Damnata
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You Tarzan/ Me Jane
YOU CARDINAL, YOUR PARTNER MUTABLE
Get ready to get rich. Quick. Get ready too, to spend it all in a weekend. Or to lose it all in one ill thought out investment that neither of you can see the drawback in. Your finances will fluctuate like a yo yo.
Nor will they be the only things that never stop going up and down. You'll have a lot of fun. You'll fancy each other something rotten. You'll tease and amuse one another. Boredom will never, ever set in.
Exasperation though, will be your constant companion. You will see, reflected back to you from your companion, the trickiest traits in your own personality. To compensate for your own excesses as well as theirs, you will try to be the sensible one. You won't manage it. And then you'll end up wanting to be more rash than ever, just because you are so cross with yourself for having tried to play a role that doesn't suit you.
This is a relationship that it is almost impossible to bring to an end. The attraction is strong - and you will both keep changing your mind about whether or not it is really working. Is this bad or good?
It depends on what else our astrological love computer tells us in a few days time... But its certainly not all bad. Just resolve to enjoy what's good about it. And resolve too, to maintain that attitude, one day at a time, forever.
YOU FIXED, YOUR PARTNER FIXED
They say that heaven is a place on earth. They also of course, say the same about the other place. If you have turned to this reading because it you have an actual relationship of this kind, you will already know, for a fact, that one of those statements is true.
If you are 'just browsing' with a view to checking out a potential partner, you will probably want to know WHICH of those places you are likely to be transported to.
Let's put it this way. It will either be one or the other.
There's only one way to find out. For the first ten years or so, you probably won't be too sure. You'll probably decide to try another ten or twenty years, just to be on the safe side. The trouble is, if you are not careful, you will still go that way regardless of whether it is heaven or hell.
The attraction is strong. The ability to break the bond is small. The need to think very, very carefully is enormous. Unless of course, you are already in the relationship. In which case, we'd better look, at the other factors revealed by our love computer in PART TWO - just to make sure you both en
Get ready to get rich. Quick. Get ready too, to spend it all in a weekend. Or to lose it all in one ill thought out investment that neither of you can see the drawback in. Your finances will fluctuate like a yo yo.
Nor will they be the only things that never stop going up and down. You'll have a lot of fun. You'll fancy each other something rotten. You'll tease and amuse one another. Boredom will never, ever set in.
Exasperation though, will be your constant companion. You will see, reflected back to you from your companion, the trickiest traits in your own personality. To compensate for your own excesses as well as theirs, you will try to be the sensible one. You won't manage it. And then you'll end up wanting to be more rash than ever, just because you are so cross with yourself for having tried to play a role that doesn't suit you.
This is a relationship that it is almost impossible to bring to an end. The attraction is strong - and you will both keep changing your mind about whether or not it is really working. Is this bad or good?
It depends on what else our astrological love computer tells us in a few days time... But its certainly not all bad. Just resolve to enjoy what's good about it. And resolve too, to maintain that attitude, one day at a time, forever.
YOU FIXED, YOUR PARTNER FIXED
They say that heaven is a place on earth. They also of course, say the same about the other place. If you have turned to this reading because it you have an actual relationship of this kind, you will already know, for a fact, that one of those statements is true.
If you are 'just browsing' with a view to checking out a potential partner, you will probably want to know WHICH of those places you are likely to be transported to.
Let's put it this way. It will either be one or the other.
There's only one way to find out. For the first ten years or so, you probably won't be too sure. You'll probably decide to try another ten or twenty years, just to be on the safe side. The trouble is, if you are not careful, you will still go that way regardless of whether it is heaven or hell.
The attraction is strong. The ability to break the bond is small. The need to think very, very carefully is enormous. Unless of course, you are already in the relationship. In which case, we'd better look, at the other factors revealed by our love computer in PART TWO - just to make sure you both en
YOU FIXED, YOUR PARTNER CARDINAL
You love this person dearly. Which is just as well, because there are times when this relationship costs you dearly.
Your partner is a little too loose with money... and with promises. "Yes of course we'll do this" you overhear your loved one saying, on the phone. "We'll take two of those. Sign us up to that. Come round whenever you like, it's no problem." And, of course, to your partner, none of it IS a problem.
Their desire to be spontaneous is endearing until it starts tying you to a commitment you don't want to make. You like to be consulted. You like time to mull things over. You like to reserve the right so say 'no. Your partner understands this. Heaven knows you have made the point often enough. Yet you are together with someone who often forgets to ask, fails to think and loves to say 'yes'.
