@saweetz1988
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Posted by dewiklaessen1991
What exactly do you wanna know my boyfriend is Saggitarius with Venus in Scorpio can be very controlling pushy, demanding, loyal, passionate and jealous. Sensitive also
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Dated one. Well... tried to. It didn't take long to realize he was an alcoholic and wasn't ready to seek help. But I wanted to second sensitive. He had a Cancer moon to boot. Former military with PTSD and drinking and smoking his problems away. But sensitive and sweet and goofy and charming and sex on legs and manipulative AF.
I've jumped right in with great enthusiasm, then fucked it all up somehow. Most of my relationships have been like a flash fire that burned out too hot and too quickly.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Dated one. Well... tried to. It didn't take long to realize he was an alcoholic and wasn't ready to seek help. But I wanted to second sensitive. He had a Cancer moon to boot. Former military with PTSD and drinking and smoking his problems away. But sensitive and sweet and goofy and charming and sex on legs and manipulative AF.
OMG I've finally closed the door with a girl with the same placements. She's addicted to four bars and she has to drink and smoke so much.. But college student.. I'm glad you made it out.. It's like a black hole that consumes you!!
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Just imagine your regular everyday Sagittarius, but behind closed doors they are incredibly jealous, possessive, and controlling. That's what it's like to date one.
And violent... It's almost as if they express their feelings through pain... Maybe the younger ones?
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Posted by Harukaa
I don't know why there always a qs about sag-with venus in scorpiobut I know one thing for sure
Sag with venus in scorpio are a real lovers
They are in love with you very hard or they are don't even remember you
All in or out. No middle ground even if we fake it.
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Posted by arose32
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Just imagine your regular everyday Sagittarius, but behind closed doors they are incredibly jealous, possessive, and controlling. That's what it's like to date one.
And violent... It's almost as if they express their feelings through pain... Maybe the younger ones?
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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Just imagine your regular everyday Sagittarius, but behind closed doors they are incredibly jealous, possessive, and controlling. That's what it's like to date one.
I think as an aqua moon n Venus in Gemini. I need a lot of verbal communication. When it's not offered as much I feel like there's something else hidden or secrets somewhere?? Then when I c him it's all ok cause he's able to please my Taurus sun need for deep addiction n passionate... I just find him extremely complicated lol
Deep affection **
It's like they're obsessive... But not to you.. The game... And, they're so manipulative with it; you'll begin to adjust to it... My ex has a cancer moon and it's almost as if she thinks heartbreak is the only way to tell if someone love you. It take some time to move on because they mess with your mind so much... I thank God I'm not blind anymore... I don't recommend anyone to date a younger Sag sun scorp venus (un evolved type)
They prey and hunt... And wear you down and hate you for the fact they're in love with you... And will make you pay.
I'm Sag with Scorpio in Venus,Mercury, Jupiter, Pluto, and N Node. I love with all I have when in a relationship, and will do anything for that person. I find it hard to find someone who can give me all that I give them, and I have a hope that they will change even if they never will. My family is very dear to me and I have a twin sister who is my best friend, when it comes to friends they're also family( the ones that are as loyal to me as I them). I can't keep secrets it's not in my nature, and I don't play games with people's heads. I expect the most from my partner, fuck me over and you're dead to me.
The only way to dig deeper is trust, and to trust you takes proving yourself to me and that will take some time.
Posted by cosmicbutter
Ted bundy
You know he's one of my favorite psychopaths...next to Manson. Just thought I put that out there.
I have Venus in Scorpio and I can say that I have a strong jealous streak. Some days I feel like a territorial dog. Controlling? No. I don't want to be controlled, so why would I control someone else? I feel like my Venus sign is the reason I want a committed relationship.
Posted by arose32
It's like they're obsessive... But not to you.. The game... And, they're so manipulative with it; you'll begin to adjust to it... My ex has a cancer moon and it's almost as if she thinks heartbreak is the only way to tell if someone love you. It take some time to move on because they mess with your mind so much... I thank God I'm not blind anymore... I don't recommend anyone to date a younger Sag sun scorp venus (un evolved type)They prey and hunt... And wear you down and hate you for the fact they're in love with you... And will make you pay.
