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A Gemini man told me he loved me on our 2nd date
Run!
Posted by truecapWhy?
Run!
Posted by LovesRedPosted by truecapWhy?
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It's a red flag.
It's not you he loves, it's the idea of you he loves or he doesn't know what true love is. You can't love someone when you don't know their true personality. To love someone you have to love their bad traits as well as their good ones.
He may really like you, but love is doubtful.
Besodes, people who fall in love fast, fall out of love just as fast.
Posted by starloverThis ^^^.
He wants sex with you
You cannot possibly love someone in such a short time
Run
It doesn't matter if you've been talking for 6 years. You can't "know" someone until you observe them in action and see for yourself what they are like. People pretend all the time on the internet/text/phone calls. You need to make sure they are who they say they are. People will tell you they are a certain way, but until you see it for yourself, don't believe it.
You're 29 years old, are you really that naive?
Posted by LovesRedThe OP says this ^^^^^^ which is intended to highlight that "a" Gemini man told you this on second date.
A Gemini man told me he loved me on our 2nd date.
It is in place to make the suggestion in the viewing audiences mind that "a" man likely stepped out of bounds, to say something way too fast.
I suppose you were looking for the dramatic effect ... because a person states the obvious to you, in that this is moving way too fast, you then turn around and state .....
Posted by LovesRed..... which is a completely different ball game all together. And you know that.
We have known of each other for the past 6 years but have only been talking every day getting to know each other past few weeks and then met in person last weekend.
So, that means you are playing for attention here.
Posted by LovesRedThe reality is .... you don't care how immature it is, you just want to told that you're loved.
Only the future will tell if he meant it!
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You put this same post on the Gemini board ... so, there's no question that you're dying for attention.
Posted by truecap
You're 29 years old, are you really that naive?
No, she's not.
to put the suggestion in the viewing audiences mind that she's new to him (2nd date) and then backtrack to say 6 years ..... means she is trying to play people for attention.
Posted by P-AngelWhy would I want attention from people that I do not know. I am simply searching for advice from an astrology point-of-view. Either way, think as you please as it does not bother me. If you have any expertise in the Gemini area then feel free to state your thoughts on that. Thanks.Posted by LovesRedThe OP says this ^^^^^^ which is intended to highlight that "a" Gemini man told you this on second date.
A Gemini man told me he loved me on our 2nd date.
It is in place to make the suggestion in the viewing audiences mind that "a" man likely stepped out of bounds, to say something way too fast.
I suppose you were looking for the dramatic effect ... because a person states the obvious to you, in that this is moving way too fast, you then turn around and state .....
Posted by LovesRed..... which is a completely different ball game all together. And you know that.
We have known of each other for the past 6 years but have only been talking every day getting to know each other past few weeks and then met in person last weekend.
So, that means you are playing for attention here.
Posted by LovesRedThe reality is .... you don't care how immature it is, you just want to told that you're loved.
Only the future will tell if he meant it!
You put this same post on the Gemini board ... so, there's no question that you're dying for attention.click to expand
I have expertise in the gemini male arena, but I'll add a disclaimer since my experience only revolves around one.
He said things he didn't mean.
He would have one opinion today, then another opinion tomorrow, and another the next day.
He was inconsistent.
He had no follow through.
He wanted what he wanted when he wanted it, but didn't want to work to get it.
Again, that's just ONE gemini male and may not be a general trait of this sign.
He said things he didn't mean.
He would have one opinion today, then another opinion tomorrow, and another the next day.
He was inconsistent.
He had no follow through.
He wanted what he wanted when he wanted it, but didn't want to work to get it.
Again, that's just ONE gemini male and may not be a general trait of this sign.
It's a hit or miss with Libra women.
They're either exceptionally bright ... or dumb as a box of rocks.
Nothing inbetween.
Guess which one you are?
Posted by P-AngelYou know, I thought this forum would be a safe place to open myself up for advice.
It's a hit or miss with Libra women.
They're either exceptionally bright ... or dumb as a box of rocks.
Nothing inbetween.
Guess which one you are?
Your comment towards me says more about you than myself. I believe in spreading love not negativity. Is there anything productive that can come out of a statement like yours? I personally think that you should practice a more kind-hearted approach to people, especially when they have done absolutely no hard to you. Best wishes.
Posted by LovesRedSpread the love, baby!Posted by P-AngelYou know, I thought this forum would be a safe place to open myself up for advice.
It's a hit or miss with Libra women.
They're either exceptionally bright ... or dumb as a box of rocks.
Nothing inbetween.
Guess which one you are?