We are seizing here, on a small but irritating drawback to an otherwise good relationship. We mustn't forget the steamy, sizzling rapport and the constant sense of stimulation. There may well be enough, here, to make this relationship a great success.
YOU FIXED, YOUR PARTNER MUTABLE
You and your partner come from different planets.
That's not necessarily a bad thing. There's something rather wonderful about the way your loved one often transports you to another world.
There is though, a constant debate about which world is 'home'. You see your world as the 'real world''... yet you just can't make your loved one live in it. You are sharing your life with someone who is forever away with the fairies. You've got yourself a butterfly - or a bird of paradise. Lovely and pleasing though this is, you find all that floating and fluttering infuriating. You want to say "come on, let's be practical. Let's think about the future." Yet you are dealing with someone who makes everything up as they go along. Can't plan, hates to wait. That's quite a high price to pay for a sensational sex life.
So, you have a choice. Resign yourself to a life in which you are forever having to play the grown-up. Or loosen yourself up, a lot. It's one of the two. What you can't do is keep complaining about all that's not quite right. Or rather, you can. But it's not good for you.
You love this person dearly. Which is just as well, because there are times when this relationship costs you dearly.
Your partner is a little too loose with money... and with promises. "Yes of course we'll do this" you overhear your loved one saying, on the phone. "We'll take two of those. Sign us up to that. Come round whenever you like, it's no problem." And, of course, to your partner, none of it IS a problem.
Their desire to be spontaneous is endearing until it starts tying you to a commitment you don't want to make. You like to be consulted. You like time to mull things over. You like to reserve the right so say 'no. Your partner understands this. Heaven knows you have made the point often enough. Yet you are together with someone who often forgets to ask, fails to think and loves to say 'yes'.
We are seizing here, on a small but irritating drawback to an otherwise good relationship. We mustn't forget the steamy, sizzling rapport and the constant sense of stimulation. There may well be enough, here, to make this relationship a great success.
YOU FIXED, YOUR PARTNER MUTABLE
You and your partner come from different planets.
That's not necessarily a bad thing. There's something rather wonderful about the way your loved one often transports you to another world.
There is though, a constant debate about which world is 'home'. You see your world as the 'real world''... yet you just can't make your loved one live in it. You are sharing your life with someone who is forever away with the fairies. You've got yourself a butterfly - or a bird of paradise. Lovely and pleasing though this is, you find all that floating and fluttering infuriating. You want to say "come on, let's be practical. Let's think about the future." Yet you are dealing with someone who makes everything up as they go along. Can't plan, hates to wait. That's quite a high price to pay for a sensational sex life.
So, you have a choice. Resign yourself to a life in which you are forever having to play the grown-up. Or loosen yourself up, a lot. It's one of the two. What you can't do is keep complaining about all that's not quite right. Or rather, you can. But it's not good for you.
YOU MUTABLE, YOUR PARTNER MUTABLE
You have got what you deserve here. Someone who is as wacky, wild and irresponsible as you are. And just as proud of this! Oh, and just as indignant to hear themselves accused of all the above.
Read the last few sentences again please.
Notice how they contradict each other. That's how you contradict yourself, every day. It's also how your loved one does the same. You are both outrageously inconsistent. You both love to say one thing and do another.
Put you together and we don't just have a couple of nuts, we have a whole hazel tree. You match each other, whim for whim, fancy for fancy, idiosyncrasy for idiosyncrasy. You live together in a state of constant chaos. You both think it is the other's fault. The good news is, this hardly matters.
You can fulfil each others fantasies. You can provoke each other to new heights of daring. You can break all the rules of love and life - and get away with it. Assuming, of course, that you can ever find enough time with one another to develop a relationship in the first place. Some mutable/mutable pairs work better than others.
YOU MUTABLE, YOUR PARTNER CARDINAL
You just cannot resist one another. In one way, that's wonderful. Yet there are times when we all need to run into a little resistance. No matter how free we like to be, we need someone who can help keep us on the rails.
Your partner is more likely to help you build up such a head of steam that you end up flying right off the track. It's lovely to have your engine stoked and your whistle blown. But not when you are running up to the buffers.
This is a fine relationship as long as you are both heading down the same straight course with no obstructions. But when there's trouble ahead, your impulse is to avoid it. You create a last minute diversion and steer safely, cleverly clear. Your partner's preference is for a confrontation, a showdown, a test of strength. The trouble is not so much that you argue, more that you compromise in a way that exacerbates both your worst weaknesses.