Posted by Imarollin
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Posted by Harukaa
I don't know why there always a qs about sag-with venus in scorpiobut I know one thing for sure
Sag with venus in scorpio are a real lovers
They are in love with you very hard or they are don't even remember you
All in or out. No middle ground even if we fake it.
How do u fake it?
Well I've been in love once. I've gone on hundreds of dates. I've dated maybe .. 5 people short term?
When I date someone but I don't instantly feel that attraction, I consider myself faking it, I'm trying to see if I can make it work but deep down, I already know.
It's instant or its never. From my past experience.
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Posted by Chelsey07
Posted by cosmicbutter
Ted bundy
You know he's one of my favorite psychopaths...next to Manson. Just thought I put that out there.
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by Chelsey07
Posted by cosmicbutter
Ted bundy
You know he's one of my favorite psychopaths...next to Manson. Just thought I put that out there.
Oh god..... 😢click to expand
Oh geez, I didn't mean for that to come off that way. I should've put an emoji or something. Oops.
Posted by AriesLady8
This tread is so crazy for me to read. It's actually mind blowing. My ex has your exact placements. Taurus sun. Aqua moon. Gemini Venus.... And the girl he cheated on me with has your boyfriends exact placements. Sag sun, Scorpio Venus.
Like wow. It all makes sense now. How you all describe the behavior of these placements makes my situation make so much sense.
I'm sorry your boyfriend wasn't faithful.....and this is the reason why i have decided to be alone until i can finally b free from him yet i don't know when that is... i don't wanna hurt anyone else... 😢
i HATE BEING STUCK in a rutt with him ..its like i can't get in yet i can't get out.... i think they are a bit of a psychic or something. the min i feel like pulling away, he comes closer.. then i go closer and he pulls away... i'm stuck with him for life though... i'm holding his child T-T
what are your placements?
Posted by Chelsey07
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Posted by cosmicbutter
Ted bundy
You know he's one of my favorite psychopaths...next to Manson. Just thought I put that out there.
Oh god..... 😢
Oh geez, I didn't mean for that to come off that way. I should've put an emoji or something. Oops.
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with mine.. i feel he can't handle this placement well at all ... and he drags me in there with him... somehow... i'm lost to be honest..
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Posted by Chelsey07
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Posted by Chelsey07
Posted by cosmicbutter
Ted bundy
You know he's one of my favorite psychopaths...next to Manson. Just thought I put that out there.
Oh god..... 😢
Oh geez, I didn't mean for that to come off that way. I should've put an emoji or something. Oops.
I have another friend who has a lot more scorpio in her chart..sun scorpio and venus in scorpio.. they handle this placement better.. she invests all in her relationships and that includes me... she has done SO MUCH for me since my move...its extreme... i feel a very very strong scorpio intense love from her....stuck with her ex husband for 6 years now... dramatic non healthy relationship but she never really moved on yet...with mine.. i feel he can't handle this placement well at all ... and he drags me in there with him... somehow... i'm lost to be honest..
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Okay, now I'm worried. I'm sorry you have to deal with that level of intensity.
Posted by arose32
It's like they're obsessive... But not to you.. The game... And, they're so manipulative with it; you'll begin to adjust to it... My ex has a cancer moon and it's almost as if she thinks heartbreak is the only way to tell if someone love you. It take some time to move on because they mess with your mind so much... I thank God I'm not blind anymore... I don't recommend anyone to date a younger Sag sun scorp venus (un evolved type)They prey and hunt... And wear you down and hate you for the fact they're in love with you... And will make you pay.
The father of my children has this placement as well Sag sun Venus in Scorp He told me those exact words, That he hates me because he loves me so much. He even has a tattoo that says "some Love to hate me, others hate to love me." This thread is making things make more sense. Wow.