Your comment towards me says more about you than myself. I believe in spreading love not negativity. Is there anything productive that can come out of a statement like yours? I personally think that you should practice a more kind-hearted approach to people, especially when they have done absolutely no hard to you. Best wishes.click to expand
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Posted by LovesRed
You know, I thought this forum would be a safe place to open myself up for advice.
You've attempted to manipulate your viewing audience into believing you are of special value ... by saying it says it all when the words "after 2nd date" was uttered.
so long you lie, dxp will never be a safe place for you ... because I'll rip the bubble open every time, so your viewing audience can see your real intentions.
And that is all this is. You want people to go "awe, wow, she's amazing, after just 2nd date, omg, I wish I was her" < that is what you're fishing for. There would be no other reason for you to say it in the title, and then reiterate it says it all in the OP.
You're not going to fool me. You say you want to spread love ... but, then what your actions are spreading is deception.
Posted by LovesRedI think you should practice a more honest approach, especially when the other side of your mouth says it wants love and productivity
I personally think that you should practice a more kind-hearted approach to people, especially when they have done absolutely no hard to you.
Thread Title: A Gemini man told me he loved me on our 2nd date
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Posted by LovesRed
The title sums it up. A Gemini man told me he loved me on our 2nd date. Insight on this?
Which means the intention of this thread is to make your viewing audience believe you are so very special that a guy would jump for the opportunity to bestow upon you the honor of being loved. Your intents is to make a false impression.
Because the truth is ... you've known him for 6 years.
Furthermore, you additionally try to deceive by saying "a" Gemini man, which by using that article in front of the noun "Gemini man", you are identifying the type of noun he is as being random.
When in reality, he isn't random man on 2nd date .. he's someone you've know for 6 years.
You can cry all you want about being nice and being positive on my end ... it won't change the fact that this thread is a deception for attention
Posted by LovesRed
about a month ago and then he decided he liked me enough to fly in for the weekend to see me. He left the country yesterday
Before meeting and still texting he would mention things like how I would make the perfect bride.
So, it wasnt' even 2nd date ..
Lucky you, he said the word, "bride" also .... I'll bet your panties are soaking wet.
Posted by blackphaseSo this person is notorious for this type of negative behavior on this forum?Posted by P-AngelDa fuck? How is that her saying that she is of special value? You read wayyyyy too much into shit ffs. The second date is soon, she likely found it odd, she is asking for our opinion on the matter.. hopefully she soon realizes that yours does not matter just like the rest of us have.Posted by LovesRed
You know, I thought this forum would be a safe place to open myself up for advice.
You've attempted to manipulate your viewing audience into believing you are of special value ... by saying it says it all when the words "after 2nd date" was uttered.
so long you lie, dxp will never be a safe place for you ... because I'll rip the bubble open every time, so your viewing audience can see your real intentions.
And that is all this is. You want people to go "awe, wow, she's amazing, after just 2nd date, omg, I wish I was her"
You're not going to fool me. You say you want to spread love ... but, then what your actions are spreading is deception.
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Nah he just was caught up in the moment he doesn't even know you yet he needs to put more time in. I dated a Gemini in the beginning of the year tried to tell me the same thing I never said it back because reality is he didn't know me. You have to watch out for things like that. I'm a romantic but I'm practical so take that with a grain of salt for now. Words are just words for air signs and Mercury people.
Posted by elusivexy_spiritI'd respond the same.
I wonder how others would respond if it wasn't a gemini man
Posted by truecapThat's gemini in a nutshell.
Besodes, people who fall in love fast, fall out of love just as fast.
Posted by risesafterallI notice this is some fire signs, too.Posted by truecapThat's gemini in a nutshell.
Besodes, people who fall in love fast, fall out of love just as fast.click to expand
Posted by truecapLibras are like this as well.Posted by risesafterallI notice this is some fire signs, too.Posted by truecapThat's gemini in a nutshell.
Besodes, people who fall in love fast, fall out of love just as fast.click to expand
But anyone who does this is one to avoid.
OP, you didn't ask this for honest answers, you asked this for validation. Get your silly whore ass out of here with that nonsense and come back when you decide to be a real adult.
Run, run RUN I REPEAT RUN!!!! any many that tells you that on the 2nd date, HUGE RED FLAG! I've had a personal experience like this. Guy I was dating for 3 weeks, same sign as me, same birthday even.. well I was breaking up with him, then he comes up saying he was going to purpose! I freaked. I was like dude we barley know one another... I don't like to rush into things, famous earth sign... Reason why I won't date an air sign. They are very good people don't get me wrong.
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