Advice or simple input

I am a Gemini that was in a relationship for a year with an Aquarius man. Two to three days prior to our 1 yr anniversary we had what I considered a minor dispute where I would not open up and tell him what was bothering me after he changed MAJOR plans. At the time I shut down he opted to do some name calling such as immature brat and drama queen. At that time I pointed out this was not acceptable to me. He then ask me if my ex had contacted me followed by NO RESPONSE to anything I said (asking how he was if he was up for work ect just like I had done previously) Then on the day of our 1 year anniversary he finally responded by telling me he was done, that" our personalities do not go together well. I can't keep dong this. We have a lot of ups and downs with more downs this is not good for either of us" I attempted for a few days to contact him but he would not respond to anything I said it has now been little over 2 weeks since the conflict and almost 2 weeks since the break up. It has been 10 days since I last reached out to him. I guess my question is can I take him at his word and assume he really is done? It all seems so crazy to me because the day before the conflict he was adamant about flying me out to were he is working.



UPDATE!!! Last night we had tornados fairly close to where I live. He messaged me this morning saying he had seen the storms and ask if I was ok. I responded Yes I am ok........but that was all that was said. I guess I just need to accept that it really is over, shouldn't I?

Well first understand that Aqua guys tend to run on their own schedule. They do tend to make/break plans, but I guess it all depends on how major those plans were. To you those plans may have been major, but again Aquas march to the beat of their own drum.

Anyway refusing to open up when he tried asking you what was wrong, wasn't the best approach. Aquas are emotionally detached and respond better to rational thought than emotion. Letting him know calmly why you were upset with him would have been the best strategy.

Side note: Astrology aside, it's always best to take the emotionally mature route and communicate your feelings with your partner if you want to avoid unnecessary drama like this. Of course he shouldn't have followed up your silence by calling you childish names either.

Sounds like the relationship became too emotionally intense for him, so he bailed. The one thing to know is that when an Aqua goes silent, there's not much you can do to get them talking again until THEY decide to communicate with you. All you can do is move on with your life at that point. He ended the relationship after all, so there's no reason to think that he's not serious about the break up.

If an Aqua REALLY cares about you, they'll reach back out to you eventually in some capacity. That doesn't mean they want to get back together though. It's also likely he'll start contacting you again as if nothing had ever happened. I suggest you take his words at face value and consider your relationship over.