Extremely jealous/controlling manipulative and is intense in love. 10 years knowing him I have learned him and it makes our relationship better for me because I don't get dragged down to hell or engage in his shenanigans as much. I've tried leaving before. It is literally like a black hole that you can't escape. As we have grown and matured our relationship is not as chaotic as it once was. And we have this connection it's crazy. He can tell me just about anything since we have been so close for so long and vise versa. But he still has trust issues... I used to always think the ONLY way this man keeps accusing me of shit I'm not doing is if HE IS the one doing things behind my back. But now I wonder if it's just in his nature with VIS to be overly jealous and suspicious
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Posted by medusax94
The only way to dig deeper is trust, and to trust you takes proving yourself to me and that will take some time.
How old are you?
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24
Posted by ragingfirelove
Posted by arose32
It's like they're obsessive... But not to you.. The game... And, they're so manipulative with it; you'll begin to adjust to it... My ex has a cancer moon and it's almost as if she thinks heartbreak is the only way to tell if someone love you. It take some time to move on because they mess with your mind so much... I thank God I'm not blind anymore... I don't recommend anyone to date a younger Sag sun scorp venus (un evolved type)They prey and hunt... And wear you down and hate you for the fact they're in love with you... And will make you pay.
The father of my children has this placement as well Sag sun Venus in Scorp He told me those exact words, That he hates me because he loves me so much. He even has a tattoo that says "some Love to hate me, others hate to love me." This thread is making things make more sense. Wow.
Extremely jealous/controlling manipulative and is intense in love. 10 years knowing him I have learned him and it makes our relationship better for me because I don't get dragged down to hell or engage in his shenanigans as much. I've tried leaving before. It is literally like a black hole that you can't escape. As we have grown and matured our relationship is not as chaotic as it once was. And we have this connection it's crazy. He can tell me just about anything since we have been so close for so long and vise versa. But he still has trust issues... I used to always think the ONLY way this man keeps accusing me of shit I'm not doing is if HE IS the one doing things behind my back. But now I wonder if it's just in his nature with VIS to be overly jealous and suspicious
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He's more than likely overly jealous and suspicious, not doing things behind your back. Especially if he says he has trust issues, he needs constant reassurance.
Posted by medusax94
Posted by ragingfirelove
Posted by arose32
It's like they're obsessive... But not to you.. The game... And, they're so manipulative with it; you'll begin to adjust to it... My ex has a cancer moon and it's almost as if she thinks heartbreak is the only way to tell if someone love you. It take some time to move on because they mess with your mind so much... I thank God I'm not blind anymore... I don't recommend anyone to date a younger Sag sun scorp venus (un evolved type)They prey and hunt... And wear you down and hate you for the fact they're in love with you... And will make you pay.
The father of my children has this placement as well Sag sun Venus in Scorp He told me those exact words, That he hates me because he loves me so much. He even has a tattoo that says "some Love to hate me, others hate to love me." This thread is making things make more sense. Wow.
Extremely jealous/controlling manipulative and is intense in love. 10 years knowing him I have learned him and it makes our relationship better for me because I don't get dragged down to hell or engage in his shenanigans as much. I've tried leaving before. It is literally like a black hole that you can't escape. As we have grown and matured our relationship is not as chaotic as it once was. And we have this connection it's crazy. He can tell me just about anything since we have been so close for so long and vise versa. But he still has trust issues... I used to always think the ONLY way this man keeps accusing me of shit I'm not doing is if HE IS the one doing things behind my back. But now I wonder if it's just in his nature with VIS to be overly jealous and suspicious
He's more than likely overly jealous and suspicious, not doing things behind your back. Especially if he says he has trust issues, he needs constant reassurance.
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He has ur exact placements! Sag sun, aqua asc, and Libra moon
You know how happy that makes me lol. Because a part of me didn't really think he was sneaking around but then again I wouldn't be surprised because of his past history
But we have both matured. He tells me he doesn't want anyone else and I think I believe him... possibly until some exciting hot thang comes his way. I don't even care. I can't care or I might get hurt I stay slightly detached to protect myself. But he knows I've always been there for him and REALLY love and care for him whereas these other women out here do not and don't really know him like that. VIS appreciates that loyalty and deep connection
You know back in the day I think he might have been tempted to go for the exciting new hot thang but now he just wants loyalty and to go deeper into what we already have. Honestly i think he might entertain the thought of something new but not act on it.
