likes to upset him .. but he does show love n care for but this energy isn't very sail smoothing .. almost like no pain no real pleasure.. So what r u guys like?

Posted by busyeyes88
That's got nothing to do with his Venus sign. Are you seriously going to let a man upset your baby on purpose and blame his Venus—?

So many babies and children get abused by their parents... You better watch him. It's not a joke. If that is how he loves, that is sick and you are even sicker to entertain it...

I agree completely

Honey, get away...and fast.

Wait wait. He's actually extremely passionate and affectionate towards his baby though. and he's never been once physically abusive to me. he won't stop kissing his baby.

but yes I will keep watching him. he doesn't like full on upset upset upset. Just annoy him a little bit to get his attention. My mum does it too actually but not as often.

Posted by starwars
maybe he wants attention from the child so he upset him, which is also weird lol

I think so.. he Pretends to be stealing my breast from him... by putting his face on my breast n pretend to drink while he's sucking.. a few times now he's done this.. My boy is 3 months old.. n he did the * no ! In a cute voice * and my baby makes a sad face.. n he says * my brother used to hateeee it when I said this to him when he was a baby ... * but again he loves his brother very dearly.. so I don't know man lol

Posted by Koniuchaa
I really think you are reaching for straws with this guy.

One minute he likes seeing his child upset, the next you say he is passionate about him. Venus has nothing to do with this.

I would say the affection out weights the upset. he plays with him n everything n won't stop kissing him and cuddling him. even so maybe more affectionate than me. but likes to make him upset when he's on my breast . maybe he's secretly jealous attention my boy is getting on my breast coz he keeps asking if I introduce bottle for him yet .. weired weired weired.

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Posted by starwars
maybe he wants attention from the child so he upset him, which is also weird lol

I think so.. he Pretends to be stealing my breast from him... by putting his face on my breast n pretend to drink while he's sucking.. a few times now he's done this.. My boy is 3 months old.. n he did the * no ! In a cute voice * and my baby makes a sad face.. n he says * my brother used to hateeee it when I said this to him when he was a baby ... * but again he loves his brother very dearly.. so I don't know man lol

lmao tmi!!

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What's TMI ?

Posted by K_1018
No. That's childish. Maybe his Venus is in Creepy weirdo.

I don't know man. lol. I will keep watching his behaviour though.

Yeah.. You're obsessed... You gotta let go...

Posted by arose32
Yeah.. You're obsessed... You gotta let go...

Its a little hard to let go of something that brings me so much happiness at the same time. I am a Taurus after all. Stubborn n stupid lol.

Damn yall savages lol

Posted by starlover
He loves annoying your baby

Weirdo

Lol it's his baby too. Yes maybe he is a true weirdo

I would try to discourage that. Doing the "my mommy" game is cute (until/unless the child starts getting too upset), but don't play it with the bewbies, or alteast not during feeding time. He might not mean any harm but it's just one of those things that's going a lil too far.

Posted by AriElla7
I would try to discourage that. Doing the "my mommy" game is cute (until/unless the child starts getting too upset), but don't play it with the bewbies, or alteast not during feeding time. He might not mean any harm but it's just one of those things that's going a lil too far.

Yeah if he ever does it again I would tell him not to.

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Posted by busyeyes88
That's got nothing to do with his Venus sign. Are you seriously going to let a man upset your baby on purpose and blame his Venus—?

So many babies and children get abused by their parents... You better watch him. It's not a joke. If that is how he loves, that is sick and you are even sicker to entertain it...

N just because it's Scorpio wtf all u know it's his sag ass sign

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I am a sag allergic at the moment

Venus in scorpio has nothing to do with this.

Never could I be comfortable teasing an infant! This man is jealous of your baby and it shows. He wants the attention and probably resents the baby a little, breastfeeding is an intimate bond between mother and child the whole process is beautiful and his negative immature energy shouldn't be present during those feedings...

I mean maybe he loves his kid and you too but this isn't normal. You have to talk to him and put a stop to this. If it's not the baby it'll be something else.

Sag men.... so dam bizarre..