Yet the excitement of all that drama and passion keeps you both inclined to carry on.
You have got what you deserve here. Someone who is as wacky, wild and irresponsible as you are. And just as proud of this! Oh, and just as indignant to hear themselves accused of all the above.
Read the last few sentences again please.
Notice how they contradict each other. That's how you contradict yourself, every day. It's also how your loved one does the same. You are both outrageously inconsistent. You both love to say one thing and do another.
Put you together and we don't just have a couple of nuts, we have a whole hazel tree. You match each other, whim for whim, fancy for fancy, idiosyncrasy for idiosyncrasy. You live together in a state of constant chaos. You both think it is the other's fault. The good news is, this hardly matters.
You can fulfil each others fantasies. You can provoke each other to new heights of daring. You can break all the rules of love and life - and get away with it. Assuming, of course, that you can ever find enough time with one another to develop a relationship in the first place. Some mutable/mutable pairs work better than others.
YOU MUTABLE, YOUR PARTNER CARDINAL
You just cannot resist one another. In one way, that's wonderful. Yet there are times when we all need to run into a little resistance. No matter how free we like to be, we need someone who can help keep us on the rails.
Your partner is more likely to help you build up such a head of steam that you end up flying right off the track. It's lovely to have your engine stoked and your whistle blown. But not when you are running up to the buffers.
This is a fine relationship as long as you are both heading down the same straight course with no obstructions. But when there's trouble ahead, your impulse is to avoid it. You create a last minute diversion and steer safely, cleverly clear. Your partner's preference is for a confrontation, a showdown, a test of strength. The trouble is not so much that you argue, more that you compromise in a way that exacerbates both your worst weaknesses.
Yet the excitement of all that drama and passion keeps you both inclined to carry on.
YOU MUTABLE, YOUR PARTNER FIXED
Your trouble is, you can't resist a challenge. Your partner CAN. All too easily. Your partner loves nothing more than to resist every challenge that ever crops up.
Nobody, but nobody, challenges your loved one and gets away with it. Apart, of course, from you. Some might describe the ensuing conflict as 'dynamic tension'. That's probably what you think it is. There's something quite thrilling about teasing, seducing or pushing someone past the point where they usually say 'enough is enough'.
When the object of the exercise is sensual pleasure, that's perfect. It probably explains why your poor, long suffering loved one keeps coming back for more. Yet when the same principle is applied to daily life, it makes every conversation a struggle; a tussle for power or a wrestling match for control.
As I say, you can't resist a challenge. It amuses you to keep exploring new options. Yet your partner prefers familiarity. Routine. consistency. Yawn.
How can someone be so lovely and yet so unadventurous? This is by no means a hopeless relationship. But it needs more than hope if it is to thrive.
Your trouble is, you can't resist a challenge. Your partner CAN. All too easily. Your partner loves nothing more than to resist every challenge that ever crops up.
Nobody, but nobody, challenges your loved one and gets away with it. Apart, of course, from you. Some might describe the ensuing conflict as 'dynamic tension'. That's probably what you think it is. There's something quite thrilling about teasing, seducing or pushing someone past the point where they usually say 'enough is enough'.
When the object of the exercise is sensual pleasure, that's perfect. It probably explains why your poor, long suffering loved one keeps coming back for more. Yet when the same principle is applied to daily life, it makes every conversation a struggle; a tussle for power or a wrestling match for control.
As I say, you can't resist a challenge. It amuses you to keep exploring new options. Yet your partner prefers familiarity. Routine. consistency. Yawn.
How can someone be so lovely and yet so unadventurous? This is by no means a hopeless relationship. But it needs more than hope if it is to thrive.
I think it's usually Cardinal signs who say "It's over"
I'm willing to bet mutables as a group almost rival fixed signs in terms of not saying those words, but for different reasons.
With us, we always accept the fluidity of life so we're not big on "It's over!" speeches.
Fixed signs won't say it's over, unless they reached their limit and it takes them a while to get there if they care about you.
I really can't imagine how the "It's over" talk would go between fixed and mutable.
Cardinals have it easier IMO.
I'm willing to bet mutables as a group almost rival fixed signs in terms of not saying those words, but for different reasons.
With us, we always accept the fluidity of life so we're not big on "It's over!" speeches.
Fixed signs won't say it's over, unless they reached their limit and it takes them a while to get there if they care about you.