Omg they just might be psychic ... But what is it that cause the victims to make them want to seek us. I'm a sag sun Leo moon.. Cancer Mars and Aquarius Venus also... I love her to death, but I am not getting consumed in that intoxication anymore...
What do you guys think it is that makes them choose us? 🤔
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Posted by saweetz1988
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Posted by Harukaa
I don't know why there always a qs about sag-with venus in scorpiobut I know one thing for sure
Sag with venus in scorpio are a real lovers
They are in love with you very hard or they are don't even remember you
All in or out. No middle ground even if we fake it.
How do u fake it?
Well I've been in love once. I've gone on hundreds of dates. I've dated maybe .. 5 people short term?
When I date someone but I don't instantly feel that attraction, I consider myself faking it, I'm trying to see if I can make it work but deep down, I already know.
It's instant or its never. From my past experience.
How long were your short term ones? Are you over your first love? that instant attraction what were they... And sexually were you extremely passionate to those you weren't in love with ? Thank you .. You are helping me alot
You're getting real personal now lol.
Jk
Unm...
Short terms were like a year. Less.. Like a month.
I am over my first love.
I am not passionate with those I dont care about.. But I can use it like a switch. I have turned it on at will when I wanted to get laid.
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Posted by Harukaa
I don't know why there always a qs about sag-with venus in scorpiobut I know one thing for sure
Sag with venus in scorpio are a real lovers
They are in love with you very hard or they are don't even remember you
All in or out. No middle ground even if we fake it.
How do u fake it?
Well I've been in love once. I've gone on hundreds of dates. I've dated maybe .. 5 people short term?
When I date someone but I don't instantly feel that attraction, I consider myself faking it, I'm trying to see if I can make it work but deep down, I already know.
It's instant or its never. From my past experience.
How long were your short term ones? Are you over your first love? that instant attraction what were they... And sexually were you extremely passionate to those you weren't in love with ? Thank you .. You are helping me alot
You're getting real personal now lol.
Jk
Unm...
Short terms were like a year. Less.. Like a month.
I am over my first love.
I am not passionate with those I dont care about.. But I can use it like a switch. I have turned it on at will when I wanted to get laid.
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Posted by arose32
It's like they're obsessive... But not to you.. The game... And, they're so manipulative with it; you'll begin to adjust to it... My ex has a cancer moon and it's almost as if she thinks heartbreak is the only way to tell if someone love you. It take some time to move on because they mess with your mind so much... I thank God I'm not blind anymore... I don't recommend anyone to date a younger Sag sun scorp venus (un evolved type)They prey and hunt... And wear you down and hate you for the fact they're in love with you... And will make you pay.
The father of my children has this placement as well Sag sun Venus in Scorp He told me those exact words, That he hates me because he loves me so much. He even has a tattoo that says "some Love to hate me, others hate to love me." This thread is making things make more sense. Wow.
Extremely jealous/controlling manipulative and is intense in love. 10 years knowing him I have learned him and it makes our relationship better for me because I don't get dragged down to hell or engage in his shenanigans as much. I've tried leaving before. It is literally like a black hole that you can't escape. As we have grown and matured our relationship is not as chaotic as it once was. And we have this connection it's crazy. He can tell me just about anything since we have been so close for so long and vise versa. But he still has trust issues... I used to always think the ONLY way this man keeps accusing me of shit I'm not doing is if HE IS the one doing things behind my back. But now I wonder if it's just in his nature with VIS to be overly jealous and suspicious
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Posted by ragingfirelove
Posted by medusax94
Posted by ragingfirelove
Posted by arose32
It's like they're obsessive... But not to you.. The game... And, they're so manipulative with it; you'll begin to adjust to it... My ex has a cancer moon and it's almost as if she thinks heartbreak is the only way to tell if someone love you. It take some time to move on because they mess with your mind so much... I thank God I'm not blind anymore... I don't recommend anyone to date a younger Sag sun scorp venus (un evolved type)They prey and hunt... And wear you down and hate you for the fact they're in love with you... And will make you pay.