Post his natal chart up here so we can further analyze his odd behavior

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Posted by saweetz1988
At first, I knew he does things purposely to annoy me or upset me but then I see it as mind game and manipulation.. now what I am seeing very very clearly the way he is towards his new baby is. He just loveeeeeeee annoying him.. like, he likes seeing him upset!! He would always annoy him when he's on my breast n stuff lol.. He puts so much effort to get an upset reaction. I feel like that's how they love?? it's so bloody weired and I can't really understand it.. he says it himself he likes to upset him .. but he does show love n care for but this energy isn't very sail smoothing .. almost like no pain no real pleasure.. So what r u guys like?

I have Scorpio Venus and I love to annoy and upset people I like. Sometimes I cross the line.

His Venus Sign might have something to do with it... BUT, you are still a fucking idiot for letting that psycho upset your baby!

You don't purposely upset babies. It's just wrong. That man is borderline psycho and you are out of your mind as well.

You do know that he could be causing permanent psychological damage to your child, right? Do you need to be slapped or something?

Bitch wake up and smell the coffee. Your baby is at risk.

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Honestly he doesn't do it all the time. He sees the child once a month if that. he tries to steal the boobs. but apart from that he's very affectionate towards to baby. but I get your point and your concern. I will not let ever do that again. My mum did the same thing, she would be pulling my baby's legs softly while he's sucking on the boobs to annoy him!!! mayb I'm

Involved with psychos lol. Don't worry guys, my baby is my world and people say he's overwhelmed by my love. I will never let anyone hurt him. He's in my car and now I'm not talking to mum coz she yelled n screamed at me while I was holding the baby so non of that behaviour either. I don't think I'm stupid enough to let him abuse the child. I'm watching the signs. He's the father but I'm also keeping close eyes on him hence why I'm creating these threads. I'm figuring out his behaviour.

Post his natal chart

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Venus in scorpio has nothing to do with this.

Never could I be comfortable teasing an infant! This man is jealous of your baby and it shows. He wants the attention and probably resents the baby a little, breastfeeding is an intimate bond between mother and child the whole process is beautiful and his negative immature energy shouldn't be present during those feedings...

I mean maybe he loves his kid and you too but this isn't normal. You have to talk to him and put a stop to this. If it's not the baby it'll be something else.

Sag men.... so dam bizarre..

Post his natal chart up here so we can further analyze his odd behavior

Thank god someone has a better answer to my question and not so critical about it lol. A few times he has mentioned when I'm going to start feeding him bottles at night !! My baby is 3 months old and he said that since almost first month.. It's obvious he's jealous of the baby.. but he's so good at hiding it and instead play these odd games.. !!! he used to have all my attention to him self.. but now this baby has replaced him a whole lot.. I'm sure we both love this baby but his immature acts need to stop I totally agree.. mind you, we had a happy family time together. He sings to the baby and everything and play and affectionate. But when it comes to feeding I think he feels left out..— So weired

sun in sag. Venus in Scorpio. Moon in Capricorn . Mercury in Sag. Mars in Aries. Jupiter in Taurus . Saturn, Uranus , Neptune in Capricorn . Pluto in Scorpio . Lilith in Virgo . Asc node in Pisces

Sorry I don't know how to post the chart any other way.

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Posted by Impulsv

Posted by busyeyes88
That's got nothing to do with his Venus sign. Are you seriously going to let a man upset your baby on purpose and blame his Venus—?

So many babies and children get abused by their parents... You better watch him. It's not a joke. If that is how he loves, that is sick and you are even sicker to entertain it...

N just because it's Scorpio wtf all u know it's his sag ass sign

What are you talking about?! I'm trying to tell the OP that that behaviour has nothing to do with any sign! She forever blames Venus in Scorpio for EVERYTHING but this young Taurus has serious issues. Now it's beginning to affect her baby...

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sweetz is a Taurus?

why is she ignoring what others are saying that it's bad.

it's like she's enjoying everyone saying it's bad and not feeling bad about what he's doing.

Wow. U guys r nothing but judgmental. u never know me in person how can u judge my mother skill? I mentioned facts that he only sees him at the moment once a month. It's his baby. The father is not at all physically abusive or verbally abhsive. He kisses his baby with such affection .. n hold him and very affectionate. Just the boobs act that I find a bit odd. that is all. you guys need to get a grip n stop judging. Good old dxp never change. lol if I didn't care or is a bad mother I wouldn't be posting these threads asking if the boob behaviour is normal. apart from that he's a caring father physically towards his son. I have cut tide with my own mother because she was yelling at me while I was holding the baby. That behaviour u unacceptable. But you guys refuse to see the good things I do right.. lol anyway. keep going guys