I really can't imagine how the "It's over" talk would go between fixed and mutable.
Cardinals have it easier IMO.
I've mostly (90% ) dated Cardinals so..it was funny. When I said it was over they didn't take me seriously, when they said it was over I thought it was a prank.
We laughed about it first and then it was truly over lol.
We laughed about it first and then it was truly over lol.
No clue on mutable - mutable..well there was this Virgo Guy..we just drifted apart with no words or closure. No hard feelings either.
Oh and the Gemini..there was nothing there, which didn't stop him from calling me after 6 months passed and telling me I broke his heart. The craziness of mutables..smh.
Oh and the Gemini..there was nothing there, which didn't stop him from calling me after 6 months passed and telling me I broke his heart. The craziness of mutables..smh.
Posted by notyourtypePosted by Damnata
YOU CARDINAL, YOUR PARTNER FIXED
There are advantages to this relationship. In theory, your loved one can be a great 'grounding influence' on you.
Sadly, a lot of things that make sense "in theory" don't usually work out in practice/reality.click to expand
You're such a libra. And yeah, I agree.
I'm just lucky to be mutable, we substitute reality for delusion all the time.
Posted by PVandJelleh
LOL. Those were just my experiences Damnata. Don't think I actually used the term it's over though. More like "well maybe we should just go our separate ways.".
Exactly hon. That's what I was referring to..mutables go in circles lol.
You're with fixed like I am with Cardinals. To be honest it's hard to go from one approach to the other.
Posted by feby16aquaPosted by Damnata
Fixed signs won't say it's over, unless they reached their limit and it takes them a while to get there if they care about you.
True for me with fixed but according to pullen I am also all three 😛
Cardinal: 211.8 / 33.5%
Fixed: 225.7 / 35.7%
Mutuable: 193.8 / 30.7%click to expand
Stop rubbing that Pullen in my face, feb.
I have 44 cardinal, 42 mutable and..the rest is fixed.
They should've said : 50% cardinal, 50% mutable and be done with it.
I want more fixed 😭
Posted by feby16aquaPosted by Damnata
Stop rubbing that Pullen in my face, feb.
I have 44 cardinal, 42 mutable and..the rest is fixed.
They should've said : 50% cardinal, 50% mutable and be done with it.
I want more fixed 😭
lol! The fixed is good but sometimes the ego is tough to handle plus that stubbornness can be blinding and limiting.
I want more fire.
Fire: 125.2 / 19.8%
Earth: 94.2 / 14.9%
Air: 196.5 / 31.1%
Water: 215.3 / 34.1%
trade some fixed for some of that fire? 😄click to expand
You know what's funny? I lack fixed..and I lack air. Therefore I need an Aqua in my life 😄
My chart is extremely aspected with Uranus though so I am my own Aqua? I don't know how my inner Aqua would play with another Aqua though..I don't know Aqua-Aqua relationships.
And yeah, I shall give you fire..but not my Moon/Mars. Will you settle for Uranus/Saturn or even better..ascendant?
Posted by feby16aquaPosted by Damnata
You know what's funny? I lack fixed..and I lack air. Therefore I need an Aqua in my life 😄
My chart is extremely aspected with Uranus though so I am my own Aqua? I don't know how my inner Aqua would play with another Aqua though..I don't know Aqua-Aqua relationships.
And yeah, I shall give you fire..but not my Moon/Mars. Will you settle for Uranus/Saturn or even better..ascendant?
I like to play with other aquas but sometimes you can encounter an aqua beast and well...things don't go too well lol.
You don't want to trade moons for a day? I have a libra moon 😛 Could be very interesting. I have a cancer ascendant...I kind of like it. Where is your ascendant?click to expand
Absolutely. I'd love the Libra Moon.
We should try to arrange something so one day I will post libra moon style and you will post aries moon style .
Then we can look at each other and compare and gain understanding 😄. What say you, aqua?
Sagittarius..but my venus is in cancer so you like me because of that 😄
Posted by PVandJellehPosted by DamnataPosted by PVandJelleh
According to Pullen:
Fixed 37.9%
Mutable 33.5%
Cardinal 28.6%
DAMN YOU BOTH!
LOL!! Well this ought to make you feel better:
Air 42.2%
Earth 22.4%
Water 18.9%
Fire 16.5%
I lack fire and water. I'm emotionally deficient. 😭 Robot zone.click to expand
I'm all fire and water. Your Sun does help you with the water though.