The father of my children has this placement as well Sag sun Venus in Scorp He told me those exact words, That he hates me because he loves me so much. He even has a tattoo that says "some Love to hate me, others hate to love me." This thread is making things make more sense. Wow.
Extremely jealous/controlling manipulative and is intense in love. 10 years knowing him I have learned him and it makes our relationship better for me because I don't get dragged down to hell or engage in his shenanigans as much. I've tried leaving before. It is literally like a black hole that you can't escape. As we have grown and matured our relationship is not as chaotic as it once was. And we have this connection it's crazy. He can tell me just about anything since we have been so close for so long and vise versa. But he still has trust issues... I used to always think the ONLY way this man keeps accusing me of shit I'm not doing is if HE IS the one doing things behind my back. But now I wonder if it's just in his nature with VIS to be overly jealous and suspicious
He's more than likely overly jealous and suspicious, not doing things behind your back. Especially if he says he has trust issues, he needs constant reassurance.
He has ur exact placements! Sag sun, aqua asc, and Libra moon
You know how happy that makes me lol. Because a part of me didn't really think he was sneaking around but then again I wouldn't be surprised because of his past history
But we have both matured. He tells me he doesn't want anyone else and I think I believe him... possibly until some exciting hot thang comes his way. I don't even care. I can't care or I might get hurt I stay slightly detached to protect myself. But he knows I've always been there for him and REALLY love and care for him whereas these other women out here do not and don't really know him like that. VIS appreciates that loyalty and deep connectionclick to expand
I heard somewhere that a libra moon and Venus in Scorpio can have a double life is that true?
Posted by ragingfirelove
You know back in the day I think he might have been tempted to go for the exciting new hot thang but now he just wants loyalty and to go deeper into what we already have. Honestly i think he might entertain the thought of something new but not act on it.
Posted by arose32
Omg they just might be psychic ... But what is it that cause the victims to make them want to seek us. I'm a sag sun Leo moon.. Cancer Mars and Aquarius Venus also... I love her to death, but I am not getting consumed in that intoxication anymore...What do you guys think it is that makes them choose us? 🤔
Posted by saweetz1988
I heard somewhere that a libra moon and Venus in Scorpio can have a double life is that true?
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by arose32
Omg they just might be psychic ... But what is it that cause the victims to make them want to seek us. I'm a sag sun Leo moon.. Cancer Mars and Aquarius Venus also... I love her to death, but I am not getting consumed in that intoxication anymore...What do you guys think it is that makes them choose us? 🤔
I'm not so sure if I shud feel lucky... lol T-T Are you together with ur gf? So she has those placements?click to expand
My placement is sag sun, Leo moon, aqua Venus, and cancer Mars..
She's the sag sun, cancer moon, scorp Venus... But Geesh man... I just said my final good bye. We were doing good.. I thought so at least. Moving forward. Then a couple days ago I ask her why she hates me so much because she treats me badly and she was like "I don't hate you you just want what I don't have time for. I want to have fun and Etc" which confused me because she didn't let me know. I would have kept my distance... She the one who kept blowing me up etc so I thought I could take her serious and stuff. So I was like cool..
But I'm getting over it now. I'll be fine... Just mad at myself for letting her play me. The next day she texts me and says "hey I hate to ignore you ya know but you're going to be something great soon. I knw it. Love ya" and I knew then it's time to move on. She rubbed it in my face... I'm sorry but I love too differently than her.. Maybe someone can understand her but for now... I'm chilling focusing on me .. Going. To establish my company more and more
But leave him alone ... Don't let him pull you back in ... What they do isn't love.. It's torture. And I can say that.. Being with her was pure torture.. Have courage and move on.
@arose yay.. I get you.. my situation is a bit more difficult.. I can't just cut him off completely... but we will see what happens in the future..
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Posted by saweetz1988
I heard somewhere that a libra moon and Venus in Scorpio can have a double life is that true?
Depends on which side is brought out of me. But that could be anyone,right?
About what you said above... Yeah, my ex and I were addicted to each other sexually .. It wasn't possible to be in each other's atmosphere and not collide into one another.
I hope I never see him again.
He was a Libra sun, gem moon, scorp mars, scorp Venus.
Our synnestry was really hot.
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I heard somewhere that a libra moon and Venus in Scorpio can have a double life is that true?
Depends on which side is brought out of me. But that could be anyone,right?
About what you said above... Yeah, my ex and I were addicted to each other sexually .. It wasn't possible to be in each other's atmosphere and not collide into one another.
I hope I never see him again.
He was a Libra sun, gem moon, scorp mars, scorp Venus.
Our synnestry was really hot.
So you and him share the same Venus?
Yes mam
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Posted by Chelsey07
Posted by cosmicbutter
Ted bundy
You know he's one of my favorite psychopaths...next to Manson. Just thought I put that out there.
"fav" psychopath. I see. I hope you are not into psychopaths. lol
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You want to drive him away... Don't fight back. Just look at him when he acts Krazy.... Just say okay... Don't be mad or sad to them, just make yourself go NUMB. Cry about it secretly and GET OVER IT... You have to. They are not healthy bro... To me, they're more of a Scorpio than a Scorpio... I swear at times she's nothing like a sag. He will continue to sting you... It's better out there.
And I've went to counseling before ... About her. I know what you're going through... Just get over it ... You're happier without him and don't realize it. Just move on... And also tell him to his face how much of a sick person he is. But you have to move on ma'am... Don't let him keep putting you through pain
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Posted by Chelsey07
Posted by cosmicbutter
Ted bundy
You know he's one of my favorite psychopaths...next to Manson. Just thought I put that out there.
"fav" psychopath. I see. I hope you are not into psychopaths. lol
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Not at all. I find them intriguing on an intellectual level. Nothing more.
Posted by arose32
You want to drive him away... Don't fight back. Just look at him when he acts Krazy.... Just say okay... Don't be mad or sad to them, just make yourself go NUMB. Cry about it secretly and GET OVER IT... You have to. They are not healthy bro... To me, they're more of a Scorpio than a Scorpio... I swear at times she's nothing like a sag. He will continue to sting you... It's better out there.And I've went to counseling before ... About her. I know what you're going through... Just get over it ... You're happier without him and don't realize it. Just move on... And also tell him to his face how much of a sick person he is. But you have to move on ma'am... Don't let him keep putting you through pain
Posted by Imarollin
Sometimes the best thing you can do is trust someone first and lead the way.
Just be careful and try to stop going back to what broke you.. You'll never heal fully.. I wish y'all luck because I can tell you love him. Just remember sometimes love isn't enough...
And Remember your kid is watching EVERYTHING you go through. If you love your child... Leave him when he acts that way. Seriously.. LEAVE him. Leave him if you have to save yourself for your kid... When someone loves you and don't want to love you, they begin to show hatred towards you.. Because they want you to leave... When he pushes you away, LEAVE. Be STRONG.
Posted by arose32
And Remember your kid is watching EVERYTHING you go through. If you love your child... Leave him when he acts that way. Seriously.. LEAVE him. Leave him if you have to save yourself for your kid... When someone loves you and don't want to love you, they begin to show hatred towards you.. Because they want you to leave... When he pushes you away, LEAVE. Be STRONG.
I don't just love him.. My everything almost belong to him it sucks I hate it but I am trying to be strong and stand my ground.
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I wanna hear how u approach love relationships in general as well as ur family members and if any( your kids)? How do u balance the different placements in ur chart as two r completely opposite. Is it still in ur nature to keep some sort of secrets .. Whether that is bad secrets or not.. What makes you that way and is there a way to ever ever ever get you to open up everything fully about your life ? If not fully, how does one get into you deeper ? Reveal things about yourself more openly ? Etc.. Thanks 🙂 ps: do u keep more secrets and mysteries to everyone u R close to—