Song for PVAF, to inspire her to be firewater 😄 :
You'll know if you run into Venus in Cancer folks..we'll try to feed you immediately lol.
And you will also notice the subtle way we ram on your door to let us in to take care of you when you're sick.
It's very subtle lol.
And you will also notice the subtle way we ram on your door to let us in to take care of you when you're sick.
It's very subtle lol.
mutable + mutable = disaster! (for me). i can't handle my OWN crazy sometimes, let alone someone else's crazy...
mutable+ fixed=BORING.
mutable+cardinal= GOOD! handled my crazy.
mutable+ fixed=BORING.
mutable+cardinal= GOOD! handled my crazy.
Mutable + cardinal here, virgo married to cancer. He double handles my inward crazy while I keep reality at bay. I said its over so many times at him, his reply is always so reasonable that I end up always staying. I always rely on my hubby to make me congenial woman yet.
I dated a gemini once. He asked me to marry him on our 2nd date. I was weird out. Six mos later, he broke it up, I was surprised but I accepted. A year later, his girlfriend emailed me to inform me that he still pining on me and at times would accidentally call her by my name. I showed that email to a friend who said that it might be him who emailed me but disguised himself. So lame.
I dated a Sagittarius once. Never again. Too controlling without grounds. Oh and he proposed 3 mos after I broke it off. So if he is not the one who call it off then it's still on.
I dated a gemini once. He asked me to marry him on our 2nd date. I was weird out. Six mos later, he broke it up, I was surprised but I accepted. A year later, his girlfriend emailed me to inform me that he still pining on me and at times would accidentally call her by my name. I showed that email to a friend who said that it might be him who emailed me but disguised himself. So lame.
I dated a Sagittarius once. Never again. Too controlling without grounds. Oh and he proposed 3 mos after I broke it off. So if he is not the one who call it off then it's still on.
Posted by PVandJellehPosted by DamnataPosted by PVandJelleh
According to Pullen:
Fixed 37.9%
Mutable 33.5%
Cardinal 28.6%
DAMN YOU BOTH!
LOL!! Well this ought to make you feel better:
Air 42.2%
Earth 22.4%
Water 18.9%
Fire 16.5%
I lack fire and water. I'm emotionally deficient. 😭 Robot zone.click to expand
O_O is that really yours, PV? you're actually airy earthy, a rational fishie. 😄
Posted by Damnata
Fixed signs won't say it's over, unless they reached their limit and it takes them a while to get there if they care about you.
*nods* Often it's not even said in an angry, aggressive or frustrated tone, simply..."Okay, we're done." I've been told it's a little too calm and eerie *shrug*.
Calm =/= IDGAF. It simply means my mind is made up.
I also don't go into theatrics/drama at all Phoenix..
All my break-ups were calm and usually came up in discussion. We both were aware it no longer worked so..why prolong the inevitable?
All my break-ups were calm and usually came up in discussion. We both were aware it no longer worked so..why prolong the inevitable?
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You need someone who will always keep you on your toes. That's precisely what you have got here. The two of you will never see eye to eye for more than a nanosecond. And that's precisely why you'll always keep wanting to look into one another's eyes.
Yes you'll argue. Wildly. Ridiculously. But never for long. Or at least, never for long about the same thing. You'll find something new to fall out about every day. And that will keep the relationship gloriously fresh. It will also ensure that your mattress requires regular replacement. But better a broken spring than a broken heart. And the happy truth about this particular planetary pairing is that, if the two of you ever manage to stop trying to outdo each other long enough to form a partnership in the first place, you will probably manage to make it last forever.
There are of course, more factors than this to consider before we can declare you an ideal couple. But you have passed the first test.
YOU CARDINAL, YOUR PARTNER FIXED
There are advantages to this relationship. In theory, your loved one can be a great 'grounding influence' on you. With this person at your side, you can finish more of those tasks that you start but somehow lose interest in. You can become less impulsive and more thoughtful. You can also enjoy a lot of long, fulfilling embraces.
The problem has nothing to do with the level of mutual attraction. That's high, bordering on uncontrollable. It's in the fact that passion is not the only uncontrollable force in this partnership. You are one. Your desire to keep proving your independence is another.
Much though you may love having this person by your side, there will be times when their requests for re-assurance may tire you. That said, many couples of your type manage to enjoy lifelong happy marriages. There needs though, to be another dynamic at work in the relationship. You need to develop a key common interest - and a way to be amused, rather than outraged, when your partner gives you so many orders in such a no nonsense tone of voice.